Am I wrong to harass husband?

[Anonymous]

Me and hubby have been fighting for a while. He left for work today and won’t be back till tomorrow night. He’s been kind of ignoring me today but I saw a charge on our debit card for an airline so texted him asking where and why it was there. He was suppose to be back tomorrow as well to pick up our son from daycare. I kept asking about the flight and he says non of my business. Then finally said New Orleans and that he was going and not coming back. And to find a new sitter. And I freaked out and said what is going on? And he said “this is something I should’ve done a long time ago”. Clearly referring to divorce. I think I had a slight panic attack Anyway then he texted me and said he was joking. I told him that was a cruel joke. And he said the part of divorce is true but todays not the day for it. He then called me after work and said he was going to eat with 5 guys from work and 1 girl. No problem. I asked when he would be back and he said just dinner and he was going back to his hotel. I check our debit account 3 hours later and he’s bar hopping and ignoring my calls or texts so I blew his phone up. I feel disrespected. I feel like he doesn’t give a fuck about my feelings. I sent a ton of texts and calls harassing. I was very upset. Was I wrong?

[Guy13]

He's leaving you foe another woman he's been banging for who knows how long... That's my guess !!

[Staximus]

You're a control freak and you need to stop trying to keep a leash around his neck. Why can't he go out and have fun? Chill the fuck out and you won't have so much problems.

[Wubs3000]

he's making a joke about abandoning her and their child by flying across the country then lying to her about barhopping and is asking for a divorce. Thats not a control freak dude

[Staximus]

@Wubs3000 and that is probably why he's leaving her. He's tired of having a micromanager.

[Staximus]

What's done is done, freaking out is not going to change anything, just make it worse. Go get a babysitter for the night and go have some drinks with the girls, lady

[Asker]

I’m not being a control freak but common courtesy and respect is all I ask for. When he left dinner a SIMPLE text saying “hey ganna grab drinks then head back” would have beeeen more than sufficient. But instead he told me he was going back to the hotel initially but instead is our bar hoping and ignoring my calls and texts. And then texted me saying “I’m with the team can’t answer” like wtf

[Staximus]

He's out with co-workers, he doesn't have to give you an hourly update. He's going back to the hotel, not coming home. You're not waiting for him to come back home tonight or waiting at the hotel so it doesn't really matter when he gets back to the hotel. This is probably why he wants a divorce, because you are trying to micro manage his life. You are a control freak and it's time for you to come to terms with it.

[Wubs3000]

That is not a micromanager...

[Kelly6]

Wow

harassment is also on relationship?

maybe in future we will ask permission to kiss or hug?

weird world

[LazerBean]

That's quite the shit show.

[worldscolide]

Its like an episode of freaking Jerry Springer.

[LazerBean]

Literally

[worldscolide]

You both need to grow up. Seriously.

[Mart10]

You both need to work on your relationship

[Anonymous]

😂😂