Why are men taught how to treat women but women aren't taught on how to treat men?

[Anonymous]

Keep it respectful peeps, if I see any disrespect I'm deleting opinions lol

[Wallythewalrus2]

Do you think guys are taught how to treat women or learn through the dynamics of their family life? I was never taught specifics about how to treat women but picked up on it by how my dad treated women, especially, how he treated my mother. I think I do respect women, because he did. I also believe I expect the same from women. I never had sisters but have two daughters and see every day how they learn from their mother. They wanna be like “mom” and their mother, happens to be an amazing wife and they will learn from that. She treats me respectfully and demands that from our daughters. If a child is brought up in a toxic environment, where respect isn’t shown, I don’t think anyone can teach them.

[Asker]

Well I know that if you treat them bad, society treats you bad and if your parents don't correct you, someone else will, it's a form of teaching and this teaching only applies to men on how they treat women, which I agree women should be treated good and with respect but how come it's only mojorily targeted on how men treat women but there's really no form of correction for the other way around, I'm sure it exists somewhere tho, I guess maybe it's a western thing

[Wallythewalrus2]

It’s funny, because I was just thinking of a ton of very heated arguments I’ve had with men and women on here. On subjects we both felt passionate about, and without fail, me and another guy would make personal attacks and resort to name calling, which is cool, I never minded slinging some mud, but it never happened with a woman and myself. They never became belligerent toward me or me toward them. I rarely see two women get belligerent with each other on here. Maybe that Apple girl is on to something. Guys are born aggressive and girls are born to be nurturing.

[Asker]

Perhaps but I think that depends on how they are raised don't you think, I've seen some highly aggressive women that are aggressive for no reason lol

[Wallythewalrus2]

Definitely, that’s what I had mentioned. They learn from the life they live every day at home. I dated a girl that was crazy. Without a doubt in my mind. She tried to kill me three times. I think I had told you this! She tried to run me over twice and tried poisoning me. I had to make a decision. Either eventually get killed but continue having amazing sex or give up amazing sex and live.

[Laciejordan]

🤣🤣 @wallythewalrus2 I remember that conversation. I also remember you saying every time she drank, you would hide the car keys lmao I also remember you saying it took you over a year to leave a woman that tried to kill you three times, because she was wild in bed! 🤦‍♀️

[Wallythewalrus2]

@Laciejordan That’s not the only reason I didn’t leave her, she was also a really good cook! It’s just unfortunate I had to have my dog eat some of it before I would eat it. If, Bandit, didn’t die after a few minutes, I would dig in!

[Laciejordan]

Your poor 🐕! No wonder the one you have now doesn’t want you touching him. 🙄

[ManOnFire]

Women are taught that they are already enough and already doing the right things just because they're women and can be gentle. That doesn't translate over to treating a man right though.

Both men and women need to be taught how to treat each other, but we only put emphasis on men treating women well because men are dominant, can do more damage, and can sometimes be insensitive towards women and their needs. But this still does not mean that women aren't causing their own damage or being insensitive towards men either. So lots of women go through life believing that only they deserve respectful treatment and men don't.

[Asker]

That is actually a good argument to my question, interesting observation 🤔

[ManOnFire]

@ChicoFromThe305 Your question is the right one. And this issue is the reason why a lot of women mess up their relationships. They arrogantly believe they're doing everything right, and anything a man needs or asks for is him being demanding, controlling, or is injuring her womanhood in some way. Women think that having to respect or treat a guy right is in some way "giving in" to him.

[mandyfire98]

My parents didn't teach my brother and I that respect is earned, they taight us that basic respect is only lost. So treat every human being you come across with basic human respect and then it's up to each individual to lose that respect or not.

The problem with respect has to be earned Is it makes it to where people won't even have any respect at all from the start for others. Then people start just disrespecting strangers from the jump.

So be kind to people, not genders, not races, people in general.

[Asker]

Yea I was kinda speaking in general, I know people with good parents are taught right but what society teaches is different to what should be taught growing up

[Rangers]

When was the last time a man saw you for the first time and tipped his cap as he respectfully said "ma'am" when he saw you?

[mandyfire98]

I've never had a guy tip his hat and say ma'am to me at all. I live in the south too. Lol I've never even had a guy refer to me as ma'am.

