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Tough to decide on the answer, but I would find it a hard time for many aspects though, and I am against sexism, just though against any discrimination and sexism towards either gender, like I don’t approve of women being given a lighter sentence than a man for raping (in terms of the level of severity, if a woman and a man do it on the same level). And I can see why a woman would not want to tell about being raped immediately, due to that probably been a friend or boyfriend, &/or not being able to believe that actually happened, or due to fear that their parents &/or sibs won’t believe them and will think they rather had sexual relationship instead if they end up pregnant. I can also see why a man would not want to tell about being raped immediately, or more often than not - never. It is because they will likely be made fun of, get called wussies, weak, gay, etc. Or maybe they don’t fear that, but don’t want to tell about it until like 9-10 months later because they may not want her to kill someone innocent due to them making the accusation, some even longer because they wouldn’t want the baby to miss out on being nursed, others never due to not wanting the baby to suffer economically and go through hunger due to the mother being in prison. The child should be put in a foster home, but also the child should not be getting raised into thinking it is okay with woman to rape men, like can you imagine if the child is a female? She will likely turn out to be like her mother should that mother raise her all the way!
Also, coercion on men to have sexual relationship is way common, yet rarely challenged or called out! If a guy calls it out, he is supposedly gay according to some people at least.
Mostly yes.
Everyone guy or girl gets the benefit of the doubt with me upon meeting. I just have a good BS detector aswell as a good memory to cross reference.
I've spoken with girls who talked about how they just hit a guy because xyz happened and how they said they got so angry and how that's never happened before.
Then 3-4 hours later when she completely forgot that lie talked about another time she did exactly what she said she's never done before the initial story. Lol
I didn't bring it up or start an argument about it. But in my head I'm just like, okay you're a liar and are willing to lie about big things. I know to some degree that everybody lies at least a little bit
I just judge the intention behind the lies rather than the lie themselves. If it was bad intention then I don't trust them. If it was well intentioned then I'll trust their heart
As usual it was the system. Great answer though 👍
I trust most people on a basic level. But I wouldn't trust anyone (maybe with the exception of one family member or a few of them), even the opposite gender, with all of my secrets and with everything that's going on in my life. There was a guy I liked and I thought we were friends but then he said some things I didn't like (and even something that sounded judgmental) and he blocked me. So now I don't trust him anymore.
I want to be more careful about who I become friends with and who I let into my life because I know not everyone can be trusted 100%. Also I think most people are not true friends because friends come and go. That's why I'd rather not have a lot of friends and waste my time on people who aren't going to be my friends in the long term. I'm introverted anyway so I don't need a lot of social interaction
I don't trust or not trust someone based off gender. I trust those that are trustworthy, and don't trust those that aren't, and there's both types in Both genders...
Very true.
Well said
@HawkPerception thanks 😊
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I don't trust people more or less based on their gender.
I have guy friends I trust a whole lot and girl friends I trust a whole lot.
I know women can be trash and men can be trash.
I don't trust everybody just based on gender. It's based on their character.
I don't trust anyone other than my self...
I take time in opening up... I can't trust anyone 100%
cause I've been betrayed before many times...
Now if someone cheats or stuff, I don't get shocked/surprised cause I know I can't trust anyone 100% and somewhat I expected that betrayal...
I try to start all people off in the middle rung of the ladder of trust and let them work their way up or down the ladder on their own. Actions are a better indicator of trustworthiness than preconceived notions based on gender.
That's true.
No because they seem to have a hard time controlling themselves and often want to have multiple women.
Some have multiple women because they don't trust a single woman.
Do you see where this question comes from?
Well, cheating yes.
Whats the problem with that
Mostly yes.
My only issue with some women, is sometimes (KEY WORD SOME) they encourage other women to do things I deem dumb. Some women will purposefully do something they know is wrong in order to "prove" me wrong and make a difficult situation into an unmanageable one. On top of that some women use their emotions as an excuse to act like they have no common sense or that they misunderstood something.
