Do you hold grudges or do you let go of things easily?

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Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

It depends on things. People with bad intentions I never forgive or forget I might let it go emotionally but you can't come around later and think we're cool or something. My ex housemate/landlord tried this he was an absolute asshole abusing his power, ripping me off and now he texted me like we were friends or something I just ignore him. But some things like people say things and it comes off in a rude way but they didn't really mean it or just mistaes that happen in everyday life I don't hold grudges over that. Most things I just let go but there are things I keep in mind.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I hold grudges... for about four minutes, and then I'm over it

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

I don’t hold grudges anymore. I left that toxic trait long time ago. It just weighs me down and is hurting my heart. I just let go of them and move forward. I may not let go of things easily but I promised myself to not let this stop myself from healing.

whereismyjohnny · Accepted Answer

I choose to let go of things. Holding onto grudges is pointless and only brings harm.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

On big shite I'll track you down and follow you across continents to watch your world slow-burn. Most shite is trivial and I don't care though.

rosemilk · Answer

i'll hold a grudge till the end. not proud of it but meh

HawkPerception · Answer

When it comes to acquaintances, I'm pretty quick to burn bridges and hold grudges forever. But when it comes to loved ones, I tend to let go of things rather easily (unless my partner cheats on me or something). Love is more important than whatever little squabble you got into. It all passes.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Both.

I let go of things fairly easily unless they're real bad or get chronically annoying.

If I draw a line and someone crosses it, especially repeatedly or intentionally, I'll hold that grudge unforgivingly.

tfan1 · Answer

I used to but someone told me in the Bible that you have to forgive others even though they did wrong to you. And so I did. I forgave everyone who screwed me over my life because the saying, what goes around comes around and karma.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I usually forgive 🙂. The only time I held a grudge is when the person is was not sorry and continued to do the same things that hurt me

DarkSpectrum811 · Answer

It would have to be something pretty messed up for that grudge to exist. I joke a lot so that usually negates such things but it depends what it is and if it’s something highly incorrect.

A_Bell · Answer

I don't hold my emotions in, so I don't hold grudges or feel the need to nurse anger toward someone. If I am upset, I try to express why clearly and quickly, then resolve it before the sun goes down.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I try to understand the perspective of this person. I don't hold grudges

Nikki1989 · Answer

Life is too short for that nonsense. I just move on.

Massageman · Answer

Oh I forgive them, but I still hold them accountable for the crap they've done (especially contractors).

JacobJordan · Answer

I can't hold grudges. Have tried doesn't work

Jessica405 · Answer

Life is too short to hold grudges. You are the one it affects more. Let things go. They are never worth hangingbon to.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

No grudges for me, In fact i just forget and move on lol. No one is worth my time for that haha

Surely · Answer

I tend to put my grudges in the back of my mind. But not forgotten. That way I can pull them out in the future if the situation warrants it!

OtterMan68 · Answer

As a Christian, I must forgive: forgive, not forget, and forgiveness leads me to now hold grudges

Paris13 · Answer

I am Veryyy Forgiving but Lousy At----Forgetting. xxoo

BLP11520 · Answer

I don’t hold grudges I forgive people it’s better for your overall health,❤️

LaurenM1997 · Answer

It depends on what you did

LiamJHayden · Answer

I let it go easily.

Lizardman64 · Answer

I can hold a grudge forever.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I let most things go easily

jahaims · Answer

Depends on context

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