[Rangers]

Well, then, Mandy, if I have kids, I'll sure as hell teach them to be respectful to the ladies around them, unlike the men who aren't treating you respectfully now

[Apple1996]

Women naturally already give everyone respect and treats them right. Men unfortunately do not so they have to be taught. And even after being taught this many men need constant reminders because we live in a world where it's okay to disrespect women

[Asker]

Come on apples you know that's not true, that all depends how people are raised, you are gonna be a momma for 5, you should know this 😆

Everyone is born blank slates and innocent until we are taught things and to men it's specified to treat women right but doesn't exist vise versa

[Apple1996]

Eh it's comes naturally to women. Maybe even to men but our culture shows men that it's okay to be dispectful towards women probably before the point of teaching them how to treat women right

[Asker]

That sounds like a parents issue tho not a gender issue, but I see your point tho

[dolemite58]

“Women naturally already give everyone respect and treats them right” Biggest lie I’ve ever heard in my life 🤣🤣

[Apple1996]

@dolemite58 I've never met a woman that disrespects men for no reason. But I've met 1000s of misogynistic men that disrespect and do terrible things to women for no reason

[dolemite58]

Yes nothing is ever women’s fault 🤦‍♂️ I can’t take you seriously when your not truthful.

[Apple1996]

@dolemite58 somethings are definitely womens fault but there is usually a reason behind to why a woman is acting disrespectful

[dolemite58]

Not really, I’ve seen countless women act very rude or disrespectful to guys for no reason at all. Some guys can be shitty too but to say that 100% women are always justified in their behavior is just nonsense.

[Apple1996]

@dolemite58 can't say I've ever seen that behavior from women. There is usually some reason behind it

[Apple1996]

@ChicoFromThe305 as parent I've learned that many many parents have neglected to teach their boys about anything in life.
So many people have told me that "boys are easier to raise". But the truth is they are only easier to raise for them because they decided not to parent them so I highly doubt any man that had parents who thought like that ended up properly teaching them how to treat a woman or anything about respect since they barely taught them how to wipe their ass 😆

[Asker]

Well I'm surely not here to deny that shitty parents exist but I actually believe it's just harder for opposite gender parents to raise opposite gender children, I think for a man it's harder to raise daughters and for a woman its harder to raise sons and I don't think it has anything to do with being better or whatnot but just simply cause genders have basics I guess is the best way to put it and it's only logical to assume there will be a difference in difficulty when it comes to someone from the opposite gender raising opposites, it's why I think its known that to raise children it's best for children to have both parents no matter the gender, I believe children no matter the gender, they learn from both parents, if you only have one parent you learn too much of just one side if the proper teachings aren't there, men think daughters are harder to raise cause for men it Is, just how I wouldn't be surprised if women believe boys are harder to raise cause not counting basics, men teaching daughters women things seems harder just how a woman teaching guy things is harder so I believe you apples ha

[Apple1996]

Nah nothing to do with opposite genders cuz it tends to be moms saying that about their sons. And my dad was always thankful to only have girls cause we were more calm.

[Asker]

I don't know about all that tho cause they can be more calm but through their teen years I'm sure it's when the real challenge starts cause that's when guys start bothering your daughter and stuff so I would say it depends, with boys you won't have to worry about them being taken advantage of and stuff but I guess over all not counting rebellious stages, boys are harder

[Apple1996]

Girls are not worse in their teen years. Boys do far worse things during their teens

[Asker]

Boys can normally defend themselves more when it comes to certain situations tho which normally means you gotta worry about daughters more tho doesn't it, to be fair I don't have children of either gender so I'm just going by what logically makes sense here but growing up I did involve myself in a lot of shit but I managed to take care of myself even when it came to dangerous situations, how many women or girls can really bring comfort to their parents with that?

