Will it ever be safe for women to be out alone at night?

Question

Do you think society will ever evolve to the point where women don’t have to feel the need to be with others when out at night having fun? That we can feel safe enough from possibly being preyed upon due to being alone at night?

I've always wanted to go out on my own but whenever I try that anxiety and fear creeps in and suddenly I’m not to keen to go out anymore. I wish I didn’t have reason to feel this way.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Observations

The Biden Regime is to blame for making the United States of America more unsafe every day by enforcing an open border policy and by flying stone-age people into this country who have violent views and customs against women.

Living in a free society means dealing ever more with danger and uncertainty. The opposite is an Orwellian, dystopian society where there are forced curfews, biogenetic tagging and tracing, 24/7/365 surveillance, re-education camps, and basically a police state where everyone must ask the government for the freedom to do anything and to go anywhere---day, noon, or night.

Men are not impervious to physical assault while walking around alone at night. Many of them either carry very powerful handguns and/or very effective melee weapons with them, or they have effectively trained to physically defend themselves against at least one adult male assailant that is the same size as they are. Even so, a man walking alone learns to avoid various bad areas and groups of gangs. He also usually has a few male friends whom he can call for backup if he feels physically threatened.

Recommendations for women who want to walk alone at night

1. Join a gun range and get expert advice on which handgun (s) to buy for your specific self-defense needs; buy your handgun and ammo right away, and train to use it consistently. Learn about concealed carry and carry your handgun and some ammo with you EVERY TIME you are outside of your house.

2. Join a gym and train to become the fittest version of yourself possible.

3. Enroll in a general self-defense class that teaches situational awareness.

4. Raise your game by enrolling in at least two highly effective self-defense classes (one for hand-to-hand combat and one for boxing).

5. Join a wilderness camping group and venture out into the deep, dark wilderness at night with this large group of people. Make sure that it is a group of people who know what they're doing and who know how to keep everyone safe. Learn survival skills in this group. Get your body physically fit on these trips to handle yourself on long hikes on uneven and rough terrain, and to acclimate your mind to the constant fear of being in dark, uncertain, scary, dangerous, and unfamiliar surroundings.

6. Think about joining a small, gated community [NOT a cult or commune... haha] of like-minded citizens. This community should be set on hundreds of acres of land with its perimeter, trails, streets, and roadways under constant surveillance and constantly guarded.

-OR-

7. Buy your own property in the wilderness for the specific purposes of camping, fishing, exploring, exercising, survival training, and enjoying the freedom of anyone walking around safely at night. Set it up with the help of your family, friends, and like-minded individuals so that you can all make this place a safe and effective harbor from a dangerous world and dangerous people.

-OR-

8. If you are unable to join the appropriate gated community or purchase your own land, seriously consider transforming your town or neighborhood into a secure community with the assistance of other concerned neighbors and friends.

Good luck.

KerryJulia78fd · Accepted Answer

No. Not really. Its actually not uncommon for woman to be victimized. When I look back on my life; I sometimes wonder how I made it out alive. When I was in college; it was night time and I was drunk. I was away from my friends grabbing my wallet in my car. I had to walk across a highway to get to my car. Once I was in the car; I locked it quickly. I then turned around and a man followed me to my car; was tugging on my car door; and telling me to open the car and let him in. Thank god my car door was locked. My friends walked out and were talking to eachother really loud not noticing what was happening. The man heard them and ran to his car and drove insanely fast away. That saved my life. Always lock your car immediately getting into it; also check the back seat of you car so no one is hiding in it. I have had many other dangerous incidents/maybe even brushes with death. When you are young you do stupid things and don't think about potential horrible outcomes of evil people. Its never the victims' fault; however; it would be so much better for girls and women to do different things to protect themselves from nut jobs. For the rest of eternity here on earth; there will always be men that try to victimize women. ALSO always check the license plate of an Uber before getting in. Check if it matches the Uber order on your cell phone.

