Do you trust the opposite sex?

[msc545]

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10 mo

I think that I have learned mostly the hard way that women are not to be trusted. Let us as men never forget that men fight with their fists and women fight with their voices. Women are better at fighting than men are.

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9 mo

Absolutely not, except for the ones I have worked with and that have gone through the same prolonged training and schooling that I have, who have been pretty decent people. The others not so much.

[ProbablyClueless]

Not particularly.


I have had enough experiences with women seemingly going out of their way to sabotage me and generally screw me over (and usually for motivations that I’m still not clear about) that I’m almost always suspicious of women’s ulterior motives.


Needless deception. Needless head games. And I’ve seen it happen so often that it’s safer to play my cards close to the vest with women.

[beefcakebradybatson]

With my major trust issues, I barely trusted my family, let alone anyone else of either sex.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I would say women are trustworthy in certain areas with general things.. But I have experienced their conniving nature as well..

[Joshydavid25]

Thanks for MHO!

[Genie23]

I used to trust both, men and women equally and easily until they gave me reason not to. But in the last 10 years and after many experiences, I've become very careful about who I should trust. I don't trust people easily anymore whether they're guys or girls. I take my time. So, I only trust close guy friends. Not most guys. 😅

[MisterWack]

I don’t just give trust to randoms, trust is built and earned through personal interaction also attachment.

Do I have the ability to trust those on the opposite sex aisle? Yes, because everyone deserves the opportunity to be trustworthy and to be trusted.

[aceleon]

no.

i don't trust anyone, trust is earned not given.

but if you mean you have a specific distrust towards opposite sex then yes at least the ones i'm suppose to see as a woman since i really don't any reason to trust them and every reason not to by what we see in everyday life.

[slatyb]

I don't trust anyone until I learn that I can trust them. I will trust new friends with small things, like showing up when they promise, paying their share of a restaurant tab, either at the restaurant or later via Venmo, taking their share of other tasks...

There is no difference between men and women in being trustworthy. It's not that hard to find out whether someone can be trusted at some level on a first date.

[thegreenyogi]

Not much. Unfortunately the opposite sex has hurt me in the past quite a bit and I have serious trust issues...

[dustybiker2]

I would trust most men over most woman. Not all of either.

[Anonymous]

It's not about gender, it's about the person.

I trust some of my friends (both male and female), and some of my relatives (but most certainly not all of them).

In my town, I don't trust most people, because they have failed me many times in the past.

[beenherebefore]

Is hard for me to trust people regardless of their gender.

[sirderpsalot123]

I think most people are good, women included.

But I also avoid putting myself in situations where I'm alone with women I don't know well. Just to be safe.

[dustybiker2]

So many do have it in for you.

[msc545]

You missed the point. Many have it in for themselves and will take advantage of others in order to get what they want which is usually money. At least in the US it is.

[dustybiker2]

@msc545 That sounds more like you have a type and might not know it. If it's happening on repeat. Try asking someone different out. Someone you wouldn't normally go for.

[msc545]

@dustybiker2 I stopped dating. It is too dangerous.

[msc545]

To your point, however, I think it has more to do with where I live in the Malibu/ Hollywood beverly hills/ Bel-Air area where money is God along with rolls in TV and film where favorable critical reviews and money are God. Every woman you meet here has her hand in your pocket and not to give you pleasure.

[Staximus]

Of course, trusting people is an individual person to person basis

[jazzy34]

Until a man gives me a reason not to trust him, yes.

[DryGermanGuy]

I trust most people in general, within reason, of course. Doesn’t matter if they are men or women.

[Sevenpointfive]

in general no. do i trust a female in the workforce? maybe. if she's pretty? probably not.

[exitseven]

I think that trustworthiness is gender agnostic.

[Ironic_Method]

I don't trust anyone, trust is earned.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I trust boys to be boys.

[Alex-Snow]

I have no reason not to

[Anonymous]

I dont trust anyone besides myself

[beefcakebradybatson]

I have no choice as a straight man.

[fish5505_87]

Never!!!

[Anonymous]

Fuck no