[Asker]

We can't just exclude mental difficulties either, one can bring more stress than the other but that call also all depend on how they are raised as they grow

[Apple1996]

Girls are independent wayy sooner in life so they don't tend to lean on their parents as much as boys do. And why would a teen boy be able to defend himself anymore than a teen girl? That doesn't make sense at all

[Asker]

Because there's not just more biological physical strength but it's only pretty obvious that there's more fear to men in society than women and it's not sexism just logic that visually there's more fear intimidation for men than women, of course that all depends... when I was selling drugs they didn't mess with me as a teen but I knew a girl that was doing the same crap I was and she got robbed multiple times, people just made the assumption that she was a weaker target I guess, independence all depends tho cause people that become independent don't need something until they do, what do you mean by independence cause I don't see any teenage girls living alone and making their own living, it's not really independence if you do one thing alone and accept help with something else, you mean in adult years they become independent first? cause that isn't a gender thing, that's all a mindset thing and odds, that all depends on the individual, I've known guy friends that moved out as soon as they turn 18 and women that are currently today still with their parents, just how for example I'm still with my parents and I know women that are already living on their own, not a gender thing it's more on the odds of opportunity or even poor life choices and good life choices, eventually independent or not everyone will make good and bad choices.

[SolitarySolace]

Reported @Apple1996 for speaking offensively towards men and boys 😁

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace cute that you are offended

[SolitarySolace]

You’re doing it on purpose 🤷🏻‍♂️ @Apple1996 and clearly I’m not the only one you’ve offended

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace offended that I'm saying men aren't respectful towards women?

[SolitarySolace]

You’re specifically calling out men and boys as bad and women and girls as somehow perfect. That’s offensive towards all men and boys. @Apple1996 so have fun waiting 3 full days for your account to be unfrozen

[Asker]

I'm not offended, I was having a polite discussion and debate about the topic which is what i made the post for, only one of us here is offended, she's got the rights to have her opinions, he's speaking for himself apples, I'm kindly excusing myself here so there's no confusion.

[Asker]

Excluding*

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace I'm really just calling out shitting parents for not putting effort into raising boys. And no where did I say women are perfect. Parents put effort into raising girls so we turn out differently but that does not make women perfect

[SolitarySolace]

“@dolemite58 I've never met a woman that disrespects men for no reason. But I've met 1000s of misogynistic men that disrespect and do terrible things to women for no reason”

Pretty sure that’s a lie

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace are we on the same site? cuz I'm pretty sure I've seen many men here admit to being misogynists. Ironically even a few women misogynists as well 😂

[SolitarySolace]

But you don’t think there are any misandrists? No misandristic women? Just because you haven’t met any or claim to have not met any? If that’s the case that’s probably because you yourself are a misandrist

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace misandry has never lead to rapes or murders of men so it's not exactly the same. Those women still have basic respect for men

[SolitarySolace]

How do you know? You’ve looked into every single misandrist case? Or are you just bias?

[sirderpsalot123]

@Apple1996 "no where did I say women are perfect"

"women naturally already give everyone respect and treats them right. Men unfortunately do not so they have to be taught"

IF that were true, being born the correct way is pretty close to being perfect...

You also missed the point. Nobody denies the existence of men like SolitarySolace, but these men don't exist due to a lack of growing up being taught how they should treat women. It's because they have been hurt by women (even tho according to you, its impossible to be hurt by a woman) then they go online and see women like you say a bunch of sexist shit.

Boys grow up being told they should always protect, respect and do everything in their power to ensure the girls around them are comfortable. Why aren't women raised the same way?

[SolitarySolace]

Thank you, @sirderpsalot123

[Apple1996]

@sirderpsalot123 I don't know too many men that have followed through with what they've been taught then. And women don't need to be taught how to respect men because they never disrespect them in the first place

[SolitarySolace]

I’m being disrespected by women all the time! You’ve been disrespecting me in this thread and multiple others! Yet you claim women never disrespect men. 😅

[sirderpsalot123]

"I don't know too many men that have followed through with they've been taught then" that's fine, you can say that because that might be your experience in your small world. You can't speak on behalf of everyone else.

"Women don't need to be taught how to respect men because they never disrespect them in the first place" ... false.

[Anpu23]

@Apple1996 may I recommend a book?
www.amazon.com/.../1507702612

[Apple1996]

@sirderpsalot123 my world isn't small. There's a conversation going on with women right now about how they'd feel more safe having to fight off a bear compared to having to fight off a man. Men are not protecting or making women feel safe we'd literally rather fight off a bear than you guys.

And if y'all have been disrespected from women it's usually because there is a reason behind it

[sirderpsalot123]

@SolitarySolace You're welcome. I call out bullshit when I see bullshit.

