Going braless in a big T-shirt at my boyfriends house... even when roommates are around?

[Anonymous]

I didn’t really think it would be an issue until now. I stay at my boyfriends house a lot (it’s his house, he’s the landlord) and he has 2 roommates (1 guy 1 girl). Anyway, I usually wear one of his big t shirts, and some shorts to bed, and I usually don’t wear a bra (My chest is on the bigger side). I usually stay in his room when I’m like that, but there might be nights that I’m getting water, or cooking a quick meal with him, and his roommates will be there too and we’ll all just talk. Nobody has said anything about it, but I’m sure they notice that I’m not wearing a bra. Is that too much? Should I start putting a bra on whenever I know I'm gonna leave his room? He told me I don’t have to, but i don’t know how it might look from somebody else’s point of view.

[SlothySlob]

From your bf's shoes, I imagine that it's ok to him because of lust, pride and a general sense of "who gives a fuck".
If his roommates are any bit of adult, they'd not give a fuck.
The problem here is you and your perception of how others perceive you.
You can either be "Yeah, my nipples are poking out, what about it?" or "Yeah, my nipples are poking out, I'm sorry".

[Goforit1010]

It sounds like it bothers you, based on possible looks or glances you got.

Suggestion: Wear a sports bra to corral your girls. This isn't as restrictive as some other bras are, and should mostly hide the likelyhood of your nipples from showing. This also will keep the girls from swaying freely about, under your T-shirt.

[Just_a_human]

My mother doesn't like to wear bras either. I don't know your cup size or how the shirts fit you but from what I've seen, it looks disgusting and it's very noticeable when they don't have a bra on.

[linds34]

I think it's fine, you should be able to dress comfortably at your boyfriend's house.

[oncpl]

You don't have to wear bra just for the purpose that your bf's roommate might have seen noticed. You have to see your own comfort. I never ask my wife to wear bra or be careful when friends are around.

[Scarecrow13]

I would say don't worry about it. No one has had a problem with it so far. And even if they did, why should they care?

[_SOARER_]

Wear the bra, it will be better. If you have to ask about it. Its better to just do it :)

[devil_8888]

Well since you have big boobs, your boobs and nipples will show up if you don’t bear bra. That’s really gonna give boner to the roommate!!

[Anonymous]

If you have big nipples and breasts it would look sexy and beautiful to be braless

[Asker]

I do but I’m not sure if that’s like “too much” around the roommates

[Opinion Owner]

It surely is " too much" for any guy
If you don't mind unwanted glares by them then go ahead

[Casey10101]

naa they seem pretty chill about it

[Anonymous]

Dont wear bra