Do you trust the opposite sex?

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Do you trust the opposite sex?

Shiprex · Accepted Answer

On the whole I would say I do, however, this is after I went through a 2 year mental health battering thanks to women fucking up my career.

I work in a largely female dominated profession and am in a rather niche role. The women around me are generally ok BUT my female boss failed for 3 years to give me my ANNUAL required salary appraisal which by law was an entitlement. Then she moved off and a GUY replaced her and within weeks he'd agreed with me that my salary would be raised but a time lag for the next accounting period was needed. He was sacked from the firm and they didn't honour the GUARANTEE he'd given me so my union was called in. A WOMAN rep spent the next 18 months doing next to nothing but make promises and fail to get anything from the employer who was now ANOTHER WOMAN.

So I took them to court after telling the union to GTF and won a 4 times settlement from my demand. So 3 women let me down and caused me to lose trust in their loyalty and professional ability in my occupation.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I learn to have trust within the framework of knowing them as a person. Others I make objective choices.

We can all believe something, it's true for us... and it's not true for others. Our perspective is a factor. In some cases, simply cannot trust what someone says... it's distorted. The brain is a major factor.

Women specifically are more hormonally variable which I've seen cases their perception is wrong when off hormonally. That may be as well a factor of how their mind is wired, not just the hormones.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I trust them 95% more than other woman.

Most men are up front about things. They give it to you straight/especially if you do the same for them first. Give them respect and they will respect you, even if they disagree with you.
Yesx

Yes, get the occasional damaged and flighty, man but they let you know they are that way from the get go as they do not respect and mistrust your respect. They are the male 5%

Woman play games. And can be vicious at the drop of a hat. There are woman who will not. They are harder to spot unless you go through some serious event and they are able to prove this to you. They are the female 5%.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I take people on a case by case basis.

There are women I don't trust, just as often as there are men I don't trust. But this occurs seldom because I curate the people I choose to have relationships with.

I have standards: sense of humor, joy, tell good jokes, witty, kind, general goodness. If they don't pass those tests, I pass on them!

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't trust or distrust any group of people, and that includes women. By default, I trust an individual, until they do something to lose that trust.

Genie23 · Answer

I have stopped trusting anyone regardless of their sex except one person.

mistixs · Answer

After numerous traumas I have trust issues with people in general regardless of gender

Apple1996 · Answer

I dont trust anyone besides myself

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Not really anymore. Been cheated on 4 times. I have really no interest in dating ever again. I hate them now and wouldn't help one with anything ever. Honestly I just treat them like crap now. I was in an elevator the other day and the door was beginning to close and a woman wanted me to hold the door open for her I gave her the finger and let it close. I've realized that they're really just parasites who use men. Most are really stupid and have nothing but their bodies to offer. They're lazy, selfish, vapid, self absorbed, entitled, no house keeping skills, cruel, angry, manipulative, back stabbing little whores. If I want sex I'll save up during the year and go to the bunny ranch. Today's woman is a worthless, petty whore.

french_omelette · Answer

I tend to see the best in people so I'll trust them but if they do something that makes me question my trust towards them then I probably won't. With men interested in me, I generally distrust them (but if I'm interested I'll give them a chance but maintain boundaries) and think they just want my body until proven innocent because of trauma.

HaiTsiis · Answer

Yes... but still being conscious about the circumstances and the importance of the matter of trust and timing

It's natural to want to trust and be trusted

If it's achieved it's the foundation of every relationship with love

No open hug means no possibility of trauma or hug... in life you need to risk with caution and method...

If he/she deserves it, you ll find out

Every relationship needs trust

But people have passions , inabilities, traumas, and also cons

So I go further giving time and being alert... along with trying of specific sincere communication and special trustworthy behavior from my part.

Each situation and relationship is special so it needs a lot of care and work but also boundaries and unique attention as it has to do with such a crucial issue

beenherebefore · Answer

I'm going to give you a controversial answer. On a professional level and even friendship level I can trust a Man but in a relationship I always tend to be anxious and insecure and was never able to fully trust my Partners, even if they do not act suspicious is like as if I'm always expecting them to do something wrong, I've figured this an issue I have and not so much based on them.

Geo1970 · Answer

That’s a rather convoluted question!

It’s not a case of, “Oh yeah I fancy women or men/both, or trans, but I don’t trust them”.
Surely it has to be evaluated on an individual basis.

Generalisation stinks, it’s as simple as that as far as I am concerned.

Jove79 · Answer

I don’t think I trust women.. they’re gullible and get influenced fast by other men and people. They even get brainwashed by nice things they’re told which can make them not loyal in a relationship.

