Is it normal to resent your child under these circumstances?

[Anonymous]

I never wanted another child because I knew I didn’t like kids enough to keep having them but I ended up pregnant by mistake. I kept the baby and it’s been nothing but a fucking nightmare. I miss my old life and on top of this the child has autism and/or adhd which makes raising this child much harder and draining. I wish I never had this child. Worst decision I’ve ever made in my life.

[xHoneyxBeex]

It's normal to feel overwhelmed and exhausted from being a parent, especially a parent of a special needs child. However, I wouldn't say it's normal to "resent" your child. I'm sorry it's been so difficult for you. Have you sought resources and help for your child and yourself? Autism and AD/HD are so hard but there are services available that can help. There is applied behavioral analysis therapy, medications, occupational therapy, speech therapy, specialized educational settings for kids with autism, parent coaching/support services, etc. Resources may vary depending on where you live but I would highly encourage you to reach out to your local department of social services or any local mental health facilities and ask if there is any way they can help provide you with support or at least point you in the right direction. The bottom line is, you have this child now and regardless of where the child was a "mistake" or not,, this little human exists now and he/she deserves to have a parent who is caring and will do anything to make his/her life better and that includes taking care of yourself too! Help is out there, you just have to ask for it and know where to look.

[Guy13]

At least you did not murder it. That says much about you.. even though you did not want the kid 💩.
-I’m hoping that your interaction becomes enjoyable and fruitful.

[Anonymous]

I feel sorry for your child. You couldn't keep your legs closed and are blaming it for being born. Unbelievable.