What is something you got better at overtime but was absolutely terrible at in the beginning?

[Danny_dan92]

For me I would say cooking. I used to not know anything about it. But now I know a lot of the basic fundamentals to make good tasting food.


Now I’m just trying to learn more recipes to add more to my “menu” of things to cook for the week.

[Anonymous]

Saying “no”. Lol it might sound stupid but I was a major people pleaser, I never rejected anything bcs I didn’t want to upset the person. I got myself into a bunch of difficult and even unsafe situations bcs I was too scared to say “no”. Now I’ve learned to set healthy boundaries and not to succumb to peer pressure. I still feel bad about saying “no” but it’s a work in progress.

[Danny_dan92]

This is a good one. Don’t feel isolated, many many people suffer from this problem of being unable to say no

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the encouragement!

[Danny_dan92]

Anytime

[Wallythewalrus2]

It's probably an obvious answer but guitar. I gave up on it several times because it seemed I just wasn't getting good at it. What really encouraged me, was my brother. One day he was playing a recording of someone playing the guitar and I asked who was playing, because it was a song I was learning and it sounded really good. Turned out it was me! He had secretly recorded me. I never realized the difference between "hearing" music vs actually "listening" to music.

[NathanDavis]

socializing...

I was a painfully shy little kid, lots of anxiety, stress over social interactions, lol

took me till age 12, and later at age 16... for all of that gradually change and it surely got much better

[Danny_dan92]

This is a good one, this is definitely one of those where it takes more than just practice. Seeing other people also helps immensely, especially seeing conversations between two intellectual people

[bannacookies]

Sounds silly to say, but knowing myself. Years back, I used to follow the crowd or group because my confidence was low. Over time, I learned I don't want to "fit in" & I became secure with myself. That has helped me with so much: appearance, relationships/friends, work... it made a huge difference in my life. I am much happier.

[Danny_dan92]

You gained confidence. I’m happy to hear that!

[bannacookies]

Thank you. :)

[mandyfire98]

Dancing actually.
Probably sex. With experience I got good at it.
Yoga

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve always thought that being good at dancing typically translates to being good in bed

[mandyfire98]

It does. Both are about rhythm and hips.

[Danny_dan92]

👌🏼 exactly. I think this is why girls try to learn how to twerk lmao they know us guys see that and connect the dots

[Danny_dan92]

Personally though I think a woman that knows how to dance salsa is WAY more sexy than twerking. That’s my opinion though

[mandyfire98]

Most latin dancing is sexy

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, the dresses really add to that

[LordMadara]

Salsa hot
twerking 🤮
that bullshxt had me jerkng off bek in the days
i find it disgusting now

[crookinalove]

Off topic but you're so handsome. and you seem really smart. I'm always interested in what you say. I'm weird huh? Lol

[Danny_dan92]

Girls tend to be interested in what men have to say that they also find attractive. That’s normal

[crookinalove]

so you don't mind if I began a weird crush on you, at all?

[Danny_dan92]

Not at all

[crookinalove]

yay :)