I love children but I really hate the childbearing process, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

It would be cool if I were a mother one day but it sucks to still have to carry the baby for 9 months, have people looking at me with smiles or rubbing my belly and the painful process of giving birth, along with the blood. I hate the fact that I either still have to push the baby or have a c-section, ruining my body frame for even a bit.

I hate that it. I really do. I wish there was another way. I wish science invented other ways of bringing a child such as getting some of my eggs and his sperm transferred to an artificial womb. It would still be my baby but with the help of the device.

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I hate the giving birth part and I image panicking immediately.

[Berethor]

Yea giving birth sucks but it part of being a woman no? you need Whis to help you, artificial wombs not going to be invented anytime soon, but if you have the money you might be able to hire a surrogate mother and use your eggs, so the children are biologically yours.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/IXDoP7-g3kw

[RedInnocent69]

Yes, it’s hard feeding an internal parasite for 9 months. Especially when it gets big and starts fighting back.

[Asker]

Seriously, I wish they would invent the artificial wombs already. If that was invented and some of my eggs were extracted to be placed on the womb, I would happily have 3-4 kids.
But with just pregnancy, only one.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Very, very normal. This fear or disgust at the childbearing process has been discussed more commonly through the internet. Google this and I promise you'll find a hundred women on Reddit sharing the same feelings

[Asker]

It makes me feel great I'm not alone in this. I hope they one day create the artificial womb.

[Anonymous]

struggling through difficulty makes for stronger character

[Asker]

The thing is even with epidural, the childbearing pain won't totally go away. There is less pain but still painful. It would be great if science advance more and made it easier.

[Anonymous]

It does seem pretty terrible. I don't blame you.

[Asker]

yeah it would be great if they already invented the artifical womb. I wouldn't mind donating some eggs and let the device do the birthing process. If that was the case, I wouldn't mind having 3-4 kids.

[Opinion Owner]

3-4 kids is a lot lol

[Asker]

I know but I wouldn't mind if it was through an artificial womb created. They need to invent that. However, if it's just through pregnancy, only one time unless I get the misfortune of triplets, ouch. My great-grandmother had twins and so did one of my aunts. Oh dear. I guess this gene of multiple birth can show up any time.