Have you ever been stalked?

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strateguy632 · Accepted Answer

not really but i noticed people following me. so i turned around, opposite direction n they still followed me... i shook off a few...

by going into a shop each time n waiting until they passed. they didn't follow me in luckily.

only 3 followed me in creepy way so i confronted them.

once in manhattan i walked to exit a bus n a guy rushed to the door by driver. he kept turning to see me.

i got ssuspicious n stopped by the back door n waited so he would go down, if he just wanted that place, wasn't following me... but he stopped too! i dangled a foot out the back door... he jumped down!

i pulled it in, deciding to detour! he jumped back in! by the driver who complained "stop that!"

i went down out but he followed me. i turned back n passed him so he switched direction too, to follow me! i confronted him, " i need to go that way."

he lied "me too." and followed. i turned back around again... he followed again.

i warned him "i will walk to the local police station if you will follow me there" he said "i am just walking". he followed until i got near the cop building then turned away.

in high scool dorm also 2 followed me. one i knew was an angry bully, i mean hits. after lunch i left the lunch room on a snowy November day. i walked towards the gym where i used to jog. it was usualy empty in lunch break. i jogged after lunch not waiting the half hout but luckily never got cramps. but should wait. i heard snow crunching n saw the bully. younger than me but taller n bigger too. i feared he would follow me to the empty gym n "show he was stronger".

but only stronger than a weak little guy not really strong!

i turned back n passed him so he turned back n followed! all the way to the dorm n into my dorm room!

i confronted him, "why are you in my dorm room" he said "i came to warn you i am gonna shove your face in the snow when __ is watching". i said "i will tell people you lay in my bed in the dorm today". he ran out n never pushed me nor hit me.

the third guy followed me, also younger hi scool year. and taller muscular. i confronted him n he said "he wanted to take walks with someone, but being in different scool years he didn't ask" so he just took the walk by followed me. so i agreed to set a time so we walked together n talked about sports n stand up comedy. so that was good.

whoo i should write a autobiography. lol.

AngryCarl · Accepted Answer

Not exactly but I've had people become overly familiar, which I regard as the first stage. Some people have the awareness to step back from going full stalker mode. Why, have you?

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

No. But once when I was younger I walked to the store with my sister. I was waiting for her outside standing in front of the store it also had a gas station beside it so it was busy. Anyways there was this guy with a baseball hat on the side walk just staring at me. I looked at him then looked away and pretended I wasn't paying attention but he was staring at me the whole time. I was getting bored of waiting for my sister and wanted to walk home but I knew he was staring at me so I started walking one way away from the store and he followed me on the sidewalk I was watching him on the side of my eye, so I walked back to the store and then walked the other way he followed me again. So I went back to the store. Some lady drove up to me and said do you know that man he is staring at you? I was like no and I said I know he is. She asked me if I wanted a ride home but I said no my sister is in the store, she asked if I was sure, I said yeah. I waited about 5 minutes more for my stupid sister to come out she was literally talking inside to the clerk for 30 minutes. I told her about the guy as soon as she came out and we walked past him and I looked at him to try to see his face but he turned. Then I told her to lets run just in case because he was creepy as fuck.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Yes by someone who was mad i rejected him for being bi. I told him he can happily date whoever but that i prefer a straight man. He was offended and has been trying to follow and go off on me since 2021. And i can tell he's trolling because he says random incestual stuff which is even worse than the bisexual stuff he wanted me to agree with

WhiteSteve · Answer

Not seriously enough that I’d want to compare it to real stalking. But I did have a girl back in college who was kind of showing up at my apartment after what I thought was a platonic, casual conversation at a party. She was a roommate of my roommate’s girlfriend, and she lived a couple of buildings over in our complex. I had to tell my roommates to tell her I wasn’t home when she’d come by looking for me. I’d legit be hiding upstairs in my bedroom til she went away, lmfao. So…. it was uncomfortable, but not to serious and didn’t last long. I can only imagine what being stalked for real is like, yikes.