I'm a very I told you so kinda guy, so I come across as a dick, but idc IF your pattern of behavior is "I didn't listen because I didn't want to".
That's why I say that I only care about emotions that are justified.
I trust mens a bit more than as females have hurted more than them. Even though both the gender have supported and hurted also but I'm a bit more cautious from females because they hurted me more than mens. I have trust issues in both the sides but for mens it is a pinch less.
Curious.
Just an exclamation.
I don't trust people in general. It's not a gender-related thing. I have just experienced a lot of bad from both genders. In my experience, people will use and manipulate you for their own gain and to their own ends.
But hey, there are some good beans out there, and I ain't letting go of 'em for the world. They are worth trusting by far.
Thank you.
I trust men sorry
Women have hurt my life in general since high school. A girl put my picture in a dating profile without my permission — to female supervisors of being bitchy about me because I am smart and speak 5 languages and feel intimidated because I’m tall model type body and skinny while they can’t breath due to their big full chicken nuggets belly etc etc
Waste of supervisor.
Dependent upon their demonstration of maturity and transparency
REGARDLESS OF THEIR CHRONOLOGICAL AGE!
Good observation.
It's not a matter of gender but the individual.
Both lie. Both cheat. Both do bad things.
When you break it down to male and female psychology we still Both do bad things for different reasons. As to who does more depends on what the bad thing is. Men and women seem to do more of different bad things
I tend to, but girls start to assume commitment when they need it, not when it develops. And they punish too easily for lack of delivering on their wild expectations.
I had a very unattractive girl drag me over to a pub for drinks - she expected me to buy her dinner and pamper her and labeled me a bad guy for not doing so.
I trust my dad and myself. I've been hurt and abused by women a lot. Everytime I go into trusting them that's when they betray me.
I know the feeling.
it's very possible. The fact of the matter is we are tribal in nature but are tribeless socially in 2021. We are all lost. For all the good that has come from the technology I'd venture to say it has hurt us in the most fundamental ways, bonding, communication, emotional connection, etc.
My trust in people isn't based on gender. That said since I am a heterosexual man I would want women closer, which requires that they pass more test before that happens. Men I really don't need to put as much trust in, so I less worried that they betray that trust. Because it will have less impact. In general I don't put more trust in people then I need to have a working life. It's not because I think they are untrustworthy, but why take a risk if there is no benefit.
Yes. I am a very trusting person. I give trust freely until someone an individual gives me a reason not to trust them.
All within reason and within the context of this question of course.
Is it ok to trust the individuals who have proven themselves to be trustworthy and not trust the rest?
Probably.
I will trust a man’s word over a woman’s, any day. Based on a lot of personal experience. Especially if in an emergency.
You do have to factor in that everyone is different.. but broadly I’ll stick with this.
I think we only risk having trust when we're dealing with disadvantaged people who need our help. Like the elderly and kids. To some extent with women. But men dont get trust from anyone except other men who he works with who knows how much he struggles
It’s more dependent on the person, but I do think that biologically/naturally speaking, women are actually more honest/trustworthy.
“T&A?”
See slang... www.collinsdictionary.com/.../tanda
I still don’t even know what that means man, look, speak plainly or don’t speak at all.
No slangs, talk like an adult.
Not really but it’s an instinctive reaction I know not all guys are bad
How so? Humans are inherently untrustworthy regardless of gender. And women have more rights than men in this country, so I tread carefully
Why do you think humans are inherently untrustworthy?
Because they are unpredictable
No. Generally speaking men will just say what they think you want to hear.
Pot meet kettle
I won't. I would say what I really think, to see if we both are truly compatible as soon as possible.
But that is probably done by the minority of people.
there are so many degrees of trust. Not simple to answer this question. If I was the owner of a business, I could trust a female to do the job if she was qualified.
if a random girl on the streets wanted to use my phone i'd say go use a payphone.
