Is it foul for someone to make their partner wait for intercourse if they have already given it up to someone else?

[Anonymous]

I've seen people like this and tbh I can't help but judge them harshly cause I've realized when this happens, usually it happens to good people that maybe even deserve the intimacy from their partner cause they have all the good intentions at heart but they are kept waiting which as a man that's kept himself clean I understand it but only as someone that hasn't been touch by anyone, I can't help but find it pathetic when they have already done the act with someone far more worthless than the person they are keeping on hold, kinda gives off that "what exactly are you holding onto" it kinda seems like a "I fucked up but i can undo it by punishing someone else"

[Twalli]

I am probably nor breaking up with my girlfriend, but if I was to date someone else, they'll have to wait at least 3 months before sex. I won't fo it before then. I'm nit going to hold out due to some religious epiphany and claim I regret not being a virgin.

[Asker]

Okay

[Sonorous]

I think it's unfortunate. But on the bright side, Chad kept her warm for us.

[electromagnetic]

You mean like starting a relationship with someone new and then having that person wait 4 months + for sex?
I think it’s foul of it wasn’t discussed in the beginning of a relationship.

[Asker]

Kinda but more of let say your boyfriend/husband before you he had sexual connections with one or more individuals and when you got into a relationship with him he made you wait, it can be for whatever reason, he doesn't trust you, it's going too fast, either way wouldn't you be like wtf? Lol

[Asker]

I've witnessed some that decided to wait for marriage after already having sex with someone else and made the current person wait lol

[electromagnetic]

Hmm, interesting. I think everyone is different no? My first boyfriend we hooked up first than dated but my husband now, we kinda took it slow. But I think it was something we mutually agreed on.
But I can see how it’s sorta foul.

[Asker]

That was agreed upon tho, it's kinda different and I'm sure y'all both had experience as well and made an agreement, sounds pretty normal but I was just making a example, I'm sure y'all got a healthy thing going.

[electromagnetic]

I think it’s kinda sketch sketch if others do it from what you’re explaining. FOUL! Like you said.

[Asker]

🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂

[Agape93]

Nope. Just because someone else got sex from me, doesn't entitle anyone after them to sex whenever they want it.

[Asker]

This is why you live in the woods like Bigfoot

[Agape93]

And I still get laid

[Agape93]

Your mom says hi

[Asker]

You are so old, nobody uses momma jokes anymore 😂

[Agape93]

Lol your moms a joke xD

[Asker]

At least I got a mom

[Agape93]

At least your mom might be a decent person lol

[Asker]

she's pretty much a saint actually, the closest to one 🤷🏽

[Agape93]

There you go, a good person

[Asker]

Sure thing

[Cuminginside]

Be quiet unrepentant female! I need a therapy session just listening to you.

[Agape93]

This is 2 months old you fucking dork

[Berethor]

Well it's getting the worse of both worlds, a dirty woman who don't want to give you sex.

[Asker]

Lol good point

[MemeSupreme]

no bc relationships are about finding out what you want

people change

[Asker]

Relationships are not about finding out what you want, you should know what you want before entering and relationship, actually relationship is the second to last step, by then you should know the person well and you should know if you want them lol

[Asker]

Any*

[MemeSupreme]

oh i worded that wrong bc im at work so i typed it fast lmao

i meant relationships are about finding out whos flexable with what you want, so you gotta communicate your boundaries and needs. if it don't then it don't work

[Asker]

You wrote that terribly 😂

[MemeSupreme]

you can't talk

you never use periods lmao

[Asker]

Cause I chose not too, your brain is just burned on one side 😂

[MemeSupreme]

oh so you're evil

you like others suffering

[Asker]

No, and you can't play victim momo, it's just unnatural 😂

[MemeSupreme]

im playing no victim bc im used to it but when people complain about your writing

i reread it and realize i forget how bad it actually is LMAO

[Asker]

That would be cause some people's brains work at slow paces, they just, to be fair you haven't used a period since you started this conversation so I guess that makes two of us 😂

[Asker]

Well actually I see one 🤔

It's not enough 😂

[MemeSupreme]

if you say so lmao

and nah, i space my sentences out so it's easy to read, and i never have run-on sentences lol

[Asker]

Doesn't matter the punctuations aren't always there, besides you understand me 😌

[MemeSupreme]

i always put periods if a paragraph has more than one sentence, which is the correct way

you just replace your periods with commas lol like you never use them

[Asker]

And I never will, unless what I'm typing is for something important lol

No the correct way would be a period at the end of every sentence 😂

[Lyndsielee666]

What if she made her exs wait too? 🤔

[Asker]

Then that's different lol

[Cuminginside]

That's actually a good point that you have it's a stable pattern on her part which is good.

[Staximus]

I don't know, maybe they need a sleazy dirt bag to turn them on. Some girls like that shit.

[Asker]

I don't doubt that exists ha

[Cuminginside]

80% of women go for 20% of the men so even if they weren't fleas bags before They are now.

[SweetJoyGirl]

I don’t think so. 🤔

[Asker]

Poor innocent little clueless Joyce 😂

[SweetJoyGirl]

Fight me. lol 😂

[Asker]

Really? Don't you ever get tired of losing pff 😏

[SweetJoyGirl]

I never lose. 😎

[Asker]

It's good to never give up, even if you lose all the time, it's okay 😌

[SweetJoyGirl]

Omgggg…imma smack this guy. loool 😂

[Asker]

So that's how you treat a supportive soul that is trying to make you feel better throughout your deepest failures, wow, shame shame shame on you 🙂👉🏽

[SweetJoyGirl]

Supportive my butt. 😂

[Asker]

Haters smh 😏

[Cuminginside]

You couldn't smack a number 2!

[LaurenM1997]

Do you mean cheaters or just in general?

[Asker]

No just in general like they had previous relationships with others and had intercourse and for whatever reason they decided to make you wait, wouldn't you be like tf

[NathanDavis]

I'm dirty AF...