[Apple1996]

@Anpu23 oh I don't doubt that there are bad women out there but they are rare. Men are more likely to be raped by a man than raped by a woman

[SolitarySolace]

Right, @Apple1996, so rare that someone wrote a book about it

[sirderpsalot123]

@Apple1996 your world is small. You're one person and you can't speak for half of the population.

Again, I'm not interested in talking about how terrible you believe men to be, that isn't what the question was about.

[Apple1996]

@sirderpsalot123 this is my opinion so I'm allowed to speak for just myself and my world. You want to talk then go to your own comment

[sirderpsalot123]

@Apple1996 You can have your opinion, but you seem to be having a difficult time defending it lol that's why you're stuck on the "men are bad" bullshit and ignoring the point of the question entirely.

[Apple1996]

@sirderpsalot123 I'm not defending much of anything. And I have yet to say that men are bad. I have already chatted with the person asking this question. The rest of y'all are just here to harass and be disrespectful just cause I think differently. Like grow up cuz y'all never catch me randomly harassing people on their comments

[SolitarySolace]

You’re always harassing me on mine while claiming not 🤣 @Apple1996

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace I don't think I've ever commented on one of your opinions? Maybe answered your questions

[SolitarySolace]

Dude, you’ve been commenting on mine throughout this thread🤣

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace nah you came here first. I'm talking like a real opinion not just a reply

[sirderpsalot123]

Well, you definitely aren't saying men are good... what's the opposite of good? And I still want you to explain to me how women are just born better than men. I need you to explain it to me like I'm five. Really dumb it down for me.

LOL I'm harassing you now? I'm disagreeing with you and you're responding to me. A man challenging how you think and not saying what you want him to say isn't harassment. I know someone who thinks men should be locked up just for looking at you might have a hard time making sense of that.

But whatever lol have a good night.

[Apple1996]

@sirderpsalot123 challenging me about what? Cuz I've already said everything I need to say. There isn't much more to it. y'all are just yapping for the joy of harassing and even possibly cyber bullying at this point.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Apple1996 after this long debate between you and other members, i'll just tell you that there are a lot of disrespectful women out there, starting with the feminazis and the list won't end!

If you're a good lady, it doesn't mean that others are like you!

Just look at how many women i have blocked on this site, of you read how the convo have started, you will notice that they were aggressive and start bashing me just because my ideology didn't suit them!

I'm someone who teaches men and women how to be respectful to each other! No one is perfect!

Do you want me to show you how many messages i receive just in here from women saying sorry to me, why do you think that they are sorry? It's because they have done something wrong...

[Apple1996]

@TonyMetal___86 they disrespect you cuz you like housewives soo much. That is reasonable. Most men especially ones older than 30 never got taught respect. a lot of them even have the motto that "respect has to be earned" 🤣

[SolitarySolace]

Respect shouldn’t just be handed out to just anyone. What if you’re handing it out to a bad person such as yourself? Bad people don’t deserve respect, do they? That is why it is earned and not given.

[Apple1996]

@SolitarySolace respectable people freely give respect because they were taught it. If not taught it they throw around the has to be earned thing. In society in general you have to give basic respect to everyone or else you'll end up in jail at some point

[TonyMetal___86]

@Apple1996 see, finally when i appeared and talked with you miss apples, you were convinced and even admit it by yourself, well yes a lot of them are against me because i support the housewife role!

You do know how respectful i am and how many times i faced sh*tty women...

Just put in your mind, that a bad person is bad no matter what their sex is!

[SolitarySolace]

How does someone in your opinion respect a woman and how does someone in your opinion respect a man? How is respect given because I think our idea of how respect if given is very different.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Apple1996 you were even attacked by these women many times 😄

[cory11111]

Well being a male myself, i can say about 1/2 of you do. Being slapped, kicked, punched or screamed at for doing something that has nothing to do with you is the other half. I also belive women utilise the government to commit coercive control against men and they utilise the duluth model to do it.

Women are manipulators. Hell, ask the australian government why mobody is charged with statutory rape or why womens groups fought legislation that punishes a female pedophile!

