I'm pregnant, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm turning 18 in a couple weeks and I just found out I'm pregnant. I've never freaked out more in my life, I don't know if I should keep it or abort it. Ofc I need to tell my mum first but that seems like the scariest thing I have to do. Thank god my boyfriend is by my side anything I do but I really don't know what to do please give me any advice

[joehypo1]

I will try to make this short , a friend of mine has had abortion in the past and she got pregnent and due to her having high blood pressure she was not able to have the procedure so she went on line and did her research and found a couple locally that had been trying to adopt she reached out and made thia couples dream come true and its been a year now and she sends me pictures of this little boy that looks just like her and i know that after this boy was born she thinks about the ones in the past when i say ones is because the last procedure was twins but it really has messed with her head you should do what ever you want and have the support you need its scary but if you end up having it just know you won't regret it one bit your life will change for the good i have a 22 year old duaghter and i still wish she was 7 we had such a blast there were tough times but the good times out weighed the bad by far. What ever you choose in my mind is the right choice good luck

[Anonymous]

At first. Take a deep breath. I know it's scary, but please tell your mum. yes she will be mad and worried at first. But she will help you with this. Or at least tell someone who is a adult about it. It can also be a doctor, a teacher or whatever. Talk to someone about it and discuss everything. Think about abortion, think about if both you and your boyfriend are stable enough financially and mentally to take care for the kid. Discuss every option there might be. This is quite a big dicicion to make, so talk to someone about it to get a lot of help and guidence.

Honestly, a lot of Americans are anti-abortion and anti-women. So I think you wouldn't get much support here from them.

Goodluck! I wish you the best.

[Simslover92]

You have three options:

Abortion
Adoption
Or keep the baby.

All are very hard options and I feel for you, I really do. You should tell your mom asap though so she can help you with your decision possibly.

[menina]

This is really difficult, I'm so sorry. I'd say that first you should talk to your mom. Hopefully she'll support you. But I suppose that you should give the baby for adoption if you're not ready to be a mother.

[OlderAndWiser]

Kill your baby and you will regret it for the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

More of Americans are against abortion, so don't expect as much support there, but I support you. And if you wanted to go to end of term on the pregnancy, and give it up for adoption, many would support that, but it would be hell on you, and harder on the kid.

Use protection. Don't let this happen again. You're playing with a life and their mental sanity... and yours.

[NoMoreIn24]

I know this must be hard for you. If I were in your shoes I would feel scared. I would feel lost. I also know if I chose abortion that I would always wonder and give over such a choice. If I wasn't financially stable, and I don't feel that I could take care of my baby and give my child what it needed I would place him/her up for adoption. That way my baby had a chance at life and a good one. I wish you all the best on your choice.

[LazerBean]

Put the baby up for adoption, there are many families out there willing to give a loving home.

[justabuddy]

First off take a deep breath. Your life may change but it won't end. Everything you do here needs to be thought out, so take your time. Best to tell everyone at some point. Talk things over with the boy friend.

[Danny_dan92]

Oh wow. Get an abortion if possible then.




Otherwise best of luck. Should’ve focused in your academics instead of dick but you can’t go back in time

[Asker]

Why do you feel the need to be disrespectful about it? Do you know me or how I do at school? Just because I ended up in this situation doesn't mean I'm any less smart or any less of a person.

[Danny_dan92]

I’m just saying because you clearly had reckless unprotected sex.

Did you know you where having unprotected sex? Cause it sounds like you being pregnant came as a surprise.

I’m definitely sure you have had sex ed by both your parents and school given your age.

That’s why I’m criticizing you, I know I sound like an asshole. But given your situation and obvious decision making abilities you really need to be told these things.

Otherwise life is going to give you some harsh wake up calls. This growing child inside you being the first one

[KittygosMeoWW]

You know your options, tell your mom she will help you execute your decision whatever it may be. Please know that should you keep the baby it will always be your responsibility and someone’s childhood will be at stake.

[Anonymous]

That is your choice, you have three options which only you can decided which is best for you. There is no wrong answer to this situation. Many people have they're views on things and I would just listen to what you want. Good luck and I hope for the best.

[Anonymous]

You are way too young for a baby
You need to think if you want your freedom stripped away from you and your focus on something that needs 100% of your attention at such a young age.

[Anonymous]

Ask your boyfriend to push you down the stairs or punch you in the stomach. That's probably the cheapest route to go. Not always effective though. You might just end up having a kid that has to wear a helmet.

[FunkyMonkee]

Only 2 things you CAN do, have the kid or abort.

[QuietRunner]

it is your body

you choose

[Anonymous]

Keep it or go for adoption.

[Uniboys_20]

May be

[Anonymous]

Unplanned I assume

[Anonymous]

Abort it