Is it okay for a woman to go out partying/clubbing alone at night?

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DishLady · Accepted Answer

Depends where you live and what clubs/places you're talking about. For example this weekend I went to my friend's place. If someone bugs me my friend has kindly offered to break the fellow's knees. And if it's past when public transportation works I know I can count on him and his wife to drive me home. No problem.

But... underground clubs and raves and nonsense? No thanks. I pass.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes but be cautious. I remember going clubbing with my friends for the first time. I got surrounded by a group of Pakistani men who groped at me and wouldn't let me off the dance floor, others kept anyone from interfering. Luckily a group of Polish men saw what was going on and got involved. I swear eastern European men are the last white guys that are real men.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Well, the places I hang out are well stocked with guys and staff who will step in like lightning if a woman has trouble with a man. Escort to your car. Everyone will watch over your drink while you go to the ladies room. Leave your phone or purse on the bar and no one will touch it. Everyone knows who the rightful owner is. Anyone else will be stopped.

Makeushiver · Answer

Of course it's okay but I would suggest that you keep anything you may be drinking in your sight or in the sight of someone you trust at all times. Apparently there are no shortage of men out there who are willing to take someone they have drugged to the point of being, albeit briefly, comatose. It seems like a goof]d idea to ensure that someone knows where you are going and what time you plan to be home.
I'm not sure what the appeal of dosing someone with rohypnol or similar unless you are trying to get a taste for necrophilia but it sounds like there are plenty of guys who still do this. Avoid any benzo type drugs, e. g. Xanax, Ativan, Valium, Halcion as the effects when combined with alcohol can be deadly.( So can the effects of opioids when taken with alcohol though the concern isn't so much blacking out as it is depressed respiratory function. If you happen to change your mind about goinlass of waterg home orwhen /where you might also be going; inform the person with whom you'v already given your itenerary, Avoid driving as 1 DUI can cost you over $2500 in fees/fines and much more when your insurance bill comes due. Always a good idea to have a glass of water between drinks as this will slow down any inebriation but tomorrow you will really be glad, esp. if you like cocktails with a great deal of sugar ( fruit juice or soda) it woill help you from becoming too dehydrated.
Have fun

SphynxUK · Answer

Yes of course it’s ok.
The only issue is she would need to be hyper vigilant 110% of the time, but her own drinks and have a plan on how to get home and to tell someone where she is. We shouldn’t have to go to these lengths, but these days, it’s necessary to be cautious. Too many women are getting spiked in drinks and via needles.

molonski2 · Answer

It's a frightening question actually

Because I want to say " Yes of course it is " and it certainly should be , but my guess is reality says otherwise.. which is completely fcked by the way.

I have 2 Adult daughters , I'd have to ask them , in Hua Hin Thailand , no issue.
In suburban Australia , I think not a good idea. Hurts me to answer this way.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Ok? Yes sure

But why?
It won’t be that fun just walking in by yourself drinking and dancing
And chances of you being constantly approached are extremely high so if that’s not your thing good luck spending the evening saying “no thank you not interested”

Now obviously you can do whatever you want it’s the perks of modern society
But just because you can doesn’t necessarily mean you should

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, just don't let your drinks on the table, keep it in your hand, preferably a bottled drink and don't take any invitation drinks from people you don't know. Don't get too drunk or too high. It's safer to use an official taxi between 3:00 and 6:00 AM,. if you want somewhere instead of those driving services like uber.

juleyboo74 · Answer

It's always context and nuance - are you talking about safety? Then location and security would determine whether to go. Are you talking about being in a relationship - with your guy yes, without your guy depending on what and how the relationahsip works...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It is less safe for a single woman to go out alone to bars and clubs at night, and it is inappropriate for a woman in a relationship to go to such places without her partner.

