Do you trust the other gender?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Tough to decide on the answer, but I would find it a hard time for many aspects though, and I am against sexism, just though against any discrimination and sexism towards either gender, like I don’t approve of women being given a lighter sentence than a man for raping (in terms of the level of severity, if a woman and a man do it on the same level). And I can see why a woman would not want to tell about being raped immediately, due to that probably been a friend or boyfriend, &/or not being able to believe that actually happened, or due to fear that their parents &/or sibs won’t believe them and will think they rather had sexual relationship instead if they end up pregnant. I can also see why a man would not want to tell about being raped immediately, or more often than not - never. It is because they will likely be made fun of, get called wussies, weak, gay, etc. Or maybe they don’t fear that, but don’t want to tell about it until like 9-10 months later because they may not want her to kill someone innocent due to them making the accusation, some even longer because they wouldn’t want the baby to miss out on being nursed, others never due to not wanting the baby to suffer economically and go through hunger due to the mother being in prison. The child should be put in a foster home, but also the child should not be getting raised into thinking it is okay with woman to rape men, like can you imagine if the child is a female? She will likely turn out to be like her mother should that mother raise her all the way!

Also, coercion on men to have sexual relationship is way common, yet rarely challenged or called out! If a guy calls it out, he is supposedly gay according to some people at least.

Diodoro · Accepted Answer

Mostly yes.

Everyone guy or girl gets the benefit of the doubt with me upon meeting. I just have a good BS detector aswell as a good memory to cross reference.

I've spoken with girls who talked about how they just hit a guy because xyz happened and how they said they got so angry and how that's never happened before.

Then 3-4 hours later when she completely forgot that lie talked about another time she did exactly what she said she's never done before the initial story. Lol

I didn't bring it up or start an argument about it. But in my head I'm just like, okay you're a liar and are willing to lie about big things. I know to some degree that everybody lies at least a little bit

I just judge the intention behind the lies rather than the lie themselves. If it was bad intention then I don't trust them. If it was well intentioned then I'll trust their heart

Cherry234 · Accepted Answer

I trust most people on a basic level. But I wouldn't trust anyone (maybe with the exception of one family member or a few of them), even the opposite gender, with all of my secrets and with everything that's going on in my life. There was a guy I liked and I thought we were friends but then he said some things I didn't like (and even something that sounded judgmental) and he blocked me. So now I don't trust him anymore.

I want to be more careful about who I become friends with and who I let into my life because I know not everyone can be trusted 100%. Also I think most people are not true friends because friends come and go. That's why I'd rather not have a lot of friends and waste my time on people who aren't going to be my friends in the long term. I'm introverted anyway so I don't need a lot of social interaction

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

I don't trust or not trust someone based off gender. I trust those that are trustworthy, and don't trust those that aren't, and there's both types in  Both  genders...

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I don't trust people more or less based on their gender.
I have guy friends I trust a whole lot and girl friends I trust a whole lot.

I know women can be trash and men can be trash.
I don't trust everybody just based on gender. It's based on their character.

15_Debo · Answer

I don't trust anyone other than my self...
I take time in opening up... I can't trust anyone 100%
cause I've been betrayed before many times...
Now if someone cheats or stuff, I don't get shocked/surprised cause I know I can't trust anyone 100% and somewhat I expected that betrayal...

SunnyFlorida · Answer

I try to start all people off in the middle rung of the ladder of trust and let them work their way up or down the ladder on their own. Actions are a better indicator of trustworthiness than preconceived notions based on gender.

Flower7 · Answer

No because they seem to have a hard time controlling themselves and often want to have multiple women.

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Mostly yes.
My only issue with some women, is sometimes (KEY WORD SOME) they encourage other women to do things I deem dumb. Some women will purposefully do something they know is wrong in order to "prove" me wrong and make a difficult situation into an unmanageable one. On top of that some women use their emotions as an excuse to act like they have no common sense or that they misunderstood something.
I'm a very I told you so kinda guy, so I come across as a dick, but idc IF your pattern of behavior is "I didn't listen because I didn't want to".

Apulu_3 · Answer

I trust mens a bit more than as females have hurted more than them. Even though both the gender have supported and hurted also but I'm a bit more cautious from females because they hurted me more than mens. I have trust issues in both the sides but for mens it is a pinch less.

Nightless · Answer

I don't trust people in general. It's not a gender-related thing. I have just experienced a lot of bad from both genders. In my experience, people will use and manipulate you for their own gain and to their own ends.
But hey, there are some good beans out there, and I ain't letting go of 'em for the world. They are worth trusting by far.

Anonymous · Answer

I trust men sorry
Women have hurt my life in general since high school. A girl put my picture in a dating profile without my permission — to female supervisors of being bitchy about me because I am smart and speak 5 languages and feel intimidated because I’m tall model type body and skinny while they can’t breath due to their big full chicken nuggets belly etc etc

TheorionMage · Answer

Dependent upon their demonstration of maturity and transparency REGARDLESS OF THEIR CHRONOLOGICAL AGE!

lucas262 · Answer

It's not a matter of gender but the individual.

Both lie. Both cheat. Both do bad things.

When you break it down to male and female psychology we still Both do bad things for different reasons. As to who does more depends on what the bad thing is. Men and women seem to do more of different bad things

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

I tend to, but girls start to assume commitment when they need it, not when it develops. And they punish too easily for lack of delivering on their wild expectations.
I had a very unattractive girl drag me over to a pub for drinks - she expected me to buy her dinner and pamper her and labeled me a bad guy for not doing so.

t-8900 · Answer

I trust my dad and myself. I've been hurt and abused by women a lot. Everytime I go into trusting them that's when they betray me.