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Here I think it is two-way like that. Also our culture normalizes friendship between men and women starting from early childhood, like so:

Typically your average Japanese man and woman are going to have a near-equal number of male and female friends. There isn't the cultural idea here that men and women can't be friends if there's any physical attraction.

So I get the strong feeling that Japanese men and women understand each other and learn how to treat and respect each other in their own ways.

[handsomelad70]

I wonder if that isn't an Asian belief.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@handsomelad70 I think it might be generalized at least some other Asian countries, like I heard from someone on here that China is similar. Korea seems similar as well.

I suspect that's generally going to be true for cultures where men and women had to cooperatively work together more. For example, I heard that cultures that focused more on harvesting rice as opposed to grains for bread generally tended to focus more on a collective and cooperative mindset while those that focused on bread tended to focus more on individuals, since harvest rice requires such intensive teamwork that can't be optimized as much by tools.

[robhazelnut]

Bread-grains also tend to require less water, allowing individuals who grow it to spread out more.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@robhazelnut That makes sense!

[robhazelnut]

Aaaaaaaaaaay ✌️

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Overanalyzing 😅

[bobalife]

Are men taught how to treat women? From my upbringing and society, women are always told to act a certain way to be feminine, what we can or can not do, and how to treat others including men. Culturally I grew up to be a house wife like most Asian cultures for women, we aren’t supposed to think for ourselves except what our parents wanted, the elderlys, or male dominance. For me it’s a combination of culture, society, and how to treat them from what I’ve been exposed/experienced.

[Asker]

Maybe it's just not that common anymore? 🤔

[bobalife]

Wdym?

[Asker]

I don't know I'm tired lol

[bobalife]

Lol get some rest Chico, Chico :) but it’s also Saturday!

[Asker]

Yea I took some melatonin so I'm pretty slump rn

[bobalife]

sounds like it’s workin 😂

[Rangers]

They are, but they're doing a damn terrible job of it

[SolitarySolace]

Men have to treat women a certain way too or else he will end up in jail or prison.

[cory11111]

The past 40 years in western culture women have been told they can have it all and do it all. This little ego trip has completely destroyed society.

[bobalife]

I don’t have energy to talk about battle of the sex on GAG anymore, all ima say is stop blaming and just treat each other better. If you’re gonna complain, then it’s more personal problem. And ima woman, yes we can have our individuality and be empowered to do what we want. It’s not ego trip. So don’t trip.

[bobalife]

Aka human rights to do what we want 🙄

[desidoll]

I think it depends where. I remember having an argument about this with my husband long time ago. He seemed confused and couldn’t relate because he said in the Us, it is women who behave like the men I’m talking about in my home country ( I was born in SEA). We ended up agreeing with each other lol.

[Asker]

Wait so to make things clear what did you and your husband agree on, how did the discussion end? Lol

[desidoll]

We agree it depends on the demographic of that men/women. In my home country (Malaysia), women get mistreated all the time and it is so normalised. In the west, I have heard it is the other way around.

[Asker]

You heard right, well for the most part, there's abuse here too but a very mature way to end your discussion 👍🏼

[robhazelnut]

Men tend to fare better than women when nobody nearby is doing anything, so for many, a woman who does very little, is attractive to him, is of similar intellect and who simply respects his boundaries would suit him just fine in a relationship.

[Asker]

I guess

[IslaTheWitch]

I was taught to treat everyone with respect. My parents didn't split humanity for women and men, they always spoke about people.

[NathanDavis]

same... nor they spoke about race, or "class" nothing like that, or nationality...

[TheSpaceGnome]

Funny thing is I never actually see anyone teaching anyone how to treat anyone, but I do see lots of people on the internet saying thats a thing for how men should treat women, or how men should be manly, or not have feelings, etc etc, but i think maybe thats a rural thing? Because I never see that sort of parenting or social directing in cities.

[Asker]

I do with a minimum of people tho

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I never personally experienced it.

[Asker]

I have from others mostly telling me how to treat women 💀

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't really have anyone telling me how to do anything.

In school we were told how to do the schoolwork, but thats about it.

I never had any sort of social guidence, but maybe thats because I have a strong sense of empathy and compassion, so it wasn't needed? When growing up guys and girls treated eachother like equals, neofeminism didn't exist, hookup culture didn't exist, players and sluts were so rare and hidden that its unlikely to meet any, and people weren't gender confused, or getting offended by everything normal.

