Me and hubby have been fighting for a while. He left for work today and won’t be back till tomorrow night. He’s been kind of ignoring me today but I saw a charge on our debit card for an airline so texted him asking where and why it was there. He was suppose to be back tomorrow as well to pick up our son from daycare. I kept asking about the flight and he says non of my business. Then finally said New Orleans and that he was going and not coming back. And to find a new sitter. And I freaked out and said what is going on? And he said “this is something I should’ve done a long time ago”. Clearly referring to divorce. I think I had a slight panic attack Anyway then he texted me and said he was joking. I told him that was a cruel joke. And he said the part of divorce is true but todays not the day for it. He then called me after work and said he was going to eat with 5 guys from work and 1 girl. No problem. I asked when he would be back and he said just dinner and he was going back to his hotel. I check our debit account 3 hours later and he’s bar hopping and ignoring my calls or texts so I blew his phone up. I feel disrespected. I feel like he doesn’t give a fuck about my feelings. I sent a ton of texts and calls harassing. I was very upset. Was I wrong?
Am I wrong to harass husband?
