An affair with a married man?

giageor
I am seriously considering having an affair with a married man that is almost 30 years older than me.

I am on a non-profit volunteer board of directors with him & we talk on the phone often for a long period of time & he tells me he loves me, he misses me. Besides saying so much on the phone, he has touched the thigh, knee, cheek, shoulder, arm & hair.

We had gone to an event & I gave him a ride to his car, he would not get out of my car, kept finding excuses to stay with me & touch! He is pushing for dinner now. wants dinner at a resort. said yes to dinner, no to place, 2 far. have not set a date yet. I am not sure what I want. He says that I am his weakness.

Well I was able to NOT go to Europe w/him which made him VERY sad. Once he got back though he has gotten bolder! We were at a fund raiser & I was selling tickets, he came & sat with me, the room doors were closed & we were alone in the foyer, he started in & says, I haven't seen you in sooooo long & he starts to caress hair, rub neck & he says what are the 2 of us going to do? I love you so much (about 3xs) then he suggests that we leave as he proceeds to rub shoulder, down my back, down to my waist & up again, then tries to tickle me; he says you're not ticklish? I said no, then he rubs shoulder again & says, have you had a massage? if I give you one, it will make your hair stand on end, I laughed. He says we need to talk, I said we're talking here; he says no, he makes the remark about he wants us to be private. I said private? He says yes, where are we going to go? I said not 2night.

We were all in NY for a convention (his wife too) was walking w/me most of the time, at u.n. told me he loves me (1st time in person), complimented me on an 18k necklace I had on. I was on the phone (business) when we were crossing the street, had me by the arm to guide me across. On plane made his wife move & all 3 of us sat 2gether.

We were at a conference & during the q&a 1 attendee said well to wake you up I will start with a SEXUAL comment/joke & as I turned to my right to talk & laugh w/the political candidate I was with, he turns to his left & directly to me, his group was to his right to comment with.

There was an event at the county treasurer's office & we were invited, he could not get away from his office because he had an electrician there, I called him & said I am leaving in 15-30min, he says NO don't go, I will find a way to get away & he did for about 30min to be there w/ me.

Last Friday, we had a board meeting & after the meeting I saw that he was driving down the same road as me, he calls me up & says let's go 4 coffee, so we go to starbucks, sit in the back corner where he tell me he loves me again, holding & rubbing my hand & since he knows that I will be leaving my job, offers me a job where I can go whenever I want to clients & just attend seminars. Says no one will question where you are at, pay is $80-100,000. Says don't go to another job until I open the office, it will be soon.
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Well we were at a conference in Detroit. At the hotel ALL the rooms were on the same floor but everyone else's was at the far corner while mine & his were far away next to each other. We went to a dinner dance & wanted me to go to a conference in philly
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Well, here I am almost a year after and little things have happened but I have not given in until...he asks me to share a room with him in Montreal for a conference, he said to me, you book it, either 2 double beds or 1king, ur choice, so I said ok and
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I booked the room and I booked a king. We made love that night and Sunday morning he sweetly woke me up and we made love again, a total of 4 times that night. I know I shouldn't of done it but I did, & I want him so much. We have talked everyday since
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About 10days ago we met at a busy parking lot & he brought me some supplies I needed for my friend's copier & I was in his car, we were talking, he was rubbing my thigh, I said don't start something that you can't finish, then he takes my hand and
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places it so that I can see how hard he is & says to me, see what you do to me, I want to touch you all over & I can't now & there are no hotel rooms around, then unzips, I gave him a handjob, wanted oral but I said no, someone will c us, I stopped b4...
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he came, I had to go to a meeting but I did not want to leave him. We made a date for that Friday, we had dinner then went to a nearby hotel & made love, then we laid in bed cuddled & just talked, neither of us wanted to leave.
An affair with a married man?
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