Common sense existed, and people expected you to have it, and they figured that teaching obvious things like "don't be an asshole" just wasn't needed, and if you turned out that way, you were simply yelled at because "you should know better, I shouldn't have to tell you that you shouldn't ______".

[TheSpaceGnome]

We were expected to just know right from wrong innately. And most of us did.

[Horse-girl]

I'm not really sure, I guess it's maybe because men are meant to be tougher so they are not as easy to upset or hurt. I've always been taught to treat others as you'd like to be treated yourself.

[Asker]

That's a generalized teaching, which does indeed work for both genders but men are specified on treating women the way they are suppose to be treated, it seems odd that in the feminine community, specified way to treat men doesn't exist.

[Horse-girl]

I know, that is very true I'd never really thought of that before.

[NathanDavis]

different experience for different people...

I was never told to treat people according to gender by nobody

and I certainly never had a woman in my life treating me wrong either... not like I would ever allow it either, lol

[PrettyCrumblBb]

[NathanDavis]

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@NathanDavis you found it 😂

[NathanDavis]

@PrettyCrumblBb perfection

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I saved it. ☺️

[NathanDavis]

@PrettyCrumblBb lmao...

[KrakenAttackin]

An excellent question. Unfortunately most women have ZERO idea how to keep a man happy. I think this eminates from women thinking a relationship is all about them and the man should just be happy she shows up. Men have really had it with this attitude.

[Asker]

Yea it definitely caused a lot of seperation from what I've noticed

[MemeSupreme]

back then we probably were but that whole good ol' housewife shtick isn't so appealing anymore to us lol

[MemeSupreme]

in all seriousness tho, besides obvious reasons you gotta teach guys bc they're stronger and become horndogs at 13... a lot of guys try to be traditional more than us bc its doable today still, so you're gonna be taught it still but being a housewife isn't anymore so we're gonna be less traditional now. feel like that led to not telling us how to treat a guy

im kinda interested in women who grew up with parents that got a healthy relationship gotta say bc i feel like what you see growing up matters A LOT. its probably why we got divorces happening sm bc most people were taught bad examples. really no one teaches you what you should do in a relationship these days which is weird as fuck if you think about it

[Asker]

Yea I guess that makes sense although some women still believe in the traditional form of relationships, it seems like women that think against it do it to be "free from men"

[MemeSupreme]

its kinda just about freedom more than anything bc people like control

like i dont wanna depend on a dude for money bc what if a divorce happens or he ends up a dickhead and we got a kid. some traditional shit is fine but old school housewife stuff sounds meh

[Asker]

I guess that's fair enough, I'm sure it's not for everyone lol

[MemeSupreme]

so what type are you

modern traditional or like TRADITIONAL TRADITONAL lol

[Asker]

What's the difference lol

Personally I don't think too much on the cooking and the getting her own money but being a mother to the child is where i stand you know

[MemeSupreme]

i knew the answer to your question when i asked that but...

it ran away and now it's hiding from me. i can't remember lol

[TonyMetal___86]

@MemeSupreme just wanna tell you that i like the housewife gif that you have uploaded, thumbs up for it 👍🏻

I only accept such women in my life!

[Rangers]

I find that neither side is being taught how to treat the other

Where are the days when men saw a woman and tipped his cap as he said, respectfully "ma'm" and watched their language around ladies?

Where are the days when calling on someone didn't mean picking up a phone, but going to a woman's house and asking her father for permission to see her?

As for women, they need to go back to being modest and sweet, not irritating and slutty.

What we had in the 1800s was great, those days need to return

[Anonymous]

Because in society, men make the rules and women play the game. In relationships women make the rules and men play the game.

Men have never really asked women whether they were OK with the societal rules. Why do you think women would for even 2 minutes would care if men were OK with the relationship rules?

Don't care if you consider this disrespect or not. The truth remains the truth whether you find it palatable or not.

[Asker]

I guess so lol

[BonzoInBitburg]

When I started dating outside my culture I found out that other more traditional cultures do teach women how to treat men.

