A Married Woman Has Been Harassing Me for 3 Years. Should I Tell Her Husband?

[Anonymous]

[Masie]

There isn't much context to the situation. Do you work with her? How is she harassing ypu? What is her relation to her? What is your relation to him?

[Asker]

I explained it in detail, but my Xper level wasn't high enough.

[Asker]

I'm 25. Two years ago, while running my small business, I helped a homeless woman. That led me to volunteer with a charity organization, where I met a married woman.
At first, everything was normal. She often talked about how strong and caring her husband was. Then, after I posted a gym photo, her behavior completely changed.
Despite the fact that I kept my distance and never encouraged anything inappropriate, she started calling me late at night, sending inappropriate messages, and eventually confessed that she was in love with me. She even sent me a post-shower photo without my consent, which I found completely unacceptable.
I rejected her, changed my phone number, deleted my social media, and cut off all contact. I thought it was over.
Almost three years later, she somehow found my new account and contacted me again. When I ignored her, she started messaging my cousin and spreading false accusations about me.
Now I don't know what the right thing to do is.
Should I report her to the police for harassment and defamation?
Or should I tell her husband everything and show him the evidence? Personally, if my own wife were doing something like this, I would want someone to tell me. Infidelity has no gender.
The situation is even more complicated because I'm married now. My wife's sister knows what happened, but I haven't told my wife. I wanted to protect my marriage from unnecessary stress, but after this woman contacted me again, I'm no longer sure staying silent is the right decision.
What would you do if you were in my position?

[Asker]

I'm Korean, that's why my English is so bad. The woman sent a photo of herself after showering.

[888theGreat]

Anon her husband with proof

[Spencer10]

You need to have a direct discussion with her. No need to involve her Husband. That could get messy for you in my opinion.

[midnightmoon05]

Well it takes two.
why would she even have your cousins contact info… ? You like the drama… or you learn to be a mature person and handle life as a man.
you are Asian you know what I am talking about… especially a Korean man.

[Asker]

Does being a man mean harassing women?

[Asker]

Why don't you come to Korea and confront me? That way you'll see how much of a man I am.

[midnightmoon05]

You know what I mean what it is to be a man. I have been to Korea and know a lot about the Korean culture.
You still didn’t answer how why she has your cousins contact info.
You are anon. and weak.
The end.

[888theGreat]

I have 21 year old Asian women wanting to have sex with me, what should I do?

[Asker]

You're a parasite and a racist, finally.

[Nikki1989]

Stop being so spineless and do something about it. Obviously, posting anonymously on here demonstrates that you are lacking in that area.

[Asker]

You're the one who's always referred to as Karen, I guess nobody likes you, that's why you're angry.

[beenherebefore]

You should report her to the Police.

[Anonymous]

No you should fuck her🤭

[Asker]

I'm not such a simple person. We need to show empathy.

[888theGreat]

Well do such a bad job and she will never be heard from again