Do you think guys are taught how to treat women or learn through the dynamics of their family life? I was never taught specifics about how to treat women but picked up on it by how my dad treated women, especially, how he treated my mother. I think I do respect women, because he did. I also believe I expect the same from women. I never had sisters but have two daughters and see every day how they learn from their mother. They wanna be like “mom” and their mother, happens to be an amazing wife and they will learn from that. She treats me respectfully and demands that from our daughters. If a child is brought up in a toxic environment, where respect isn’t shown, I don’t think anyone can teach them.
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Women are taught that they are already enough and already doing the right things just because they're women and can be gentle. That doesn't translate over to treating a man right though.
Both men and women need to be taught how to treat each other, but we only put emphasis on men treating women well because men are dominant, can do more damage, and can sometimes be insensitive towards women and their needs. But this still does not mean that women aren't causing their own damage or being insensitive towards men either. So lots of women go through life believing that only they deserve respectful treatment and men don't.
My parents didn't teach my brother and I that respect is earned, they taight us that basic respect is only lost. So treat every human being you come across with basic human respect and then it's up to each individual to lose that respect or not.
The problem with respect has to be earned Is it makes it to where people won't even have any respect at all from the start for others. Then people start just disrespecting strangers from the jump.
So be kind to people, not genders, not races, people in general.
Women naturally already give everyone respect and treats them right. Men unfortunately do not so they have to be taught. And even after being taught this many men need constant reminders because we live in a world where it's okay to disrespect women
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Here I think it is two-way like that. Also our culture normalizes friendship between men and women starting from early childhood, like so:
Typically your average Japanese man and woman are going to have a near-equal number of male and female friends. There isn't the cultural idea here that men and women can't be friends if there's any physical attraction.
So I get the strong feeling that Japanese men and women understand each other and learn how to treat and respect each other in their own ways.
Are men taught how to treat women? From my upbringing and society, women are always told to act a certain way to be feminine, what we can or can not do, and how to treat others including men. Culturally I grew up to be a house wife like most Asian cultures for women, we aren’t supposed to think for ourselves except what our parents wanted, the elderlys, or male dominance. For me it’s a combination of culture, society, and how to treat them from what I’ve been exposed/experienced.
I think it depends where. I remember having an argument about this with my husband long time ago. He seemed confused and couldn’t relate because he said in the Us, it is women who behave like the men I’m talking about in my home country ( I was born in SEA). We ended up agreeing with each other lol.
Men tend to fare better than women when nobody nearby is doing anything, so for many, a woman who does very little, is attractive to him, is of similar intellect and who simply respects his boundaries would suit him just fine in a relationship.
I was taught to treat everyone with respect. My parents didn't split humanity for women and men, they always spoke about people.
Funny thing is I never actually see anyone teaching anyone how to treat anyone, but I do see lots of people on the internet saying thats a thing for how men should treat women, or how men should be manly, or not have feelings, etc etc, but i think maybe thats a rural thing? Because I never see that sort of parenting or social directing in cities.
I'm not really sure, I guess it's maybe because men are meant to be tougher so they are not as easy to upset or hurt. I've always been taught to treat others as you'd like to be treated yourself.
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different experience for different people...
I was never told to treat people according to gender by nobody
and I certainly never had a woman in my life treating me wrong either... not like I would ever allow it either, lol An excellent question. Unfortunately most women have ZERO idea how to keep a man happy. I think this eminates from women thinking a relationship is all about them and the man should just be happy she shows up. Men have really had it with this attitude.
back then we probably were but that whole good ol' housewife shtick isn't so appealing anymore to us lol
Because in society, men make the rules and women play the game. In relationships women make the rules and men play the game.
Men have never really asked women whether they were OK with the societal rules. Why do you think women would for even 2 minutes would care if men were OK with the relationship rules?
Don't care if you consider this disrespect or not. The truth remains the truth whether you find it palatable or not.
I find that neither side is being taught how to treat the other
Where are the days when men saw a woman and tipped his cap as he said, respectfully "ma'm" and watched their language around ladies?
Where are the days when calling on someone didn't mean picking up a phone, but going to a woman's house and asking her father for permission to see her?
As for women, they need to go back to being modest and sweet, not irritating and slutty.
What we had in the 1800s was great, those days need to returnI was taught how to treat men I love great, I ended up up being loyal and loving to someone who wasn’t worth it. I think women need to be taught who to treat well tbh. I don’t think many men know how to treat a good woman either
Some Girls also treat men very respectfully. I'm one of them. And it's natural, it's my nature , no one taught me to do so.🌸
When I started dating outside my culture I found out that other more traditional cultures do teach women how to treat men.
Women are taught how to treat men as well even on YouTube if you go there there’s tons of videos teaching women how to treat men!
In western countries women now are taught that they're more or less perfect the way they are by virtue of being female. Like a birthright. It wasn't always that way, but it's that way now. Women aren't told that they need change a thing about how they think or act. They're worthy of any man, job, reward, praise, whatever. If they're female they deserve the world and we should give it to them. Sad but true.
Just wanted to say that you'll get some hateful comments , some from Femcels
Make sure you delete that too and don't be a simp lol
I know you're not, sust jaying..because women don't need it to find a mate and have a good life. men do need it.
Men are taught by their fathers. Unfortunately women don’t like having the father around they prefer to be single mothers living off the teet of the government. Also men are also taught by society how to treat women. Treat a woman wrong and he will end up in jail or even prison.
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