Not really. I suppose there are some things that someone could do for which I would not forgive them, but holding a grudge implies that I would be walking around still upset/angry at the person. If someone did something really, really bad, I would just move on and not think about them after a short period of time.

Being an Aries I'm an emotional person, I tend to lose my temper fast but also I calm down and forget fast, so no I rarely hold grudges.

I used to but I had people pray for me and that changed my personality in crazily big ways. I am afraid to hold grudges now, just like some people are afraid of snakes or heights. I view it as spiritually hazardous to your life and your salvation.

Not really hold a grudge but If I write someone off then I move on and I don't ever look back. I'm just done with that person. I don't necessarily hold onto anger towards them, I just don't ever think about them again. I'm done

As a teen I had anger issues, but I learned how to manage it. As an adult, I do get angry and hold grudges, but it doesn't last. Negative energy is a waste of resources, so I don't hold grudges anymore. If someone is negative, then I just avoid them.

No. I forgive, but I won't forget. I can still be friendly with that person, unless they bring up the problem I had with them.

Life's too short which is why you keep moving forward vs backwards and let karma bite them in the ass

No I do not life is short and I like to clear the Air

Sure do. It also depends on what happened for me to hold it.

I try very hard not to. But I'm human and it can happen every so often.

No, there is no sense in doing so.

Do you hold grudges?

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Not really. I suppose there are some things that someone could do for which I would not forgive them, but holding a grudge implies that I would be walking around still upset/angry at the person. If someone did something really, really bad, I would just move on and not think about them after a short period of time.

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  Same here!!
  
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- Karate_Guy
  
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  @thegreenyogi That's good. I think that is a healthier way to live. :-)
  
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- thegreenyogi
  
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  It is!! Life is way too short to hold on to anger!!
  
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Being an Aries I'm an emotional person, I tend to lose my temper fast but also I calm down and forget fast, so no I rarely hold grudges.

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  Good for you!! Thank you for sharing!
  
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- nudeNhorny
  
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  No problem at all.
  
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- nudeNhorny
  
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  Thanks for the MHO 🌷
  
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- thegreenyogi
  
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  You're very welcome!!🤗🥰
  
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I used to but I had people pray for me and that changed my personality in crazily big ways. I am afraid to hold grudges now, just like some people are afraid of snakes or heights. I view it as spiritually hazardous to your life and your salvation.

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Not really hold a grudge but If I write someone off then I move on and I don't ever look back. I'm just done with that person. I don't necessarily hold onto anger towards them, I just don't ever think about them again. I'm done

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As a teen I had anger issues, but I learned how to manage it. As an adult, I do get angry and hold grudges, but it doesn't last.

Negative energy is a waste of resources, so I don't hold grudges anymore. If someone is negative, then I just avoid them.

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No. I forgive, but I won't forget. I can still be friendly with that person, unless they bring up the problem I had with them.

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Life's too short which is why you keep moving forward vs backwards and let karma bite them in the ass

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No I do not life is short and I like to clear the Air

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Sure do. It also depends on what happened for me to hold it.

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I try very hard not to.
But I'm human and it can happen every so often.

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No, there is no sense in doing so.

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Sure thing... I'm not mellow

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no never,

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Yep.

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Nope

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