What gets you up when you're feeling down?

[Dnice1]

I found out today that my uncle who is 89 years old was moved into hospice today. He's been through a lot in the past few weeks. He's not doing well at all. I've been feeling down ever since I heard the news. 💔😞

Updates

9 mo

R. I. P. to my uncle 😞

[ohsheeT]

That mean you have a heart you know that he's going to be lonely. You know that he doesn't know anybody there. You know that he's going to be abused and you feel bad


I don't know about the hospice care there but here. When they got involved with helping me take care of my mom. They asked me when was the last time? I had a break and I said I haven't had one. They said can we take her for a week? Get everything you need to get done done. Done relaxing a little bit and we'll bring it back in seven days

I told them I would do that, but on one condition. You would not give her any morphine at all. Not unless she asked for because she was in pain. That is the only way.

We talked about another 2030 minutes and then they promised me. They would not give her any working when they brought her back on the seventh day she was so fucked up

And for another week, and a 1/2, she was still so f***** u* on morphine, and then she died

Make sure if you do the same thing that you get it in writing that they will not give morphine, not unless he actually needs it. And first you want then to call you first. So you can okay because when they're in the hospice care

That's it, it's over. They will give you liquid and ivy. The only way to they're gonna feed you is, if you ask for it. But if you're all f***** u* on morphine, you can't ask for they're gonna pump him with morphine until he dies. That's how they take care of them. They treat them like cattle, they get them in there. Put them in a bed filling for morphine and just wait for them to die my mom died last June and I'm still p***** off about it now. Did I answer your question now? I think I wanted to do something about it. I told him no more thing and she died. Being high as a kithat's what really p***** me.

[ohsheeT]

Sorry for your loss. You have a beautiful , heart

[Dnice1]

Thank you

[ohsheeT]

I have to thank you for your question My mom moved in with me and my job was to take care of her and make the last days of her life happy and free. I didn't that very well when she came back from a hospice care, and they had her all messed up on morphine, and she never did snap out of it, and I would think I was over angry, I never said anything.\n That your question just reminded me on how adamant I was Oscar did not give her any more feed. I knew it was just a matter of time before she died but.
I didn't want her to die out of remind. Hgher than high. i because that's not what she would have wanted. I new this. And that's why I told them no. morphine

[ohsheeT]

And to answer your question i don't know what you believe in if you believe in life after death heaven or another dimension. Everything on this planet is energy and energy never dies

I know.
That there's probably a lot of people at hospice in retirement homes that they would just love to have somebody come in and say hi or do something nice for somebody
When you say hello to somebody looked deep into. They understand that you're saying more than a high that you're actually a good person, anywhere. 3 loads of bread peanut butter jelly. Make a bunch of sandwiches. And feed some homeless people

If you're at the grocery store, buy the person in front of you are behind you. The groceries are if you're in the fast food restaurant by somebody lunch. If you're in the driveway in line drive through line pay for the person us from your uncle

[Sunrising]

I'm sorry to hear about your uncle, he's obviously someone very special to you. When I've received bad news in the past, I try to think about other things, and I keep myself busy. I arrange to go out with friends, and perhaps visit somewhere I haven't had time to go to previously. Surprisingly I'm not down for long.

I hope this helps.

[Dnice1]

I have been doing those things and they have been helping

[Sunrising]

My condolences for your sad update.

[Sunrising]

Thank you for the MHO.

[bowenw]

I'm sorry to hear about this. I usually try to be with friends or family in these situations.

[Dnice1]

Same here

[bowenw]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences. 😢

[WonderingManII]

You need to walk through your grief. You can't force yourself to feel good about it. As a Christian you don't need to morn like those that have no hope.

[Kelly6]

@dnice1 mostly some songs

[Dnice1]

Songs definitely help

[Kelly6]

@dnice1
I have different songs for different mood

[LiamS95]

You always get me up when you chat with me.

[Dnice1]

Awww

[Bklynbadboy12]

Ice cream and are you okay

[Paige90]

New clothes

[Anonymous]

Drugs and validation from the opposite sex

[DJB72]

Music

[Jennz6]

Friends