How can I know if a client is dangerous?

[Anonymous]

At potential sex work outcalls

[purplepoppy]

I assume you're doing house calls. The same rules are going to apply as if you were meeting any guy.

What type if neighbourhood is it? Does it have a bad reputation? Is the outside of his house well kept or is the garden a mess. Is there an odour when he opens the door.

Before pressing the doorbell turn your back on the door for a few minutes and face the street, let the neighbours get a good look at you. He's less likely to kill you if he knows people saw you enter.

Look at his appearance. Is he clean with a decent hair cut or does he look like one of those guys online that moan about women. Does he dress like a grown up or is he wearing sweat pants and a baseball cap. Does he look like he can blow cash on an expensive prostitute?

Remember you can judge a book by its cover, store security guards don't watch every in the store equally do they.

[Asker]

But if they were trying to kidnap/kill me wouldn't they meet me in a remote location not his house where 6 other apartments are there?

[Asker]

"guys online that moan about women. " u mean like a sucker type?

[ManOnFire]

You really can't. Even if you do incalls. Sex work is risky business, although plenty of women have done just fine with it. If it helps, I think the majority of Johns tend to be married guys who still don't feel loved in their marriages, and they're usually non-threatening, if not complete softies.

[Hellraiser1984]

Do you have bouncer/bodyguard that can go with you? Id be very cautious if you don't feel right don't go. And tell other people about him that way they will know about him in case he starts stalking and/or harassing you. Carry a taser and mace and a knife or a gun if you can get away with it.

[Asker]

i have thought about it but if I am going to be faced with a trafficker mafia, it would be most likely more than 1 person and they can easily fight me and the bodyguard. But you are right, it reduces the risk greatly

[Anonymous]

I recommend what dating apps suggest for a first time meeting. Go to a restaurant separately and vet them. Also a hotel is a good place to meet; as most of them have security cameras covering all of their entrances. So if something happens you can go back and get evidence against them. That is what I do for hookups.

[Anonymous]

You move to Las Vegas and work in a brothel where you have security guards

[ChicoFromThe305]

Shouldn't you know as a worker?

[ManOnFire]

She sounds like she's probably new to the business.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then guess she will learn through experience

[In_Trance]

fuck around and find out