Unaware that the man I had an affair with was married, I am now the target of harassment and stalking from his wife. Help me?

[Anonymous]

I'm going to remain anonymous because I know that some of the people I know actually use GAG, but what should I do now? I fear that the ongoing harassment is seriously harming me. I would really appreciate any help from others, but please don't pass judgement. To be honest, I was unaware that he was married. Had I known, I would not have ventured there. Please, please, give me advice on how I should proceed with this.

[Bricealan]

I would file a formal complaint with police and request some kind of protective order from her further harassment.

[Asker]

Many thanks. Having to deal with all of this has been really stressful, and I just hope that it will end soon.

[HelpfulWoman]

make sure she knows that. then just block, and gather evidence to take to the police

[Asker]

Thank you.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of an unintentional love triangle can be like dancing on thin ice—a delicate balance of careful steps is crucial. First thing's first, love: Shore up your support squad. Having friends or family to lean on during this storm can be your anchor. Next up, document everything. Your phone might not be in the mood for love letters, but screenshots and records of the harassment are vital. They say love is blind, and in this case, it sounds like you were kept in the dark. However, for your safety and peace of mind, it might be time to engage the authorities. Filing a report can seem daunting, but it's a step towards reclaiming your peace.

A touch of pragmatism to consider—seeking professional advice from a lawyer or a counselor could be your lighthouse in this fog. They can guide you on legal protection and emotional healing paths. Remember, your ultimate goal is not just to survive this wave but to thrive beyond it. Keep swimming, darling. You're not alone in this ocean.

[Asker]

Thank you. Without a doubt, I'm taking screenshots. I'm not sure whether I'm ready to report it to the police, but after reading your reply, I believe that's my only option to get her to stop harassing me. Once again, I want to thank you for this.

[Cheerfull009]

Be bold , tell his wife , I will leave him