Do you trust the opposite gender 🤔?

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Do ya? 🤪

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

She was my ex fiancées younger sister. I used to take her along with her older sister to the movies, fair and give them rides to the hairdressers and got on greag eith their parents. I liked her but I would have never looked twice at her as she was just a skinny short freckled face ginger girl with glasses pigtails and braces. Her older sister on the other hand was tall and very skinny though flat chested, i used to think she was the most beautiful woman in the world. Anyway as time went on her older sister started getting very mean and bitchy towards me, started accusing me of cheating and gaslighting me as to where she was. Then there was this guy at her work who she would say was just a friend while smirking about it. Anyway she was cheating on me with that guy and I dumped her right away. She was very upset about getting dumped and made vile accusations of assault and rape that went nowhere but still very mean. She also boasted about how this new guy was a real man not like me with a bigger dick and can go all night, not a guy with 5 inches that can't last 3 minutes.

Anyway I was devastated and just hit the gym and lived a very quiet life working mu job and saving while taking nightclasses. A few years later I hot talking to the little sister , she was older now 16, still ginger hair, braces, freckles and short but seemed to have really porked out, not obese but chubby and wearing frumpy clothes all the time. I did notice she was very pretty around the face but i wasn't really attracted to her in that way. We struck up a friendship and used to hang around each other, not like proper dating but movies, plays, sports games, some food, local concerts and so on.

One night she came over to my place to return my coat that I lent her and she came in and we were watching Netflix and she while talking leant in for a kiss, it was just a light peck and then another and another and pretty soon we were getting hot and heavy and hard very quick, I had my hands on her fat ass, i unhooked her bra and she took her top off and her bra came off with her top. I quickly saw that she hadn't got fat chunky, she was actually pretty skinny, puberty had hit her hard and she had just grown giant boobs to big for her short tiny frame that she was self conscious about. Any I came in my pants from the excitement and the sight of her big boobs. She thought she did something wrong and was nervous that maybe she wasn't as hot as her older sister and I had to explain to her that I just got overexcited. Anyway we started up a pretty hot and steamy sexual relationship after that night and not sure when we became official but eventually we got engaged and married, her family were pretty happy for us except her sister who has had a few bad years, is a single mother and overweight. She actually hit on me a few times. But I'm happy with the younger sister who is so much sweeter and caring, is having my baby. She still has the pigtails which I love and I hope she never gets those braces out.

Sasquach · Accepted Answer

I trust anyone that gives me food 🤷‍♂️

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

Generally, no.  That applies to everyone, not just the opposite gender.  People have to earn my trust which is hard to earn.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

I don't trust anyone I don't know well. Rest assured if I say I trust you, I've already run background checks on you.

Unit1 · Answer

Ehhh? That's a broad question for me.

What are the girls like?

Are they super nice and sweet?

Are they crazy yandere girls?

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Are they gold diggers?

Are they real keepers?

There are so many variables! The answer is rather indecisive.

Lliam · Answer

As much as I trust anyone. My girlfriends were all loyal and trustworthy. And I trust my wife completely. She has proven her loyalty to me and dedication to our marriage repeatedly. There is no one in the world I ever trusted more.

Universaldance · Answer

This question popped up just as I was thinking about a recent question I asked where I got a response back from the opposite gender. Unfortunately I do not know much about the person who responded to my question on GAG but there are simple virtues that I highly respect and would trust if someone exuded them: morals, ethics, values, strong character/morale, growth mindset, and their credibility/experience.

ManInChains · Answer

No. No I do not. After being cheated on constantly and falsely accused. Even my own mother didn’t believe me when I went through that. No I do not and will not ever trust the opposite gender.

aengus27 · Answer

Normally I trust people deeply straight away. But... my exes did screw me up pretty bad, so it is harder to trust now

Still-alive · Answer

I don't trust right out the gate. only through getting to know a person overtime. i generally give people the benefit of the doubt however until they give me reason they aren't a trustworthy person.

And it doesn't matter if men or women. individually is what matters to me

SkatPak392 · Answer

No.