Although @7Phoenix7 does rustle around in my bushes some nights, and I pretend not to notice….🛀🌳🔭👀🌳

Beckybooboo · Answer

Yes, twice when I was a waitress and twice in college. The guys in college wasn’t really a serious problem, they were a pain but they didn’t scare me. When I was a waitress, two guys, on different occasions stalked me. The police actually had to get involved, those times I was scared.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Multiple times. It wasn't always for romantic reasons, it could have been I offended them with something I said, or I angered them with my religious teachings etc... One guy spent 4 years gossiping me about me and trying to ruin my reputation cause I caught him abusing his girlfriend and he wanted to turn his friends against me so I would not get a chance to tell them he was a wife beater.

SolitarySolace · Answer

No, but I have been falsely accused of stalking. Had to take her to court to get an ex parte ppo removed and all I could do was replace it with a civil temporary restraining order and drop out of school. Women have too much power in America. They shouldn't be able to ruin a man's future this way

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I have yes, a few times. One of my weirder stalkers was a guy I went to high school with. I don't know why he got so obsessed with me, but it got WEIRD. The dude wanted to be me, but he was also obsessed with being better than me.

Foreveralonevirgin · Answer

Yeah, she was very annoying. I lied to her and told her I was gay so she would leave me alone. But she later found I wasn't really gay and started bothering me again and I just moved away.

Laciejordan · Answer

Yes, but like most, it was annoying and really not scary, with the exception of one guy that I believe could have been dangerous and it turned out he was! He ended up going to jail for armed robbery and kidnapping.

4ngelic · Answer

yea once. when i was 18 had a dude wait for me outside of my flat multiple days in a row after i blocked him

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

Yes, I actually have. Nothing real serious but nonetheless, it was stalking.

MemeSupreme · Answer

yes its fucking weird, creepy, and frustrating

Phoenix98 · Answer

No I haven't but my older sister was back in high school, I almost had to take action against the guy but thankfully it worked itself out.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Yes by my ex/bd side he had when I was pregnant. She claims to do witch craft stuff on me and it’s scary.

David94358 · Answer

Yeah have had a few crazy ones over the years unfortunately

douride2 · Answer

Yes & I am sure that person still can't cross the border from the US into Canada.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Yes. Thank goodness not often. It's exhausting, even if she isn't seemingly dangerous.

Jerre · Answer

Yes, when I was in the Mid-East. But fortunately I found them first.

Still-alive · Answer

Luckily nothing severe but on here a couple times yeah. when i found out i blocked em

IslaTheWitch · Answer

happened, fortunately, it's in the past :D

Lucidquestions · Answer

Yes, it took months and her to stalk my friends too before anyone took it seriously. Until then they thought I was blowing it up. It was unnerving how this girl found me so fast on fb.

NathanDavis · Answer

not stalked, surveilled, yes...

Sevenpointfive · Answer

sure, but nothing serious.

Cutegirl06 · Answer

No I never have. I hope I never do!

EmmaMary · Answer

@coolcatmar1  Thankfully Not.

bobalife · Answer

Last night, but I didn’t mind it Lol

RebelinSteel · Answer

Yes I have and possible I am

Bricealan · Answer

Not yet, but I can always hope?

NewgodOmega · Answer

No  People stay away from me and I like it

elaphe · Answer

No, I have not.

Staximus · Answer

Sort of for the last 26 years by this girl

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Yes, 2nd wife stalked me for 10 years

msc545 · Answer

I have. Very unpleasant.

Nice222 · Answer

No thankfully

ab2shifty · Answer

Yeah, but it ended badly for the person 🤣

CubaPirate · Answer

Thankfully not

Enginn · Answer

I don't know. Have you?

Lara_Croft · Answer

on social media yes

mandyfire98 · Answer

Oh yeah. A few times

patois · Answer

Yep.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

laly520 · Answer

yes happened

Sameone · Answer

Yup many times

Yannae · Answer

I have.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I have online

tasqueen · Answer

Always lol

Babygirl_S · Answer

A lot!

Cubus · Answer

Never

LavLavLuv · Answer

Yes like once

Account · Answer

Yes.

LadyLa820 · Answer

Yes I have.

eagle1951 · Answer

naaa

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