I don’t trust myself… both genders get even less trust.
I have only have basic trust on people and that goes for women also. Just basic trust.
Hahahaha
What..
I don't generalize that much.
If someone looks at me as if they're attracted I do become a bit paranoid, yes. But it's not because it's mostly women.
But because I'm insecure about how to behave.
Yes mostly, just like any person. Though, be careful.
I'm always scared of being raped when I'm on dates with guys
Raped like a raper?
I don't think you should trust anyone until they have earned your trust. Has nothing to do with gender.
No. I can give basic trust level but that's how far it will go. Humans are subject to change and can't be fully trusted especially when things turn south and very dark.
No , and this applies to all people , gender regardless.
Not really. Pretty skeptical for the most part. But I try to keep an open mind and think he's a nice person. But at the same time have low expectations
I usually try to have faith in other genders. Just until they do something to lose it
Ma case.
Mainly no, just because men are sexually driven by nature looking from a biology pov. But I’m learning to trust them more.
As much as i need to, that too very carefully and not blindly.
I don't trust genders that is stupid. I trust people. I trust them to be true to their nature. And nature dosen't change easily.
Yes… I trust my judgment when it comes to judging other people regardless of gender
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Why the sad face?
Confused.
About?
A rose is a rose.
What do you mean?
I trust my judgement on judging your judgement.
you are being funny... up to you.
Genders.. we have many of them these days. No I don't trust any of them.
Heck, hahaha.
Mostly yes, but it's not down to gender if I trust someone or not.
Wise choice.
Hell no!
To quote one of my favourite Manosphere content creators, Donovan Sharpe: women are shady creatures.
All women?
Yes. As much as I trust my own gender or people in general.
Oh, what is that bell?
It's cool.
Thanks, es20490446e.
It belonged to my wife's dad. We brought it back from Cincinnati after he died and put in our garden out from our front steps.
In using it as an icon on a site, the lyrics to the song If I Had a Hammer come to mind:
I got a hammer
And I've got a bell
And I've got a song to sing
All over this land
It's the hammer of justice
It's the bell of freedom
It's the song about love between
My brothers and my sisters
All over this land
That is a truly epic bell 🏇
I don't have to trust any of them. I trust the people whom are around me in my life only.
Nice garden.
Thank you , good sir 🎩
My pleasure ;)
No, I do not trust men as a collective. Trust has to be earned on an individual level.
The real question is if a particular person has gained my trust.
Do I trust the ones that I know? Yes.. Do I trust the ones I don't know? Never. Same goes for men though, trust is earned.
I guess it's just natural.
Once it is known by the name "human being", I don't trust it.
I literally cannot generalize this based on a bender.
Why would I not trust a whole group of people based on their gender
I trust people that can be trusted
Good choice.
9 out 10 dentists recommend it
Only by a healthy amount. Still not enough to get used as a free meal ticket however.
I say no I don't trust women.
But 1. Women routinely re-inforce this thinking. 2. I give every Ekman I meet a chance. It's not my fault it always ends with them proving my suspicions right. Lol
Too bad.
I trust women to be unreliable and untrustworthy. They generally deliver on both.
Auch!
Fuck no. I trust a women about as much as id trust a serial killer in the same room not to kill me
It depends eho the person is and how they be likely be a player or it. It all depend. Online have to be very careful
No, I did when I was younger but experience has taught me that they are deceitful creatures and they don't make good partners in a relationship or business
Whoopsie!
People will always be different. Some lairs, some honest. Just gotta pick them right
Exactly this.
I’d never trust men and won’t, I don’t even feel safe around them let alone trusting them lol.
I don't feel safe around women either
I don’t care 🤷♀️
Certain people I trust, certain people I don't. It has nothing to do with their gender though.
Oki.
Haha great question.
Mostly no. Like 75% no.
I don't trust one gender more than the other. I think there are scumbags within each gender. There are some men and women that I will never trust.
my mistrust of other people is not based on gender
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