[Asker]

I am mind blown, but it surely explains a lot tho, it makes sense why women from other cultures are the way they are no lie

[KittygosMeoWW]

I was taught how to treat men I love great, I ended up up being loyal and loving to someone who wasn’t worth it. I think women need to be taught who to treat well tbh. I don’t think many men know how to treat a good woman either

[Asker]

I'm aware there's lots of shitty men out there but what can I say, shitty people come in all shapes, genders and sizes lol

[Anonymous]

Some Girls also treat men very respectfully. I'm one of them. And it's natural, it's my nature , no one taught me to do so.🌸

[Asker]

Don't worry I definitely noticed that about you florecita 🌸🤗

[SolitarySolace]

Yet feels the need to go anonymous

[Asker]

I know this girl personally, find anyone else to bash on

[Rangers]

And are those men respectful to you in return?

They damn well better be, or I'll take a bullwhip to them until they are!

[Asker]

Bet I'll pay you to beat the bullwhip out of them 😂

[Xia1994]

Women are taught how to treat men as well even on YouTube if you go there there’s tons of videos teaching women how to treat men!

[Asker]

Yea but those are women that are trying to influence other women cause society didn't, I've seen them before and some spread some very valid stuff but I've noticed women like to disagree with them a lot which shows society failed to teach them things, it's only the women that were raised properly that are there agreeing

[Xia1994]

It can be true only in some cases because unfortunately not all girls are raised properly but their parents and so those girls grow up not knowing how to treat men or even other people but like you said if a girl has parents or parental figures who teach them these things or if they have access to mentors or YouTube or books then they can learn how to treat men properly in relationships.

[Xia1994]

By*^^^

[Asker]

Yea but to keep things fair, many men behave terrible and don't truly deserve respect but I guess that just shows how messed up our society is

[Xia1994]

That’s true it seems like nowadays society is just messed up! 💔

[Asker]

Yep, it good to know some aren't participating in such destructive ways tho

[Sober_Irishman]

In western countries women now are taught that they're more or less perfect the way they are by virtue of being female. Like a birthright. It wasn't always that way, but it's that way now. Women aren't told that they need change a thing about how they think or act. They're worthy of any man, job, reward, praise, whatever. If they're female they deserve the world and we should give it to them. Sad but true.

[Anonymous]

Just wanted to say that you'll get some hateful comments , some from Femcels
Make sure you delete that too and don't be a simp lol
I know you're not, sust jaying..

[Asker]

If I don't get a sudden urge to shame em first then I will

[Opinion Owner]

My man!

[Asker]

Yep there's a n argument going on now, so far no one has gotten disrespectful but shit getting juicy no cap

[Opinion Owner]

✌️✌️

[genericname85]

because women don't need it to find a mate and have a good life. men do need it.

[genericname85]

like a woman could have the worst character ever and still find a guy who's willing to tap that. men can't pull that off.

[Asker]

Interesting 🤔

[handsomelad70]

Then why has Trump had THREE wives? (Oh, right:CAISH!!!)

[genericname85]

@handsomelad70 well rules that apply to "normal people" don't apply to rich people xD

[SolitarySolace]

Men are taught by their fathers. Unfortunately women don’t like having the father around they prefer to be single mothers living off the teet of the government. Also men are also taught by society how to treat women. Treat a woman wrong and he will end up in jail or even prison.

[SolitarySolace]

Or he’ll just be beaten up by someone else for the way he is treating women. 🤷🏻‍♂️ women in the other hand get away with treating men like shit all the time.

[jahaims]

It's about social and cultural norms more so than what they are "taught"

[Asker]

Fair enough

[dolemite58]

I can’t remember what comedian said it but it was basically that women are only nice to children and animals.

[handsomelad70]

LOTS of women hate their own children and animals.

[Asker]

Lol.

[dustybiker2]

This is an excellent question. •slides over the comfy chair•

[dustybiker2]

I'm excluded from this conversation.. my mother was awesome and talked with everyone. I'm a bit pickier, but still know how to treat men from her, I think. She should have given classes. She would have been in high demand.

[sirderpsalot123]

I bet you're going to be the only woman to answer lol

[handsomelad70]

My father taught me how to treat women. I'm more a lad's lad.

[dustybiker2]

@sirderpsalot123 I don't think so. gag has a number of good well-rounded woman here.

@handsomelad70 Is that good?