I'm usually assaulted or disrespected by them for having differing opinions, thinking for myself, existing, being single, being black, and whatever else negative thing you can think of.

I'm tired

No matter what you all say or do, women will never regain my trust ever again.

NathanDavis · Answer

never had a reason not to... guess that's fortunate... looking at the many experiences of others

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I don't look at it as a gender thing.. I have people I trust from both genders, just as I have with those I do not trust!

BetaBucks · Answer

I don't trust either sex. And I don't care what someone's gender identity is, either way. People lie when they have a reason to lie.

Anonymous · Answer

nope. most people regardless of gender can't stand firm on their principles. when push comes to shove, they show their true colors and therefore untrustworthy

and for those who can hide it well, I can expose it out of them

MicahRaine · Answer

It just depends on the person. If they make good decisions or at least have a logical thought process for their decisions, then yes.

worldscolide · Answer

Case by case. Generally yes unless she has a history of lying or betrayal. But I still treat anyone male or female with a small amount of suspicion until I get to know them.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yes, but it's more I don't mind crazy girls.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I do trust , it do it because of the person … not the gender

RebelinSteel · Answer

On the whole I don’t trust many and if they are a girl or guy it does not matter.

Dongie · Answer

As much as any same gender until I see signs they are not to be trusted. We all give a certain amount of trust to a person we have just met otherwise you wouldn't turn your back for them.

dustybiker2 · Answer

I trust them more. Especially in groups.

slatyb · Answer

My trust is not affected by gender, only by behavior.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

There's a barrier on how much I trust people, there's things before that barrier and behind it

genericname85 · Answer

I trust them as much as I trust my own gender. which is not at all xD.

Benjiman19 · Answer

Depends on what I think their intentions are. Depends on if I know them or not

LiamJHayden · Answer

I trust individuals based upon their character.

dudeinohio · Answer

Generally yes, until there is a reason not to trust individuals.

nawtee_me · Answer

I choose to trust everyone until I have a reason not to….

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I trust no one until they earn my trust and it takes lots of time!

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all. Feminism and the #MeToo movement destroyed that for me. The risk isn’t worth the squeeze anymore. One accusation and you’re destroyed. Doesn’t matter if she lied or not.

CieloAzul · Answer

Off course I have some people from the opposite gender that I trust.

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

The more asinine the thing they're saying, the more likely it is to be a lie

Anonymous · Answer

Some yes, some no. In general, I trust men more than I trust women. I know too much about women to trust most of them.

andy530 · Answer

In general yes but trust also has to be earned on an individual basis

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

If she's trustworthy then yes. I mean I wouldn't even trust a guy if he's not

Barbra13 · Answer

Mostly no but there are some guys i trust. I need to know them for some time

rebeliouse · Answer

guess it depends what you are trusting them with

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I trust specific people not a gender

Nikki1989 · Answer

I don't trust anyone much.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I trust the women I know well

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Why? Are you trying to steal my wallet? 🤔

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

More than my own, honestly.

Serkee · Answer

I try to, but betrayal is hard to forget.

sawno · Answer

I am very trusting in general.

rosemilk · Answer

i trust no one, regardless of gender :)

WhitneySnow · Answer

Mostly but I don’t trust anyone blindly

Gauoda_ · Answer

No, No I don't trust

Booklover_90 · Answer

Depends on who he is and how well I know him.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Certainly not. That would be a big mistake

Likes2drive · Answer

Usually no until they prove themselves

Juxtapose · Answer

I trust individuals not entire categories.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes who else can you trust?

Brady · Answer

Yes n most peopl r probably not going 2 harm u.

shortster · Answer

Trust is earned on an individual level. So nope.

pethouse · Answer

I don’t trust anyone not fully.

impalabill77 · Answer

Yes I do. Except my ex

Adogdog · Answer

For the most part!

Anonymous · Answer

I trust till you give me reason not to.

Anonymous · Answer

I trust no-one just the merchandise on the table

dinojames22 · Answer

Depends on the situation

justabuddy · Answer

To a point. Greater trust has to be earned.

eagle1951 · Answer

to an extent yes

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