Why do some people feel the need to insert themselves into other people's conversations?

Question

Nobody was talking to you, yet here you are -- being nosy and butting into someone else's conversation. 😫

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

In this world you'll notice that there are teachers and guides.. there are also people who don't have a life. And..

Wait let me rephrase that there are people in life that are miserable their time wasters their energy stealers.
Their judgmental and they're also drama lovers. That is their life which means they don't have a life so if they can but in and create that drama and keep that drama going that gives them life..

Is somebody judges me it's because they want an argument they want me to say I am not I don't do that or blah blah blah blah blah I just smile and agree with them..

When your little kid and somebody calls you a jackass...
First thing out of your mouth is I am not and that's where it takes off from the drama has started..

No somebody says Steve your jackass I look at them and I say I am too.

Because they don't have nothing else to say .

It's usually people that want to argue that starts the crap and tries to keep it going I don't have time for it it takes me into a different zone takes me into a different world that I just don't like so I just let it be I don't answer I don't acknowledge.

And if I have to acknowledge I'll just say let me get back with you..

They want your energy they want you to be as miserable as they are

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

On here? Or in real life?

On here that is the whole purpose of the site. That is what people are supposed to do. The site is designed that way. It's not a public forum so people can be voyeurs. It's public so they can participate. It's always been that way online, since before the Web.

If people want a private conversion, the site has private messaging. To post on a public site like this and not expect people to jump in is a total contradiction. Either it's public or it's not.

Altheavas · Accepted Answer

Oh man!
They butt in, inform about a question you didn’t ask them, just to tell you they don’t know, or to say something dumber than dumber could understand. I wish I could slap the f out of them. I kind of visualize slapping them, but I can’t physically😂😂😂!
I’m not sure that’s a good thing though, because of that mentality I don’t dont partake in conversations with group I am in actual conversations with, So…! 😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Depends on who’s talking. 🤣 if it’s my bestie, idgaf who they’re talking to, her and I are one so that convo automatically includes me. 🤣 and yea I include myself in convos that pique my interest especially when the topic is something that I’m passionate about 😝. Sorry not being rude but I normally don’t interrupt or invite myself in. ✌️

tpskchats · Answer

People often join conversations where they may not be needed because they desire inclusion and connection.
As humans, we crave validation and friendship. Personally, I feel a sense of emptiness when I don't receive this validation.
I long for meaningful interactions where people ask about my well-being and how my day has been.
Unfortunately, our desires sometimes go unheard, leading us to withdraw into ourselves and feel disconnected from the world, eventually fading away into a sense of nothingness.😊

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Depends on the conversation. Also, there’s a big difference between a compulsion and a “need”.
I rarely interject in a conversation. If i do, it’s usually because it’s a very interesting topic and not really personal, or because i’m certain i can help. Frankly, more often than not i have to be invited into a conversation. Even then, i’m not gonna get into some personal nonsense or argue with someone who clearly can’t or won’t accept reason.

NathanDavis · Answer

I like it...  that's actually how I met the best kind of people here at G@G... they did jump in my threads... lol I love it

Account · Answer

I have no idea why they do that, perhaps they just want to be included? But it doesn't bother me. It even sometimes saves me when I want to escape a situation.

spartan55 · Answer

It took me nearly getting my ass kicked into next week (25 years ago) to learn to mind my own beeswax 🐝.

korey182 · Answer

Well you definitely have to set the scenario. Like if the conversation is in public, like a school, mall, or sport event someone may be likely to interject more-so than in private.

Also i just thought of other reasons why. It's possible they think they could help/contribute something important. Oh this person may like you or someone involved. This could also just be their way of breaking ice

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I'm nosey nosy and anxious. I also have a big ego. And I also am not a know it all, I just like to talk 😂🦜

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I don't mind when they add value to the conversation!

82lynx · Answer

It seems that no matter how much or little I participate in anything the result is the same: goose eggs. If I had a superpower it would be invisibility, except to those looking for someone to attack.

laly520 · Answer

I think they get interested n be wanting to be a part of conversation

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't know, some people like to be nosey.

The_Sexpert · Answer

They're those type of extreme extroverts I guess

mbarsi01 · Answer

Some people are just like that and I can't even have a 1 on 1 conversation at my brothers bar without people jumping in talking to me

DrPepper12 · Answer

Because mansplaining is a national sport in USA America and Karen's just can't help themselves.

Jupiter1 · Answer

The topic is probably irresistibly interesting to those people who joined in on the discussion.

Still-alive · Answer

Cause im clearly entitled to your time and attention over everyone else duh :P jk

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

People are nosy. Humans suck. They’re stupid, selfish, fake, entitled, and nosy. Get used to it

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are lonely, they want conversation they want to meet people

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I make the conversation better

AngryCarl · Answer

Because they have an inflated sense of their own importance. Like GaG users!

JayBones2469 · Answer

Because you are shouting and everyone can here you.

Begging4giggles · Answer

Excuse you, RUDE, I was speaking!

dolemite58 · Answer

Everything ok with you? 😂

sheikalana · Answer

They think their opinions matter.

Booklover_90 · Answer

They have nothing else better to do.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Nosy little fuck wits

goaded · Answer

IRL or online?

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t mind it that’s how people socialize

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Why not?

Why do some people feel the need to insert themselves into other people's conversations?

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