[sirderpsalot123]

Yeah I was wrong lol

[Lara_Croft]

i was taught from a young age by my dad and stepmum but i suppose it isn't so in many western families

[Anonymous]

Mothers tell their sons how to treat women but they just tell their daughters to find a rich successful guy

[handsomelad70]

Which is why many American men prefer overseas women.

[Asker]

This seems to be highly common from single mothers from what I've perosnally observed ha

[Opinion Owner]

@handsomelad70 exactly

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah and there’s plenty of them raising kids

[Asker]

Yep indeed so

[Nikki1989]

I have never heard of anyone being taught anything like that.

[Krealot]

Because we are still being raised with standards for the olden days. The whole, boys wear blue and girls wear pink deal.

[Anonymous]

I was taught to treat everyone with respect.

How would you like to be treated?

[Asker]

With respect I guess, not everyone is like you tho crumble 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you always laugh at me though?

[Asker]

I'm not that was one of the 😐😐😐

[Opinion Owner]

Fake laughs?

[Asker]

More of a habit but yea 😁

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. I thought u were laughing at me this whole time. 😅

[Rangers]

I'd like men to tip their hats and say "ma'am", respectfully, when they see you.

I'd like men to go to your dad's house and ask for permission to call on you when they're looking to take you to dinner.

I'd like men to watch their language around you, and dress nicely when they come to call on you.

Sadly, all of that went away in the 1800s, and it's unlikely to return. Men will likely keep referring to you as their "b*tch", and talk freely about how they see you as nothing more than a piece of meat, sorry to say

[Opinion Owner]

@Rangers I've never been disrespected by any guy I know.

[Rangers]

And have any of the men you know tipped their hat and respected you in the way I described?

I'm guessing, the answer is "no"

[Opinion Owner]

@Rangers No guy here wears hats.

[Rangers]

Well then, no guys near you are treating you well!

Damn those idiots, for not treating you like a lady

[Opinion Owner]

@Rangers They do treat me like a lady. I think tipping your hat is disrespectful. Like why show off your hat when you know I don't have one? 😔

[Rangers]

They need to wear hats, and treat you like a princess when they see you. Anyone who doesn't is a damned jackass who needs to get his ass bullwhipped until he learns to treat sweet ladies right!

[Opinion Owner]

@Rangers The only jackass is you. Try harder.

[Rangers]

I'm a jackass because I want men to treat women respectfully?

Well then, if that's what makes a jackass, then maybe a jackass isn't such a bad thing

If I do have kids, you best believe I'll teach them to treat ladies respectfully, even if you think doing so is cringe

[Opinion Owner]

@Rangers Men do treat women respectfully or at least the men I'm around. Tipping your hat means nothing.

[Rangers]

It's the little things that count, tipping one's hat is a sign of respect, which men damn well sure ought to show when around ladies

[Opinion Owner]

@Rangers are from the past?

[Rangers]

I read books and such from the past, and it's very nice to see how respectful men were around women, compared to today

[sirderpsalot123]

Here for the comments lol

[Asker]

Lmaooo

😐😐

[sirderpsalot123]

Look at me pulling a dusty 😬

I really don't know tho lol

[sirderpsalot123]

I know my parents were always like " you're lucky to be with her" so maybe that's why. We're just supposed to be happy a woma decides to give us the time of day

[msc545]

Because according to women, women can do no harm or wrong ever, especially to men.

[Anonymous]

Lol don't you have any hobbies?

[Asker]

Yep but the more I speed on the highway the higher the chances of getting a ticket

[euniestars]

i know how

[Asker]

How?

[handsomelad70]

How?

[euniestars]

chillllllll im joinggggggg

[Asker]

🙃🙃🙃

[euniestars]

I don’t like those faces

[Asker]

Hater

[euniestars]

I’m a lover

[Asker]

Tell that to the veggies

[Asker]

Or soda 😂

[euniestars]

I treat everyone the same

[Asker]

I don't know how to respond to that

[euniestars]

I’m sad

[Asker]

Why?

[euniestars]

Cuz I’m a bored

[Asker]

I see, maybe it's cause I haven't patted your head in a while *pats head*

so how's the leg tho?

[euniestars]

Shit

[Asker]

*Pats head* for faster healing

[Staximus]

In certain parts of the world they are

[Miah04]

I was taught