Sixgunsound · Accepted Answer

Total safety is an illusion, preached by power grasping governments or those trying to sell you something. Safer is possible, and safest is the best we can hope to achieve. I think there are steps women can take to increase their safety and likelihood of having a good time without fear. Tell someone where you are going, what time you expect to be coming home, and contact them before leaving. Know where all the exits are, and keep a pathway to at least one of them visible at all times. Kitchens and open windows at ground level count as viable exits; kitchens because you can easily make a scene with lots of witnesses if you are being followed who can be counted on to be sober and neutral parties. Know what your safety limits are for drinking, and be more careful with that alone than with your friends, because you don’t have backup. Get some basic self defense training; many men are ready for the sudden shot below the belt, and after blocking it will be able to tell the law that you attacked first and they were defending themselves. The likelihood of being able to physically overpower even the average man is not very high for many women, so focusing on escape and evasion tactics would be more useful. This next one may seem a bit basic, but don’t go to shady or violent venues. It might be less exciting, but safety is more important. The same goes for dressing somewhat less provocatively alone than with friends; this isn’t meant to assign blame to either party it’s just a safety recommendation from some jerk on the internet who will be teaching his daughters the same when they get older. Local hangout spots acquire a reputation after operating for even a few weeks in the case of brand new establishments, and with the proliferation of online means of reviewing social gathering places it isn’t difficult to spot the ones to avoid. Arm yourself, whether that is a spray or something a little higher caliber. As the saying goes: God made mankind, but Samuel Colt made them equal. No amount of speeches chat arguing or affirmative action will empower more women more effectively or quickly than mass self defense firearm ownership with the relevant training, (kind of a deal breaker without it as a firearm is less useful almost to the point of becoming a liability without training how to use it) truly a field leveling development. Nobody needs to know you have it, but the confidence of knowing you can take care of yourself is priceless. I work in a gun store and it’s truly a thing of beauty to behold just how many first time buyers are women in the last six months. Assert responsible ownership of your safety instead of waiting for change to come rescue you externally, as none of us are getting any younger. I’ll be taking my daughters to the range once they demonstrate the necessary maturity level.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Accepted Answer

Life is danger, you can mitigate risks to an extent, but there will always be predators out in the wilderness. The people who assault women in the nighttime are those who are LEAST influenced by positive socialisation. A rapist KNOWS rape is wrong; they just do it anyway. The best you can do is to take precautionary measures and keep an eye in the back of your head. The bitter reality of life is that nobody else will ever be more invested in your personal safety than YOU. "Society" won't fix this problem for you -- much as we may wish it would. To evade predators is to understand their mindset and how they hunt. Understanding the motions of a predator means leaving your lofty ideals of "societal goodness" at home. Predators are inherently ASOCIAL, and thus immune to socialisation. That's what separates asocial violence from merely anti-social violence. The latter is violence that escalates in predictable steps starting with social confrontation, and thus it involves an element of social 'performance'. Asocial violence is the whack on the head you never see coming: it's the hand grabbing you from the shadows. There's no social policy or political intervention or legal consequence on earth that would make the asocial predator choose to "behave themselves". All you can do is try your best to avoid crossing paths with one; and if you DO enter their crosshairs, you should be prepared to kill or grievously injure them (if escape is no option).

coolbreeze · Answer

Tbh no where is safe anymore. Even going on vacation isn't safe. Another disturbing thing is being t home is not safe anymore. In my area they do a lot of home break instead, car jackings have risen, people stealing from stores and robbing people crime has risen. I feel society is at its breaking point with crime.

nightdrot · Answer

Sure. Really now it is even, depending on where you live and a host of other factors, relatively safe. On the flip side, even in the periods of lowest crime there is always some risk. However, at the end of the day, the relative safety or lack of safety will change with the times. In this, we have been here before.

The 1950s had been an era of generally very low crime rates. This born of the fact that by that time, the American public as a cultural whole was yearning for peace, stability and normality. From 1917 to 1953, the United States had been in an era of turmoil. Two world wars, the Korean War, the Great Depression.

To be sure, the 1920s had been an era of prosperity, but even that era, with the advent of Prohibition and the opportunities that presented to organized crime, was relatively turbulent. Throw is that the old Victorian and Edwardian social models had collapsed in the fires of World War I. America was prosperous and happy, but crime was something of a problem.

Put it all together and the American public yearned for tranquility and that cultural ethos had the knock-on effect of reducing crime as well. However, by the 1960s, people had come to take that peace and prosperity for granted. Rebellion and fighting conformity and "doing your own thing" became the model of the era, and this had the knock-on effect of increasing crime as respect for law and law enforcement - police were often called "pigs" - declined.

Specifically, the surge in crime was born of the theory, fashionable at the time as sociology became influential in the formation of public policy, that the criminal was not the perpetrator. Rather, the criminal behaved as a criminal because of the imperfections and injustices of society. Thus, society - and not the criminal - was the cause of crime.