Adam1978 · Answer

My trust in people isn't based on gender. That said since I am a heterosexual man I would want women closer, which requires that they pass more test before that happens. Men I really don't need to put as much trust in, so I less worried that they betray that trust. Because it will have less impact. In general I don't put more trust in people then I need to have a working life. It's not because I think they are untrustworthy, but why take a risk if there is no benefit.

TrueConfection · Answer

Yes. I am a very trusting person. I give trust freely until someone an individual gives me a reason not to trust them. All within reason and within the context of this question of course.

madgoat · Answer

Is it ok to trust the individuals who have proven themselves to be trustworthy and not trust the rest?

dustybiker · Answer

I will trust a man’s word over a woman’s, any day. Based on a lot of personal experience. Especially if in an emergency.

Anonymous · Answer

I think we only risk having trust when we're dealing with disadvantaged people who need our help. Like the elderly and kids. To some extent with women. But men dont get trust from anyone except other men who he works with who knows how much he struggles

EmbraceThePain · Answer

It’s more dependent on the person, but I do think that biologically/naturally speaking, women are actually more honest/trustworthy.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Not really but it’s an instinctive reaction I know not all guys are bad

Charliefretz329 · Answer

How so? Humans are inherently untrustworthy regardless of gender. And women have more rights than men in this country, so I tread carefully

Anonymous · Answer

No. Generally speaking men will just say what they think you want to hear.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

there are so many degrees of trust. Not simple to answer this question. If I was the owner of a business, I could trust a female to do the job if she was qualified.

if a random girl on the streets wanted to use my phone i'd say go use a payphone.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I don’t trust myself… both genders get even less trust.

serious · Answer

I have only have basic trust on people and that goes for women also. Just basic trust.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Hahahaha
What..
I don't generalize that much.

If someone looks at me as if they're attracted I do become a bit paranoid, yes. But it's not because it's mostly women.
But because I'm insecure about how to behave.

IAMNathanael · Answer

Yes mostly, just like any person. Though, be careful.

ElizaPam · Answer

I'm always scared of being raped when I'm on dates with guys

Subarugirl · Answer

I don't think you should trust anyone until they have earned your trust. Has nothing to do with gender.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. I can give basic trust level but that's how far it will go. Humans are subject to change and can't be fully trusted especially when things turn south and very dark.

FatherJack · Answer

No , and this applies to all people , gender regardless.

St37xy11 · Answer

Not really. Pretty skeptical for the most part. But I try to keep an open mind and think he's a nice person. But at the same time have low expectations

CaliSixx · Answer

I usually try to have faith in other genders. Just until they do something to lose it

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

Mainly no, just because men are sexually driven by nature looking from a biology pov. But I’m learning to trust them more.

Dude_777 · Answer

As much as i need to, that too very carefully and not blindly.

Caunsos · Answer

I don't trust genders that is stupid. I trust people. I trust them to be true to their nature. And nature dosen't change easily.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Yes… I trust my judgment when it comes to judging other people regardless of gender

Hermes-Paris · Answer

Genders.. we have many of them these days. No I don't trust any of them.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Mostly yes, but it's not down to gender if I trust someone or not.

cth96190 · Answer

Hell no! To quote one of my favourite Manosphere content creators, Donovan Sharpe: women are shady creatures.

Lliam · Answer

Yes. As much as I trust my own gender or people in general.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I don't have to trust any of them. I trust the people whom are around me in my life only.

BlackElph · Answer

No, I do not trust men as a collective. Trust has to be earned on an individual level.

Anonymous · Answer

The real question is if a particular person has gained my trust.

worldscolide · Answer

Do I trust the ones that I know? Yes.. Do I trust the ones I don't know? Never. Same goes for men though, trust is earned.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Once it is known by the name "human being", I don't trust it.

MrJMM · Answer

I literally cannot generalize this based on a bender.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Why would I not trust a whole group of people based on their gender

NathanDavis · Answer

I trust people that can be trusted

Anonymous · Answer

Only by a healthy amount. Still not enough to get used as a free meal ticket however.

Anonymous · Answer

I say no I don't trust women.  But 1. Women routinely re-inforce this thinking. 2. I give every Ekman I meet a chance. It's not my fault it always ends with them proving my suspicions right. Lol

JSmuve · Answer

I trust women to be unreliable and untrustworthy. They generally deliver on both.

Chthou95 · Answer

Fuck no. I trust a women about as much as id trust a serial killer in the same room not to kill me

Snakesarecool · Answer

It depends eho the person is and how they be likely be a player or it. It all depend. Online have to be very careful

Anonymous · Answer

No, I did when I was younger but experience has taught me that they are deceitful creatures and they don't make good partners in a relationship or business

jasco · Answer

People will always be different. Some lairs, some honest. Just gotta pick them right

Pumpkinspice009 · Answer

I’d never trust men and won’t, I don’t even feel safe around them let alone trusting them lol.

OnTheLevel · Answer

Certain people I trust, certain people I don't. It has nothing to do with their gender though.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Haha great question. Mostly no. Like 75% no.

Unstoppable20 · Answer

I don't trust one gender more than the other. I think there are scumbags within each gender. There are some men and women that I will never trust.

wankiam · Answer

my mistrust of other people is not based on gender

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