People who say they don't care are lying to themselves. I'm sure they don't care about every little tiny detail someone says about them, but some gossip can actually be hurtful. Case in point, someone out to get me at my job, started some rumors, and the next thing I knew, I was being called into in an office with my boss and HR threatening to fire me. Oh sure it's fun to say gossip/rumors can't hurt you, and don't pay attention to them, but that's a lie. Even if you ignore them, they can break up friendships, relationships, interfere with your ability to do your job, get you thrown in jail (people accusing people of rape/pedophilia/abuse just to get even with people). Everyone cares...
I care especially if it is not true and if it is affecting my life. I confronted a few gossipmongers coz the rumour was getting out of hand. Bitch can't even look at me in the eye lol. Told them to stop and leave me alone. Other than that, I laugh at the gossip that are too petty to gaf about. It makes them look stupid and obviously has nothing going on their lives, they try to get in mine.
No, I dont care but there was a point in time when I did care about what people said about me. It took its toil on me and was stressing me out. If you are a person who cares what other people say about you, my advice would be to ask yourself, "why do they even care about you instead of themselves". The problem is that there are so many noisy mfers in the world.
No, I don't care. What a joke
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No, I don't give a fuck.
I only care to know if it's harmful to my reputation, then I may want to know in order to deal with the rumors. But outside of that I really don't care much. People are going to talk and that's just the way it is at the end of the day. Thankfully I have a reputation so that when someone does hear gossip about me they have the filter of actually knowing me as a person so if it doesn't match up with who I am they'll question the rumor. I've had gossip squashed early on, just because people who were actually present when something happened they could set the record straight. Making friends and maintaining a good reputation/good friendships is a very good thing.
I can't care about something I can't control
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Not really, I only care about the people in my inner circle and my true friends wouldn’t try to gossip or spread rumors about me.
People can form as many opinions as they want about me but it won’t effect my ability to be happy with myself or my daily life.
I do care only when people like those I am working with are nice to your face but then they stand around talking about me I know they are talking about me because I can hear them say my name and then when I walk in and they see me they look at me and stop talking
I care when its really negative. Like if someone started telling people I was dumb, I wouldn't care bc Im confident enough in my own abilities, I don't know what other people say. But one time, some random kid who I've never met said I smoked weed and Im not ok with that bc Im the opposite of a person who would smoke weed. Don't need that reputation.
I really don't unless they're trying to damage my relationship w/ loved ones or are trying to defame my character to an employer. I don't do things that I'd be ashamed of going public so only liars have damaging "evidence" against me. And it's easy for me to unravel lies.
not really. I haven't done anything worthy of gossiping about like.. cheating, backstabbing, you name it. So if someone's getting mouthy about shit they believe I've done, I would find it amusing about how stupid they look making shit up more than anything else. :P
I care to the extent that if people are talking about me behind my back, that's an indication that perhaps I've been acting kind of shitty. Either that or they're shitty. Either way, good to know.
I seem like I don't care BUT deep down I still don't care.
People have different perspective of others. You can't satisfy what everyone wants you to be. Be yourself and say " F*ck the Haters " and move on.
Nope. Its too much effort and if they are discussing me, then I must be fabulous in some way ❇️
No, I'm not even friends with these people, I only know them. I've heard gossip about me and it isn't even bad, like a week ago I heard that I look similar to Daniel from the bachelor and in like 10 years I'll look like him.
I used to care when I was younger, but I don't give a damn anymore. If you don't like me, but are still taking time out of your life to gossip about me, then bitch you're a fan.
Only if they went out of their way to ruin my life with their gossiping like the gossiping cost me my job then yeah I want to shove my foot up their ass and break it in their ass.
I care although I don't want to. I know I shouldn't pay attention to it, but somehow it always gets me.
The worst part is having a low self esteem bcs of this, which affected me a lot :/
I think everyone does.. it's an other thing if they let it get to them or not.. and if they want to do something about it or just stay chill.. but everyone does somewhat care about what people are saying about them
If I cared what people thought about me, I wouldn't have followed my dreams, and my diet would still be the whole carnivorous dream, and I wouldn't be a clean eating vegan.
Yes bc whatever they gossiping on they can just ask me ab it and its dumb to try and speculate, and no bc idc most of the time if they take time to say anything ab me thats their problem
Gossiping is so middle school. If you're a grown-ass man or woman you shouldn't even be talking crap about others. Fortunately, I don't surround myself with those kind of people.
Yeah. For one, I like knowing who my enemies. Two, I want to know what it is they're saying, They at least have to have the RIGHT info before they start talking shit. Can't be a hater and a liar spreading the wrong info.
I care if the gossiper is my close ones, or mutual friends.
I would also care if the gossips turn into rumors and start to affect my family, career or whatever related to me.
I would be amazed I did anything that warranted gossip (LoL) - I say it has been at least 10 years since I have - To anawer your question, could not care less
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