How long do you wait for someone to reach out to you before you give up on them?

[Justneedtokno]

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So it’s been Sunday and today is Thursday and they’ve seen my social media

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So he ended up texting me 24 hours the next day and I tried to play it cool but it didn’t really work out. I am not good at being nonchalant

[Still-alive]

I think two or three days i’d send them one more follow up text then if they never respond to that I drop them. Ill say 5-7 days tops from the moment they stopped replying

[Still-alive]

@update have you tried at least one follow up text? if you have then i would cut my losses there.

[Justneedtokno]

No, I have not followed up with them. I just left them alone. I figured they haven’t reached out and I’m just posting random stuff if they could look on my social media then they don’t wanna talk to me.

[Still-alive]

ok its up to you. i would just do one more text jic they just forgot or something. after that is when i'd cut them off.

but if you just wanna cut them off now then thats just as fine

[Justneedtokno]

Thanks I am a very benefits of the doubt type person, but is definitely difficult. It comes out of disadvantage because it makes me trusting sometimes.

[Jamie05rhs]

Who is this person?

[Justneedtokno]

A person that I would like to date possibly

[Jamie05rhs]

@Justneedtokno If you want him then go get him.

[midnightmoon05]

Exactly… I don’t get the ambiguity from gag askers…
Always this someone… I don’t care about someone…
My cousin? Brother? Mom? My kids? Hubby? Overs call … go check on them…
Or just someone? Don’t care.

[Justneedtokno]

OK, duly noted

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks 🙏

[Nightmoon23]

For me I’m a pretty chill person so I can wait a while

[Justneedtokno]

See that be the thing the person is a chill person and I’m more of a I need to talk to you now or I wanna hear from you

[Nightmoon23]

That’s fair

[bowenw]

No time limit. I suppose until someone else does that you're interested in.

[Wiredone]

After 2 days I'd send a text. If no response, move on

[Anonymous]

You must reach out to them if they haven't reached out to you as of yet.

[midnightmoon05]

4 days? They are not interested.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nope. Not necessarily true.

[midnightmoon05]

@Jamie05rhs been ignored 4 days?
Why?

[Jamie05rhs]

@midnightmoon05 Who says he's ignoring her?

[Justneedtokno]

OK, it wasn’t four days. I am just very impatient. It was more like 24 hours.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. 😅

[midnightmoon05]

@Jamie05rhs what’s the update?

[midnightmoon05]

@ justneedtokno

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah, @Justneedtokno What's the update? We all just need to know. Lol

[dustybiker2]

You can wait your life away

[msc545]

1 day or less.