Are people who say others should have kids sabotaging others lives?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[ohsheeT]

Of course not.
First of all it doesn't matter what that person says b and the person is there talking to

I would hope that they're smart enough that they wouldn't listen to anybody but themselves because you have to be financially stable you have to be you have to have it together if you're going to have kids because it's no more about you it's going to be about your kids so the person has to be pretty smart they're not going to listen to anybody at least I wouldn't

[Lliam]

I don't know why people don't just do what they want to do and stay out of other people's business.
I'm not influenced one bit by their opinions.

I never wanted kids, so sue me.
My wife and I are glad that we don't have any.

[IslaTheWitch]

people shouldn't interfere in other people's lives... making decisions and facing the consequences is a private process, so everyone should have the freedom to do it as they please

[animesenpai]

People who promote having kids while not also promoting smart finances and like skills are terrible

[beefcakebradybatson]

No, they're usually just busybodies with no life of their own.

[BradleyScheff]

Not at all. Kids are important.

[chocolatetwopointo]

even for people who dont want them? and why do they need to tell others they should have them

[BradleyScheff]

Yes. Because if that ideology spreads, it will lead to mass depression and suicidal ideation. Around 90% of the women who say they don't want kids regret it in their later years according to the social data we have available today for one. As birth rates plummet, more women are depressed and are on anti-depressants than ever before. And finally, without kids, civilisation dies. Much of the West is well below replacement now and are importing barbarians from elsewhere with utterly different value systems, effectively destroying the Western World as we know it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

it won't tho? there's loads of people who want and have kids, bffr. Id love to see those sources, and adoption is always an option. Yeah no i wouldn't b depressed bc i didn't ruin my life by having kids. as i said, there's billions who still want kids, but if u want people to have kids, make the world a better place for one.

[BradleyScheff]

There are not "billions" who want kids. Especially not in the West. These are the nations with a negative birth rate currently. Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, Poland, Hungary, Romania, Ukraine, Germany, Austria, France, Denmark, Finland, Sweden, Norway, Japan, South Korea, China, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Thailand, Singapore, Armenia, Georgia, USA, Canada, Brazil, Chile, Uruguay, Australia, New Zealand and Tunisia. All these countries have a birth rate below 2.1. More countries are soon to join this list. Once it goes down, it is near impossible to bring it back up. So no. We are not having kids. Especially not in the West and the Developed world.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes there's billions, trust me. ur source is? so we should raise kids in a broken world and have people who dont want kids have kids and neglect them?

[Agape93]

Yeap trying to