Predictable results to follow. Crime began to soar by the late 1960s and on into the 1970s. Throw into this the influence of organized crime as the drug culture took off at about the same time. The net result being a Gallup poll, taken in 1977, that found that 71% of ALL women, and 92% of African-American women, said that they did not feel safe walking in their neighborhoods at night.

Significantly, the crime wave of the 1960s and 70s hit especially hard those in the inner city, in urban renewal areas and the projects - Chicago's Cabrini Green becoming especially notorious as a hot bed of the drug culture, rape, murder and muggings. The problem in such projects was that they were buildings but not neighborhoods and thus lacked the sense of community that mitigated against crime.

By the 1980s, the tide began to turn. What had been once a popular social theory and inspiration for the emphasis on rehabilitation over punishment and thus had resulted came to be seen less as enlightened and as more indulgent of anti-social behaviors and thus encouraging to such behaviors. The crime laws began to be toughened, particularly as theories such as "broken windows" policing took hold.

The latter born of a fascinating sociological experiment. Specifically, that if a car was left abandoned in a poor neighborhood it would be left alone. However, if the hood was left up or a window on the car was broken, soon the whole car would be vandalized. The insight being that evidence of lawlessness would encourage more lawlessness in an ever downward cycle.

This led to what came to be called "broken windows" policing. Basically a crackdown on smaller crimes, thereby lessening, over time, the incidence of larger crimes. Thus by the early 2000s crime again fell to levels not seen in the 1950s.

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Squaresquirrel · Answer

No, it won't be "safe" but you can do a lot to remove the chance to be attacked. I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this but when you go out in a mini dress and high-heels, you WILL attract unwanted attention too, cover up a bit, less attention.
Don't get shitfaced drunk like falling up to the night bus.
If you live in an area where you would need to walk a lot from the bus, take a taxi.
Don't cross a dark park to make it shorter. If you see a van parking, cross the road, and generally avoid passing a group of men at night. On a night bus, sit closer to the driver.
A self-defence course could be useful too.
As a girl you have to be careful and use your common sense. Forget about the whataboutism and the "they shouldn't attack", there are bad people out there. But you shouldn't live in fear.
I used to live in London, Frequently going out, going home on my own. I was catcalled yeah, but I was only harrassed once, I walked to the main road where more people were and he disappeared then.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Usually a girl gets married because she only feels safe and comfortable with her husband...

A married woman do not have a problem to walk at night because she will be with her husband and it's hard for someorn to harrass her so she will feel happy and protected and walking at night with her as if she's walking in daylight...

I do not recommend that a girl walks alone at night because it's dangerous and feminists made it a lot worst!

If i was married, my housewife will know that she ain't allowed to go outside at night alone, period, she will stay at home warm and safe with me...

If you want a society where you can walk at night freely without being harrassed or facing a dangerous situation than you have to find men like me, because real men like me considers girls are his sisters or wife or daughter or mother and my ideology is to never have sex before marriage and if i'm married than sex only with my wife, theae traits makes a girl feels very safe with me and trusts me blindly...

Unfortunatly the rest of the world ain't like that...
Still we are far from achieving such point...

Explorer91 · Answer

Yea I totally get this. From the comments I can see that a lot of men fail to understand what it is like to walk in a females shoes. The constant fear that even if you are in a safe neighbourhood there will be a random car with a group of men that go past you and attempt to drag you in. Which can happen during the day if your walking down a random street and no one else is around. It’s the fear of living in an apartment and being followed home and having to turn and enter the key into your building like a ninja. It’s the fear of having to speed up as you cross a lane way incase some random dude drags you into the lane way,
It’s the constant fear of knowing you probably can’t get out or defend yourself if something were to happen so you have to constantly be thinking if something will to avoid it 100 percent because if you don’t you know your screwed. Very few men understand the constant small everyday anxieties that women go through.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Even going out with others or in groups isn't a guarantee of safety. There are reported cases of friends, or groups of friends, being attacked and raped or mugged or whatever crime.

You can always take some self defense courses, (I did) and do the best you can, like carrying a stun gun, and or conceal carry in worse case scenarios.

Granted there is better chances of safety in numbers.

Then again I can't say it has ever been totally safe, as even in the dark ages if a woman went out alone, and was raped or attacked she was blamed for being out alone as it was her own fault.