Jackblue · Answer

She has the right to do so and men mustn't tell her she can't nor view it as an invitation to take advantage of her. That said, I would advise her to bring her pepper spray, just as I would advise a male friend to be cautious if he was going into a crime ridden neighborhood late at night.

ohsheeT · Answer

If she feel comfortable, doing it.
I used to love Going Out to clubs by myself. And finding that girl that was by herself. Dance have a few drinks and just have fun because most of the time your both looking fir the same thing

Sensmind · Answer

In a perfect world, it should be okay for a woman to go out on her own but unfortunately it is not a perfect world, if you were my sister or daughter, I would be far more happy if you went out with a friend or a group of friends.

jshm2 · Answer

Sure, she won't be doing it twice after all!  Joking aside, its often a sad state when people try and play up "partying alone" as a virtue. It's a manipulation tactic of sorts.

Miristheiss · Answer

Ok? Well, what does ok mean? Is it healthy? Is that evidence of a moral, wise, high value person? No. If she is single than she is more than free to do so.

HawkPerception · Answer

They can do whatever they want... out of a relationship. In a relationship, they can't do that with me. And I don't date girls that are into clubbing.

fantasticass · Answer

Yes, I do it all the time, it's great. You can leave whenever you want,

slatyb · Answer

It is in most Western countries. Another question is "is it safe?" and that's going to depend on where you live and how you are getting to the club.

Angelo75 · Answer

Just watch out with dark alleys and walking past places where it's isolated. There are a lot of crazy weird pervs out there.

Ask105 · Answer

Absolutely if you want to stay single but i ignore all these women because i value myself as a Man

dougeats · Answer

Withfriends are best. And just never order a drink in a glass, stick to something in a bottle so you don't get drugged aka roofie or worse. And always bring your purse with you so you don't get robbed or get an Apple tag slipped in!

AnonAndrew · Answer

Yeah, of course it's okay. This isn't The Handmaid's Tale. It can be dangerous, though. :-(

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Perfectly ok. Just not the safest option to go alone

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sure, why not if that is your thing.

MemeSupreme · Answer

you can but i wouldn't only get shots tho or stay by the bar and drink where you can watch it

Elliegirl · Answer

It’s okay to go alone, but it’s not always safe

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Not a problem in my country. Many students I knew did this spontaneously.

Cormac995 · Answer

No it's stupid and risky. Where do you think most people get roofied and raped?

HighValue · Answer

If she is in a relationship, it is cheating.

LuXtreme · Answer

Totally fine. But i would still follow her just in case.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Yes, but there are crazies out there, I'm too scared to go.

glennos89 · Answer

Sure why not. It takes some courage to be clubbing alone as a woman but if you got it then why not?

soe11 · Answer

Nothing wrong at all. If you want company, I can be with you.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Sure but she should let a friend know where she will be at

SotiCoto · Answer

If she wants to. She can do what she likes with her own life...

Ask_Kenny · Answer

Yeah, what's wrong with that? It's a free world. We all can do whatever we like..

Staximus · Answer

If she's stupid and wants to get herself in trouble

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

it is, but, i wouldn't You just, never know, unfortunately

Blacksnake285 · Answer

What does gender have to do with it. A man can go out alone. Wrong area, with the wrong people and not come back home

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

As long as its not my girlfriend (if I had one)

Voyages6 · Answer

I think it’s bad idea cause someone could slip something in your drink.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, unless you are walking home through a rough area alone at night.

Summeroflove · Answer

There aren’t better things to do?

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Completely her choice.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Kind of unsafe

jazzy34 · Answer

Okay? Sure.  Safe? Not so much.

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes it’s totally ok

AustColombiangirl · Answer

Of course thats a great way to find guys to fuck

DrPepper12 · Answer

Of course it's ok but not prudent

Anonymous · Answer

Not really safe

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I believe so.

MasterKS · Answer

why not? thats how we guys get some girl. LOL

cavedweller1973 · Answer

Yes but she needs to be careful

Anonymous · Answer

no too many migrants

Iron_Man · Answer

No not safe

In_Trance · Answer

Not at your age

grega239 · Answer

I wouldn't

Seppel · Answer

Why not?

zombiewoof · Answer

Yess

Anonymous · Answer

To dangerous

Anonymous · Answer

Eh no

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