Traditional Guys That Want a Working Partner?

[Anonymous]

If you’re one of the guys that want a partner that works and expect her to look good, raise the kids, cook, give you attention, keep the house clean and be in a good mood and smiling for you all the time.

How?

[Anonymous]

I am a caring man and I expect my partner to be the same way, she must have a good financial basis and be independent, I must also like her aesthetically of course, so look good.

the other things you mentioned (cooking, housework, care) we can both do for each.

[Asker]

This makes a lot more sense. Some guys specifically the ones I mentioned above… I just don’t understand.

[Opinion Owner]

I am a carier man, I misspelled sorry ahah

[Opinion Owner]

However, I love to help my partner in the housework, in the kitchen, for me there is no such thing as a woman only taking care of the house, we can share tasks for example.

[Asker]

That’s great!

[Phoenix98]

I am traditional but I don't expect anything out of a partner that I don't expect out of myself. I'd only have a partner do all that if she was a stay at home mom that's the only way I think that's acceptable.

[Asker]

That’s fair for the one staying at home to pick up more of the chores.

[Phoenix98]

Mhmm.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Exactly
I don't want kids so I'll never have to worry 😭😭😂😆

[Asker]

Lol well that makes sense!

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hooray, I came first place for something in life so far for once, I am a winner lol thank you trophy 🏆 for not being "another guy that's stuck in a circumstance they changed their mind on" as you Asker wrote, you know, some guys just aren't you know family guys lol some are some aren't. I feel like I'd be in over my head and I'd find it anxious and constantly nerve wracking I'll take the single life anyday. OR, wife or girlfriend who never ever wants offspring, not even a cat (or maybes pet, maybe, ok lol )

[Asker]

Lol hey so many people nowadays that don’t want kids. You just need to find one that you’re compatible with.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Mm hmm 🤔

[BarryLiverstone]

Because she’s my parter and together we conquer life. If she’s left to do all that on her own isn’t it nearly impossible?

[BarryLiverstone]

by the way no one is in a good mood and always smiling. That’s hella creepy

[Asker]

When you started with because I thought you’re like what I described above. Which I know for a fact these people exist.

I’m glad you have a beautiful outlook on what a relationship is.

And yes it does sound nearly impossible and if done… exhausting.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s very exhausting and very unfair. If they got married that means they became one person, a unit; which is what marrying comes from in origin. So he should be stepping up as much as she is.

Yes sadly they exist but most of them are brainwashed in a sense and haven’t had a relationship. So when they do you will see their perspectives change.

Thank you for the kind words and know that married couples struggle together

[BarryLiverstone]

What does a trad woman want?

[Asker]

Hmm I’m not really sure! Could be a good question to ask here.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes I could ask. Guess that means you are not traditional

[Asker]

I’d say I’m probably traditional in some ways but not in others.

[BarryLiverstone]

Same thing about me. Was raised trad but at 17 in college I started to open up

[Asker]

I guess it’s a good thing to learn from both sides and take what works for you.

[BarryLiverstone]

I agree. It’s best to have harmony and select the best from both. Feel like it also allows me empathy for helping others.

[BarryLiverstone]

Tbh I feel like the extremes on both sides are dangerous. But that’s a topic beyond your question so I’ll respect you and not share here

[Asker]

Agreed!
I mean hey I don’t mind… whatever you’re comfortable sharing (or not) but yeah too much of anything is not great.