Living Rural helps too, cities are full of crime... out here if some stranger comes to my house I have a neighbor right there, asking what he can do for them.

theothersider · Answer

I obey the laws of stupid.

Don't go stupid places with stupid people at stupid times doing stoopid things. The reality is crime is as old as man. Murder theft rape assault read any history book it's there. Men are not at any less risk. in fact men are most likely to be the victims of random violence. with all that said though I carry a gun I practice with that gun a lot I try to avoid places that are dangerous and hope my head whits and trigger finger are faster than anyone that would want to hurt me.

t-8900 · Answer

No. Safe spaces are a lie spouted by naive idiots. I'm a 6'3 man and I carry weapons 24/7 and been since I was a teen. I've been in more confrontations than most women so it's not an issue for just women. The title should be "will we ever live in a society without violent and sexual crimes?" And the answer to that is NO. Time to accept it and move on. Get training, a gun, and be responsible for your safety. In teaching my girlfriend how to shoot because it's the smart and wise thing to do.

hahahmm · Answer

To me this is like asking, "will I ever be able to run through the tiger enclosure at the zoo?" Nope. Because we cannot guarantee that 100% of men will follow social norms. Even if 99.99% of the tigers are nice and friendly, it only takes 1 to rip your arm off and shove it up your bum.

See men are very dangerous. Traditionally men were taught to have self-control and be able to channel violence. If you think of violence like fire.. men learned to put the fire in a stove or a lamp instead of letting it burn down the whole village. But modern feminists and other idiots claim that men need to be more emotional and they've even raised a lot of boys into thinking & feeling like the typical woman. Except now he's not in control of his violent abilities. Now he's more dangerous. But hey... at least more men are blubbering and whining & lashing out like Will Smith.

nitsuj86 · Answer

Probably not. Men and women go out alone every night and don't get murdered or kidnapped. But still, it's always gonna happen.

People, in general, should be aware of their surroundings, and understand the risk they are taking by going certain places.

There is no way for you to be protected at all times. There is a certain amount of risk that people have to take everyday.

I mean I'm a large man, and I wouldn't go to certain areas alone at night. If you want to go somewhere alone, then it's up to you to protect yourself.

oh_k789 · Answer

In the first world at least, it's not about society evolving regarding gender any longer.
A woman alone in deserted quarters, or anywhere at night, is as in danger as a physically weak man in the same situations.
So, I relate to that: it's scary.
There also are many places with astounding sights, or peace, such as desert shores, beaches, hill/mountain walkways... I'd love to go there, stay there on my own for hours even, but can't, because a mad person, or a feral animal, may come, and I would be unable to physically defend myself from an attack by them.
For all women it is going to be as it is for me.

Oigit · Answer

No one is never truly safe. All we can do is minimize risks and hope for the best. It's a fact of life. It does not matter if you are a man or woman. We fool ourselves into thinking it's not the truth. But we are simply making a fool of ourselves by doing so. If anything people are luck when they can accept that on their own. Instead of having incidents in their life force them to accept it. I had have had several incidents through out my life that forced me to accept it and nailed it home.

Last one was getting hit by a guy screwing around with his phone when I was crossing the street in a crosswalk and I had the walk light. Wound up spending some time on life support, in a coma and going through several surgeries to deal with all the injuries. While I was in the coma everyone was talking about taking me off life support due to various reasons. So much for crossing the street at a crosswalk when you have the right of way being safe.

FatherJack · Answer

It will never be totally safe for anyone , even a man that can handle himself. I'm a former doorman , by far the most common attacks are on lone , or separated from their group men , attacked by multiple , cowardly " men " , often with weapons too. Never saw an attack on a woman from a man , only women v other women. Male instinct is in most cases to protect women , not harm them. Of course there are male predators , but they are very much in the minority. Feminist misadrist propaganda paints ALL men as rapists & murderers in waiting.

VanillaSalt · Answer

No I don’t see society ever being safe enough for you specifically but in general we’ll never get to a point people don’t have reason to fear being assaulted because evil exists the same as good. The question you should ask is are we going in the right direction to make you fee safer.

Do you feel safer knowing most men will defend you in public or knowing most men will avoid you? Years ago Ide have been the defense type but today why risk myself for someone that fears and hates me? 180• turnaround there all cause you think I’m the enemy…

RagnarRedbeard · Answer

No, I don't think it ever will be.