Guy friends? I don’t put my trust in them to cause problems

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Not as far as I can throw them.. Tho I tend to give them the benefit of the doubt but always expect disappointment regardless. I only trust one person and it is because no matter if I am a piece of shit, he always has my back.

Caroline91 · Answer

For me, trust is based on the individual and not their gender. I will trust anyone until given a reason not to. Once that happens, it is very difficult to earn my trust back and there is never a 3rd chance.

LavenderHaze · Answer

For the most part, yes. There are individuals I wouldn’t trust but that’s from personal experiences and it’s both sexes.

funnyguy11 · Answer

I have a friend. I like her very much and I trust her, I treat her simply as a friend. She doesn't like my appearance. She is attractive, she is a brunette, she definitely prefers the typical tall, dark and handsome, and I am a blonde. I think that's why we trust each other so much as just very good friends, because we are not both attractive to each other.

MemeSupreme · Answer

no i dont trust anyone but its different reasons for men i do try not to just assume certain things bc they're a guy, but sometimes i can't help it lol i try to balance it out

Lalalove11 · Answer

I've had numerous things happen that caused me to lose trust in men. Therefore, I don't trust until it's proven over time I can trust a man.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Life taught me that it's a sane & rewarding philosophy to trust womankind,  as an ensemble, yes.

jazzy34 · Answer

Until a man gives me a reason  not  to trust him, yes.

XXblack88 · Answer

On a personal level yes until they give me a reason what not to. however in my teen years I didn't trust easily and you had to prove yourself to me

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I trust them as individuals. As a collective population, you'd have to be insane to trust women. You just never know when there's some other angle or motivation she's working.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Generally speaking, no, I don't.  It has been proven to me countless times over that many men lie constantly.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Trust is earned  I don’t hand it out like candy to men or women alike

Vevv123 · Answer

Trust, sure. Trust again… mmh probably unlikely.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to trust them.

MisterWack · Answer

I voted for the opposite sex when casting my ballot, so yes.

Dongie · Answer

I've pretty much lost hope and trust in humanity. I know there are good trustworthy individuals out there but it's hard to tell them from the rotten ones upon first glance.

Clara4567 · Answer

I don't have trust issues depending on gender, I have trust issues because in the past I met mean people, who always disappoited me. So trust doesn't depend on people's gender for me.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Gender has nothing to do with trusting someone for me

Anonymous · Answer

No, but that’s an instinctive prejudice. I know not all guys are bad. Not even most of them. So I resist my instincts and try not to distrust a guy without good reason.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I trust women in the same way I trust other men, by beginning with trust and letting them give a reason to rescind my trust.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I trust women a bit more than a trust men in some ways, but not by much..

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Women and men both cheat, men kill. I trust women a lot more than I trust men.

exitseven · Answer

I trust my wife and I trusted my mother. Some others I trust but only up to a point.

jahaims · Answer

Why would you trust or distrust a whole gender? You build trust on an individual basis. It has nothing to do with gender.

SotiCoto · Answer

I don't trust strangers. It doesn't have anything to do with gender.

LinkxPeach · Answer

Nope, some women of certain ethnicities have sexual diseases, and some certain ones will falsely accuse you of rape, or any sexual crime.

Staximus · Answer

Trust has nothing to do with whether it's a man or a woman

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t trust/distrust groups. Only individuals.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I don’t trust anyone. Gender is irrelevant.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

100% blindly. So blindly you wouldn't believe how blindly.

dragoblack · Answer

Not when it comes to healthy romance & relationships, but everything else is individual interaction

Anonymous · Answer

I always trust a woman to at her core, be a woman.😆

Anonymous · Answer

I trust no-one, it is they way of business Trust the merchandise, trust the money

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on every individual, not on their gender.

Anonymous · Answer

I trust him to being the money grubbing lying cheating thieves that they are.

Agape93 · Answer

I don't trust anyone except my loved ones.

BCRanger10 · Answer

In general? Yes.

ohsheeT · Answer

Why wouldn't I

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

No not anymore. 🚫

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Yeah. What seems to be the problem? 🤷‍♂️

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope

RavVid · Answer

Sadly I can't.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Some of them yes but not all

slatyb · Answer

As much as I trust men. Trust takes time.

NicholasRedone · Answer

All people can be difficult.

soe11 · Answer

Mot everyone.

loveyouoak · Answer

No of course, I don't.

Anonymous · Answer

A little too much

LiamJHayden · Answer

I trust or distrust peple individually.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I trust NO ONE but myself

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