Google refuses to remove a search result labeling me as a predator. Now what?

[IHaveRespawned]

I have just hit this. burnout phase. I am sick of all the stupid bullshit. Getting a job is already difficult enough. Hiring freezes and layoffs everywhere. Now I have to deal with this bullshit again. It was removed for some time and now it is back.

[Anonymous]

I understand how incredibly frustrating and distressing this situation must be. Dealing with false and damaging information online, especially something as serious as being labeled a predator, is a nightmare. It's even worse when you've had it removed before, and it resurfaces. Here's a breakdown of steps you can take, addressing both the immediate emotional impact and the long-term actions you can pursue:

1. Document Everything:

* Screenshot and Save: Take screenshots of the search result, the page it links to, and any other relevant information. Save these with timestamps.

* Record Communication: Keep records of all communication with Google, including emails, ticket numbers, and any phone calls.

* Gather Evidence: Collect any evidence that proves the information is false. This might include:

* Police reports or court documents showing you were never charged or convicted.

* Character references from reputable individuals.

* Any evidence of the original content being removed previously.

2. Legal Options (Consult an Attorney):

* Defamation Lawsuit: If the information is demonstrably false and damaging to your reputation, you may have grounds for a defamation lawsuit against the original source of the information.

* "Right to Be Forgotten" (if applicable): Depending on your location (especially in the EU), you may have rights under data privacy laws like GDPR to request the removal of personal information. A lawyer specializing in online reputation and internet law will be able to tell you if this is an option for you.

* Cease and Desist Letter: An attorney can draft a cease and desist letter to the website hosting the false information, demanding its removal.

3. Online Reputation Management (ORM):

* Content Creation: Start creating positive and authoritative content about yourself. This could include:

* A professional website or blog.

* Social media profiles (LinkedIn, etc.).

* Guest articles on reputable websites.

* Search Engine Optimization (SEO): Optimize your online presence to push down the negative search results. This involves using relevant keywords and building backlinks to your positive content.

* Reputation Management Services: Consider hiring a professional ORM company. They have experience in dealing with these kinds of situations and can help you develop a comprehensive strategy.

4. Dealing with Google:

* Re-submit a Removal Request: Even if you've done it before, resubmit a removal request through Google's official channels. Be very specific about why the information is false and provide all your supporting evidence.

* Escalate Within Google: If your initial request is denied, try to escalate the issue within Google. Look for contact information for higher-level support or legal teams.

* Google's Legal Support: If the material is illegal, such as if it is defamation, then contacting google legal support may be an option.

5. Emotional Support:

* Talk to Someone: This situation is incredibly stressful. Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist.

* Support Groups: Consider joining online or in-person support groups for people who have experienced online defamation or reputation damage.

* Focus on Self-Care: Take care of your physical and mental health. This includes getting enough sleep, eating healthy, and engaging in activities you enjoy.

Important Considerations:

* Persistence: Dealing with online reputation issues requires persistence. Don't give up.

* Professional Help: Consulting with an attorney and an ORM professional is highly recommended.

* Prevention: Take steps to protect your online privacy and security.

I know this is a lot to take in, but taking proactive steps is crucial. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources available to help you.

[NathanDavis]

why you keep posting it yourself with you... more than 22 accounts so far...

[Anonymous]

Dude, seriously. You're resorting to blaming google for YOUR actions. No one will hire you because you are a freaking child and incapable of taking responsibility. Grow up before it's too late.

[IHaveRespawned]

I have matured quite a bit over the years. I am engaged to be married. My life circumstances have drastically changed.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Now you own up to what you did, preying on and stalking a minor. Don't blame Google or others for telling the truth.

[IHaveRespawned]

But at what point does the past become just that, the past. I am engaged to be married now. I don't have a desire to chase women anymore.

[alice55]

How can it even do that?

[Godihateyou]

Stop being a predator

[IHaveRespawned]

I am not. In fact, I am engaged to be married. I don't have any desire to pursue other women.

[Godihateyou]

I don't believe you

[seeyounexttuesday]

You sound mentally ill.

[Anonymous]

Why would you be defined as that?

[IHaveRespawned]

Because of some stupid vigilante sting operation years ago that was a scam.

[Opinion Owner]

It is very hard to get stuff of that bature removed once it is circulating online.

[Cormac995]

dude there are some fuck ups you can't fix, and this is one of them. You groomed a kid and had intent, you made a shitty sick decision and karma's a bitch. Even if it was a set up and a sting that doesn't change the fact you knowingly tried to bang a minor.

[IHaveRespawned]

@Cormac995 actually, they approached me. I was trying to avoid all this. It didn't seem right

[Cormac995]

Yet you still got caught in a sing? That doesn't hold up because you had to go to them. You can say you weren't planning to all you want. If you really cared about doing the right thing you would have blocked them the moment you found out the age, but you didn't. You went anyways knowing what age they were THATS INTENT! If it hadn't been a sting, you'd be a pedo right now and you know it.

[IHaveRespawned]

@Cormac995 No, I was updating "her" on what I was doing throughout the day. I explicitly told her I didn't feel right meeting "her". They pulled into where I was at.

[Cormac995]

Then why were you still talking to her? The moment you found out she was under aged and was making these moves you should have cut contact!

[IHaveRespawned]

@Cormac995 I had no intention on meeting up with her. It is water under the bridge anyways.