I resent having my child, normal or not?

[Anonymous]

He’s extremely hyper, difficult and challenging. Everything I buy for him he destroys and if I take him anywhere he makes a scene and ruins it all. I wish I never had him or maybe a more normal child. Under these circumstances the way I feel is normal or not?

A problematic child can stress you- sounds normal

It’s not normal

Something else- comment

[misfittoy]

its stressful so it makes sense why you feel like you do. i dont even know if you are allowed to spank anymore, thats how i grew up. but you need to take control before he gets older. he breaks something take everything away and make him earn his stuff back, he wants to throw a fit let him and make like it doesn't even effect you as hard as it will be, you can do this

[Yellovv]

How old is he? Some of the kids are hyperactive and need to spend his/her energy to calm down, I suggest you to take him park daily and let him spend his energy after he can get tired and fell a sleep, after when he get bigger give him some kind of spor activity such as (football, boxing, basketball, swimming etc.) our neighbour had same problem with his son and they sorted out, you need to keep your son busy allways to cool him down.

[Anonymous]

Are you discipline this child? Do you believe in spanking? Even if you believe in time out. Number one stop buying him things. And you explain to them that I'm not buying you anything because you break it. When they misbehave there are consequences. You're not raising a best friend. You have to show your child the boundaries and you don't let them cross them, ever

[MzAsh]

This is normal, but it needs to change. where’s the father? He needs to be helping out.

[ChefPapiChulo]

why would you mention the father? thats literally insane.

[Andridaca]

Discipline your child, if you care for him/her. Don't spoil the little shit either, but don't discipline like a maniac; do NOT take out your anger on your child.

[MCheetah]

It's more common than you'd think. Maybe get him on some Ritalin or something.

[misogynistic_pig]

It's normal, most mothers are not good mothers.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Just discipline and home train your kid. Don't let him drive you crazy. It's your fault he's acting like this.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

This is why I bully people who have kids by choice.

[misogynistic_pig]

It is not a choice, it is an obligation.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

@misogynistic_pig
Nobody's obligated to have demonspawn you fucking masochistic bitch.

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes, women are.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

@misogynistic_pig
Why?

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

@misogynistic_pig
Exactly. They're not. Shut up.

[misogynistic_pig]

No, women are forced to have children, to guarantee a stable population pyramid.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

@misogynistic_pig That's not a thing.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Beat his ass

You are the parent now act like it

[Anonymous]

he needs a sedative or tranquilizer to calm him down some type of psychiatric drug take him to a psychiatrist to get evaluated he may have some sort of adhd and needs medication

[Anonymous]

Does he have a father? I mean like in his life?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like poor parenting if you ask me. The fault lies with you not the child.

[Whatthefluff]

Has he gotten tested for ADHD?

[exitseven]

All my kids were like that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Did you drink during pregnancy?

[Asker]

Yes I did

[Jamie05rhs]

Aw. I'm sorry.

[Anonymous]

Does he have a father in his life?

[SmokinAces2000]

How many times are you going to ask this?

[DaisyM23]

therapy

[gag6474]

go to doctor