Some people seem to think that if we just taught people, men in particular because it's most likely that your attacker will be a man, not to be violent then we can finally be safe, but this is a dumb idea.

A rapist, a mugger, a drugged-up/crazy person, a serial killer - they already know that it's immoral and they don't care. Those kinds of people will always exist and no amount of education will change them.

As others are saying also, men aren't safe either. Men are actually twice as likely to be violently attacked as women are, only it's more likely to be either a mugger or someone who just wants to beat someone up for whatever reason.

HighlyVolatile · Answer

I think it's typically about as dangerous for men to go out at night as women. Being generally larger and physically stronger doesn't protect us that well from violent street criminals, for example. Fewer of us might be at risk of sexual assault but from the statistics I pulled up, more of us are victims of violent street crimes including but not limited to street homicides. I think we just tend to be less afraid of it because we're encouraged not to be and accept the risks.

I don't think it will ever be entirely safe for anyone, anywhere to go out at night alone. Yet we might be able to encourage women to become less afraid of the dangers and maybe encourage both sexes to learn how to arm and defend themselves and take necessary precautions.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not even safe out alone at night for men.

Men are not as confident out there by themselves as you think. We're more likely to do it because we're risk takers by nature, but we're certainly afraid of being snuck up on. Remember: men may generally be physically stronger, but a man's fist will not likely win a fight against a desperate thug with a knife or a gun. And our manly strength definitely cannot fight off multiple thugs at once.

Your best bet as a woman (since women are more vulnerable) is to plan ahead, take a more busy route, or at the very least, consider training to carry a firearm.

befuddle · Answer

Everywhere is more dangerous during the day than at night. Most people sleep at night. Most crime happens during daylight hours when people are awake and out doing shit. You're more likely to get robbed, run into a crazed drug addict, be assaulted, etc. in the middle of the day. If someone close to you has plotted to kill you, that will more likely happen at night, but they already know where you sleep. The same goes with people that rape someone they are close to... They don't tend to just run into them while talking a jog at 5 AM. It's usually someone close to them that they are dating that has been invited into their home. You are just afraid of the dark. It's not rational in human civilization. If you lived where their were large nocturnal hunters in the middle of the wilderness it would make more sense, but you probably live in a safe suburb where you won't even see a person driving down the road when you go out at night 99% of the time.

cth96190 · Answer

No, because there will always be sociopaths, psychopaths, sundry lunatics and undesirables in society.
Instead of demanding the impossible, women should adapt to the environment in which they live by becoming dedicated students of a martial art.
If they are in the USA, women should exercise their Second Amendment right through concealed carry. Compact pistols are available in.45ACP, which is a reliable man killer. 9mm will not do the job. Aim for centre of mass. Do not hesitate. Launch that 240 grain projectile before the assailant/assailants are within two metres of you.

CasaNorba · Answer

dude I'm from a third world country and women down there walk out at night alone all the time and rarely shit happens to them. someone needs to layoff the scary/horror movies shows.

if anything you and all women in the world can change this as well if you all take matters in your own hand and practice martial arts. they will be more than happy to teach you how to defend and protect yourself from all types of attack

watch this video from 0:08 to 0:32 for a prime example

dustybiker · Answer

Is it really safe for men to be out alone either? Crime is usually a crime of opportunity.

England4eva · Answer

Tbh it ain’t that safe for men or women right now... a guy visiting my town got stabbed to death for absolutely nothing. So as a woman I feel even more unsafe.
Girls, get yourself a rape alarm from Amazon or somewhere, and make a pact with your friends to never travel anywhere alone.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

You mean, will it ever be safe for ANYONE to be out alone at night? No, because the world isn't a safe place. Wishing it was it is either fatally delusional or unbelievably arrogant. The "safe" place you live in is an anomaly, not the norm. The norm is violence, struggle, and blood. We're just lucky enough that as Americans, we can distance ourselves from it if we have an adequate amount of wealth. In the really real world, nowhere is safe and the glass house we live in can be shattered by the tiniest pebble at any given moment. In fact, we inch closer to that moment all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

You know last Friday I went to a walk in clinic for a minor medical check up around 4pm. By the time it was 9pm, I was home, I get a notification on Twitter by the police in that region saying that a man in his 20s-30s died of a gun shot wound around that area shortly after 8pm. It just goes to show no one is safe.

