How can you go clubbing alone (as a female) and have fun?

[AngelBritney]

I want to go clubbing again (haven't been since 2018, the people I know don't want to go clubbing anymore). How can I overcome being nervous and enjoy dancing to the music and maybe meet new people? Will people judge me if they notice that I came on my own?

[Finchie40]

You can go alone , as long as you like socializing and mingling with people , you should be able to make some Friends there as well, I go to bars and clubs by myself at times and I have met a lot of cool people that I now consider friends , just don’t get to drunk , so you can manage to make it home safe or take an Uber instead , since you are a female you are probably best to take some mace with you as well for your protection just in case. If you like dancing , just dance and usually you will
Make friends on the dance floor as well.

[Anonymous]

I pray for your well being at the club, Goddess, as does @demonpossessedpope. I hope you are not the victim of abuse as I have been. I like to share my story if it helps.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/BS3QAS73JIA

[Caroline91]

Buy your own drinks. I place my hand over my drink when it's not right in front of my eyes. Consider drinking non alcoholic drinks after the first one. Dance and have fun. Be friendly to the women, too, and you might even meet some new girl friends to go clubbing with... Tell 'em you're looking for a wing-woman!

[4ngelic]

pick a more age appropriate club, then get dolled up and just go. you probs won't be hanging around alone for that long

though maybe you could try to make online friends your age who are into the nightlife stuff or ask random people (there's app or sites for that) online to go to the club with you

[Damaged00]

If you're going by yourself I would suggest a bar or a very small club. Sit at the bar and get to know your bartenders first. They will have your back especially if they know you are alone. This is a good way to get to know people who would be willing to go to a bigger club with you. You only live once so go for it girl, get your dance on.

[DemonPossessedPope]

What's your concern in the first place? Not thinking it would be fun? Of course it's fun and even more so with psychedelics involved.

If you fear someone will sedate you and carry into a bedroom, then let me tell you that it's not an issue. You can always wear red contact lenses and implant a small speaker onto the roof of your mouth that makes demonic moaning noises. When dancing, nobody will notice. When someone tries to snuggle struggle you - they'll get scared shitless.

As pope I'm @on_my_knees praying for your wellbeing.

[FreyaRed]

Alone there is always more fun than with in group

[TheSpaceGnome]

You can't, no one can. Clubbing is boring, people only do it to socialize with the opposite sex, and most people don't go to clubs at all.

If it were actually fun, you wouldn't need to ask that question.

[Cutegirl06]

Someone will always judge us for something. Don't let your fear of being judged ruin your happiness. When you think about it the only person who can really judge us is ourselves!

[Account]

I can't, so I don't. I don't like the music at clubs, I don't like the atmosphere. It is just not for me.

[avery58]

Well you have to be extra careful with alcohol consumption if you go alone is all I can say

[Booklover_90]

• Beware of your surroundings
• Don’t leave your drink unattended
• Let people you know where you are so they know you’re safe.

[MisterWack]

Have a night with ya gurlz 💗✌️

You’ll all have fun, promise!

[Ms_Facesitter]

Don't be afraid to talk to people. Just don't get drunk and make sure you got a secure way back home.

[Staximus]

I don't know how it's viewed where you live, but if you go clubbing here after college age it's a sign of sexual desperation. Only fuckboys and skeezers go to clubs here.

[Vegasrunner]

Um, as a former night club vip host in the Clubbiing capital of the world I can tell you that is extremely dangerous. Do you understand that clubs exists as a place for men to get laid?

[vj0090]

Just go for it girllll... m sure u will have a great time

[Danny_dan92]

I haven’t gone clubbing in 10 years. Why?




Loud ass music, shit is expensive. And cause people act like idiots when intoxicated

[Anonymous]

i truly would not go into even the best clubs in New York by myself unless i was with my friends or knew people there

[rapfan107]

As a female i wouldn't recommend it but maybe sit somewhere at watch people dance

[soe11]

My girlfriend never go alone, either me or her friends or her mum.

[Sasquach]

If it's what you wanna do, then take a chance and go for it !

[Anonymous]

Clubbing and fun aren't words I associate

Owning a club would be fun and profitable

[dustybiker2]

Confidence.