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Holding grudges is a waste of energy, energy i don't have lol... I'm very easy going for the most part
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I like to say that I don't hate people, I just hate certain behaviors. A similar thing applies with grudges. If someone wrongs me, yes I have to associate the wrongdoing with the person. And yeah I'll definitely not want to be around them. It will seem like a grudge but the association isn't finite. It can be completely altered if the behavior changes.
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Kinda hard for me to answer. I think I'm the type of person that let's things go pretty easily for the most part.
For example, if it's a fight with my family like mom or brother, I might get annoyed or angry in the moment, but after the fight ends, and I have my space to go into my own mind, I quickly remember how much I love them and all the reasons why and this is just a bump in the road. Then I'll try to apologize explaining why I acted the way I did and hope they understand.
For someone an acquaintance or someone I don't know too well, I tend to remember them for specific interaction. If they piss me off or make me angry, I do tend to hold a grudge and try to avoid them altogether, because I've decided their character sucks and they're not the type of person I'd get along with.
And finally for a partner, I'm in the middle. We tend to judge our partners the hardest, while also staying the most lenient with them and taking the most shit from them. If my partner makes me angry, I try to take my space for a bit then once I've calmed down I explain my thoughts on whatever they did. I'm a pretty logical guy, so while I am wrong sometimes my partners have told me I'm usually right and after they hear what I say they usually end up apologizing and saying they won't act that way in the future. And if I was the one that fucked up, and I come to realize that after taking my space, I fess up and admit my mistake.
In a relationship, communication and the desire to get through conflict is a must, because in most relationships, it's gonna happen. Can't just give up after every fight or something that irks you in that person. Used to, but it honestly doesn't benefit anyone.
If something bothers me, I'll talk about it with that person.
If they aren't willing to acknowledge my feelings or if we cannot find a middle ground, I'll either let go of them, or keep my distance.
The only difficult case is with regards to family. Unfortunately there are some gaslighters in my family and I don't have the heart to break off contact, even when it would be better for my own mental health.
If there were any people I held a grudge against, they would be relatives.
Other than that I cannot think of anyone who deserves to occupy that much unwanted and detrimental time on my mind.
So yeah, I'll let go.-
I think we need to redefine this "grudge" and say its the inabilty to trust someone based on a severe exploitation of a vulnerability and therefore you put a boundary in place to ensure that it may never happen again. I think I do hold something against someone after they do something horrible, I'm not someone that goes on about small things I'll let it slide , however, if you do something big enough to hurt me you'll remain in that position. I am very big on you NEVER do to me what I don't do to you.
I don't know if I ever answered this, I haven't been on the app in a long while BUT!!
i don't hold grudges. well, not really. it honestly depends what it is. sometimes it will take me a few minutes to get over it while something big and horrible will take a year or so. otherwise, no. i don't really hold grudges. i try not to 💔933 opinions shared on Other topic. Holding a grudge is pointless. It's much more fun to watch them crap themselves after a fight when you're friendly towards them.
Giving someone who pissed you off a homemade favourite meal is great fun. Sometimes adding a secret ingredient can be entertaining as well...
Oregano, chilli flakes, eye Drops, whatever works for you 😉6K opinions shared on Other topic. Ask me after I am dead.
32 years ago, I got a broken heart and never recovered and it haunts me every fucking day.Holding grudges it’s a waste of energy. I am not insecure, or have the need to feel like I need to prove myself to anyone.
Anyone who feel the need to prove themselves only reveal the insecurities they have within.
So I just live with no fuck given. it’s like ooh you were there, ohh you were about me, ooh you saw me, ooh all that efforts was tryna get my attention?
Who are you again? Okay! Good for you?- 1.5K opinions shared on Other topic.
Depends. I think they keep you young. My grandpa lived till 96 and that man held grudges. From 1937 when one of his buddies owed him five dollars. The crazy thing was the man died when they were in their 80s. You know my grandpa still brought it up he never got his five dollars or really not even a cent from whatever more money his buddy borrowed. This went into a whole diatribe of all the people that he felt did him wrong.
I hold grudges, cause holding grudges is what let’s me know who is who, and what they’re about.
Im never letting shit go, and I’m never letting shit slide.
If anything I’ll save the proof of wrong doings online forever, so that I can use it as a weapon, or expose you in the future. 🫵
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I don't... it eats too many resources needed for everyday life. I can be angry, hurt, pissed off... but after the initial peak of emotions, I try to move on.
I also can't say it's happening easily because it's not possible when emotions are involved.
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I let go pretty easily, life is too short to hold grudges etc, yes I remain pissed off with some people but don’t hold grudges. I learn not to trust those people but that’s it.
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I’m terrible at holding grudges. I can try but I have a hard time hating people. Lol..
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nope... I don't hold grudges, that would be harming myself... and I'm not into that, lol
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I can hold a grudge extremely easily. Almost like a judgement from thereafter that this person is the worst... However I can drop one pretty quickly with a few good interactions assuming the person isn't a POS then I'll very easily hold it forever
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I used to be like that but i've definitely improved.
if anyone has seriously wronged me ill try to work it out but if they show no signs of wanting to improve im outta there. ill cut them out
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I don't usually hold grudges. I'm someone that tends to get over things fairly quickly. But to be fair, if someone criticizes me for doing something, but that person did the exact same thing in the past, I'm going to point it out
377 opinions shared on Other topic. Because I believe in Karma , I just let it go , I dont seek revenge or get angry as that only hurts the inner me , and I like feeling good , I won't seek out the individual or the like , but will just try and learn from the circumstance.
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Depends what was done to me. I guess I tend to be stubborn if you hurt me, but regular things I am easy to forget.
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Depends. Most of the time I let that stuff go. There are a few people, however, that can comfortably reside on my shit list forever. Most transgressions are forgivable but some are not.
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