Although I do admit women and girls are bigger, easier targets for sexual purposes and or murder. I think for guys/men who die it’s probably more of an isolated incident related to drugs, gang activity or money. Crimes have increased no doubt, I am hopeful that the future will get better ❤️‍🩹 and just have to put that trust in God.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

You mean is it safe for white people to go out at night. Here in the city I live in a white guy got jump by black people so in that case you are wrong Mrs. I bet a black woman would go out and nothing would happen to her. If white guy or girl they would get their live sin danger.

lightbulb27 · Answer

You have to move to place where it feels safe and project confidence and don’t get drunk ever in public. I live in places lethargic are safe to be out. Society is not evolving in a good direction because the family unit is degraded, schools lack discipline and values and moral constructs are removed by displacing religion. You are counting on good strong parents.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Not only women are subjected to sexual assaults or any kind of crime in night time, but men are subjected to them too.
It is just that men are not highlighted as much as women are.
The women men equality is not in our attitude yet. Otherwise both the genders would have gotten same coverage.

Nobody is safe anywhere. The bitter truth. You need to be vigilant for yourself.

Guy13 · Answer

No…because the girl walking beside you could have a D- 🍆. The “girl” standing beside you at the sink could have a 🍆. The girl sharing the stall with your 8 year old daughter, whose using restroom by herself, may have 🍆.
NEVER AGAIN will a woman/girl be safe on the street, in toilet, little girl stores, etc.

-Women:self-imprisoned by feminizing men. Pretty damn Ironic ‼️

Anonymous · Answer

Safe... for women? Are we to take that as you thinking its safe for men? Night time on the streets is when the criminals come out and its not safe for anybody... not even those same criminals, depending on the situation.

So will it ever be safe to go out on the streets alone at night? No, not for anyone.

Kayla45 · Answer

The thing about it is, regardless for women or men, lots of bad eggs come out at night.

I don't think it would matter if you're female or male at that point, muggers would just want your personal belongings and cash. Pretty sure they wouldn't care what gender someone is.

Anonymous · Answer

Is anything really safe for anyone? Seems like safety is mostly just a state of mind. Lots of people go out alone at night every day. Lots wear cute clothes. Lots go to bars and get drunk and most are perfectly fine. Not everyone wants to live their life afraid of everything all the time.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

That WOULD be nice!! Maybe, some day but, it might be a few thousand years from now.
About 20 years ago, I heard a news story about girls at one of the local Universities getting raped on their way back to their dorms and was trying to figure a way to start some kind of escort service just to see to it they got back "home" safely. The campus police are stationed right across the street from the dorms but, obviously, that doesn't help a lot!

XXblack88 · Answer

No I used to walk alone at night when I lived in the city. Most times I had no problems but I can tell you I've had some close calls with dealing with gross men. As annoying as it is your better off walking with someone at night.

AydenHazor · Answer

My hope is that it would be, but realistically I don't see it beginning so, and I don't even see a trend of improvement. In the meantime, I just make sure I'm always available if my female friends ever need someone to escort then anywhere any time of day

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

If you keep voting liberal and democrat then the street will never be safe. Remeber how they are soft on crime? Yeah you love how rapists get bail and then rape another woman. Look

LADIES you are the ones who support soft on crime policies so deal with it.

Tyrael · Answer

Will it ever be safe for men to go out alone at night? Who gives a fuck about men though right?

No it won't be, because law breakers both men and women, will always exist regardless of how many laws we put in place.

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah it sucks that women always get preyed if there alone at night even if they are in there own home. I don't know other than putting every woman in a self protection class to feel safe and sometimes that might not be enough. I always tell my girls when she has a girls night with her friends I say stay in well lit place with people, stay with at least one friend and if you are in a situation where she's alone call me to pick her up or follow her in her car.

tallcuck · Answer

It never was and it never will be. However it is much more dangerous for man. The numbers vary but the the only truly horrific thing happens to women and girls and more is rape. There are worse things than rape happening to man and boys on multiples of occasions compared to women and girls.

Do you feel unsafeas a women? Most likely you wouldn't dare go out as a man...

crmoore · Answer

I'm sure we will be. Society has been consistently getting better for a while. Way back when, murder was way more common and people had to be careful what they said to people. Nowadays people don't really have to worry about that, at least in first world countries. I'd imagine some day in the future, possibly far into the future, harming others would more or less be a thing of the past.

