Do people judge and gossip about others because they feel lonely and unhappy?

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jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think a lot of people do it because they have low self esteem and need to feel like somebody in this world has a lower rank in comparison to them, because they are competitive and see so many high ranking people who make them feel inferior so they desperately look for a person who can make them feel superior in comparison to them.

I believe one major reason servants live shorter lives than bosses is that servants might have lower self esteem and less fulfillment with their position and job role.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Yes, you see that on here every day. Miserable, insecure people want everyone else to feel as worthless as they are.  And a man on here will say it is only women that are like this to once again deflect from their own total lack of personality. Just wait and see.

browsingthroughthe · Accepted Answer

@pearlshelledfairy I loved gossip in my previous jobs. Within reason. No it were never dark or damaging gossip to anyone.

If you ever get a job in certain fields lady, people will gossip. It's the nature of some.

Hope all is well with the pregnancy and your man

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I think they just like drama... and enjoy that instead

rgb008 · Answer

absolutely they wish they were as happy and free as us who they gossip about

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes, they do plus it makes them feel better to rant. Plus they may not like that person

queenofcardio · Answer

That's a possible reason. Sometimes their bored too

crazyengineer · Answer

Because they don’t have anything important to do or cheap minded. Smart people don’t gossip

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Gossiping is how some people, esp. women, bond socially.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Some yes but others made it a routine for them, a fun routine...

Anonymous · Answer

Not always. They may just be bored and the gossip is more exciting.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe women. Guys are not wired that way. We judge because that's the way we really feel. Now gossip if it happens is usually just to clown.

kinks1951 · Answer

Some feel life should be lived a certain way, no variations, have a difficult time accepting that not everyone sees thing like they do

_Jenny_ · Answer

@pearlshelledfairy Yes probably so

Athena1998_ · Answer

That's probably why some people have nothing better to do with their lives.

MrChinaski · Answer

They are certainly two of the reasons, yes.

whosnumber_1 · Answer

Because they are insecure

Flower7 · Answer

No, I think they do it for entertainment.

dudeinohio · Answer

Very possible

Paige2006 · Answer

That and more

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