DWornock · Answer

No! It will never be safe. That is just the way it is because you cannot change human nature. That is one advantage of being a boy, a young man, or an old man. If you look like you have no money, no one bothers you regardless of how rough the neighborhood; day or night. As a boy or young man you may be approached by homos but, although a few can be annoying, they are never overly aggressive.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Let me explain something to you its not safe for a fucking a tiger alone at night I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to be out at the most Dangerous time of day there are 24 hours in a day if you can’t do everything you need to do in a day before 5 in the afternoon take a fucking rain check

bamesjond0069 · Answer

This may at first seem counter intuitive because its gut level seems scarier but go out on a quiet dirt road in the country by yourself at night. Other people are the biggest danger so if you're someplace where there is no people there is essentially no danger.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Women have always been "retarded" with this.

There will always be some guys looking to hurt you.

You like to get drunk, and go to a strangers place. While you couldn't even fight off an angry cat.

That just fucking stupid🤣

dovendyret · Answer

There replies make me extremely sad.  I think it depends on where you live, I feel safe going out - I've went out by myself plenty of times and enjoy it.

Anonymous · Answer

Got news for you babe--NO one is safe being out alone at night. Or at ANY time of day for that matter. Come to think of it, you're not even safe when you're with other people. Life comes with risk. You can't eliminate it. And one day you'll ultimately succumb to it. It's part of the human condition.

So you can either dwell on that and see how far THAT gets you, OR you can live the life you have.

Anonymous · Answer

About as safe as being a man lone at night in public. What you feminists fail to realize is that statistically men get attacked and killed at a greater rate than women do.. Something like 1.7% of women VS 2.5 % of men. You feminists are very good at fear mongering.

https://www. cbs. nl/en-gb/news/2018/51/fewer-women-than-men-fall-victim-to-violence

TheRealSalami · Answer

Learn how to attack back and you're set. I always walk alone at night because I'm positive that no matter who comes at me, I'll be able to win whatever type of fight they'd try to me ykyk. They won't see what's coming. 😎

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Sadly no I don't think society will ever evolve into a safe haven for women at night. We haven't really come all that far since cavemen clubbed women over the head and dragged them back to their caves!

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sure, she could be comfortable.

Apulu_3 · Answer

Won't be safe for both the genders unless they know how to defend themselves, use a gun and live in a safe place.

AviatorTom · Answer

I think that depends on where you go. In The US (and many countries, based on my experience) there are safe areas and not-so-safe areas. When I lived in Brisbane for several months years ago, Brisbane City Centre seemed to be safe at night.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are more likely to be attacked in the street than women. The paranoia and fear mongering that feminism pushes that all men are evil rapist devils has made women paranoid.

Do bad people exist, yup.
Should you be safe walking around at night, YUP.
Will it ever be safe, NOPE... bad people will always exist.
should you take precautions to stay safe, YUP.

FreyaRed · Answer

Some societies receded centuries back due forced altruism for people from societies who have entirely different perception about rape and violence.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Its not even just a woman thing to be afraid at night alone. Men should feel cautious as well, and if not they are just being naive.

VanniusSella · Answer

I don't think it ever will be, no. With all the laws, all the cultures, all the societal norms the world over which makes the stalking, harassing or assault of another individual an unacceptable thing, there is no place where it does not happen. Disgusting though it is, I think its something humankind will have to deal with for as long as there are humans.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

I think that depends where you live and the crime rate where you live. I've been out alone after dark and no one really bothers me. I don't go far tho. Higher crime places I wouldn't go alone

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nope. Because evil will always exist, and so will evil people. We can't just pretend they're not there. They ARE there. And they have malicious intentions and are looking for a victim. So don't be that victim.

msc545 · Answer

It really is not safe for anyone. Women just make a big deal out of it and men don't. A lot more men than women get hurt by walking around at night alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but defunding the police and taking away 2nd amendment rights from women is a step in the wrong direction. Making every guy feel guilty about what other guys do to women is a doomed strategy as well. Male assailants don’t have any shame for what they do and only respond to use of force.

Anonymous · Answer

There’s danger in life, that will never change. There will always be predators and victims, that will never change.

Safe is an opinion and you decide the definition. My decision is to hedge my bets and live life, control what is controllable and accept what I can’t.

Some might say your anxiety is justified and keeping you safe, others limiting. Live to be 100 by never leaving home live to be 40 and experience the world… it’s a personal choice and perspective.

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