What is it about Asian women?

Question

for the past few years people have been telling black women to date outside of our race. but I think it is not even an option for a lot of black women. I heard that if a white guy is going to date interracial he is going after an Asian girl. so tell me...what is it about Asian girls that white men like so much?

kheserthorpe · Accepted Answer

Asian girl - white guy couples here are pretty common. A few reasons I think its much more common then white guy - black woman couples:

- I think its easier for white guys to pick up Asian girls. 'White' culture in the west is probably more outgoing on 'overt' when it comes to sexuality then Asian culture, so to the girls, the guys seem outgoing and confident. By contrast, I'd say 'black' culture in the west is more outgoing then white culture, so white guys seem shy and only hint at their interest compared to what black women are used to. The expected dynamic in terms of how much encouragement the woman expects to give the man is 'off' in black-white relationships, in a way that probably makes black male - white woman relationships easier to start, and white male - black woman ones harder.

- White nerds with good jobs seem to match up pretty well with some Asian girls. If black girls are into video games and manga, that message is not getting out. If black girls are into dancing and guys who are athletic and good at sports, the entire white cheer leading squad is already sleeping with that guy.

- white male black female relationships are less common, so there's less confidence among white men that black women are _interested_ in them. In fact, until I read it here on GaG, I didn't realize as many black women are as interested in white men as apparently are (though I'm not sure all are).

- it might help you to know that most psychology tests on the subject have apparently found that men don't care as much as women about race in dating. Men want to date hot women, period. If you're an attractive black girl, white men (in general) will be interested. However they may be more subtle about it then black men, and may expect you to flirt back rather then making them 'work for it' while you feign disinterest.

NothingGoldCanStay · Accepted Answer

Petite, tight, serviant, obidient, easy. Yep that is probably on somewhat of a conscious or sub conscious level why most men are going for Asian women. I personally, I have dated a few and never really had a good chemistry. I mean for sex, ye sure great women! The rest of the dating and girlfriend experience? Severly lacking. In the end of the day, getting that fast heartbeating tempo and excitement, is what I really look for when I date a woman. I don't think it has much to do with race, but more to do with how you click with that person on the emotional and mental level... as usual my answer is longer than most :p

hope it helped ;)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Generally speaking, I think Asians are used to thinking as a group. You're often stigmatized if you go against the flow, or do things that will otherwise make you stand out. So Asians will rarely disagree with you over small issues, and they will let small things that irks them go (of course, there are HUGE individual variations, but speaking as an Asian who has lived in Asia before, this assessment is one that many of my friends agree with). I think this means that they're easier to get along with. Even the Asians who grew up in America seem to have this attitude, probably passed onto them by their parents.

But in the west, both white and black women are taught to be strong and individual. They're supposed to stand up for themselves, and speak out when they see something wrong. This, done in moderation, is great, but I can see how this may become problematic in dating. I personally often find that black women are more opinionated than the white women, so maybe white men feel threatened/intimidated.

For example, I notice that you're trying to argue with a lot of people who gave answers. Like, the answerers below have said "because Asian women are ______." Then you'll often reply "and black women aren't ______?" To me, this sounds a bit accusatory, and it makes me feel a bit threatened. I would be scared to give you an honest answer, and maybe just feel too intimidated by you to ask you out (not that I would, since I'm straight!).

That being said, I do know several married white man-black woman couples. So if you're meant to be with a white man, it will happen! From your picture, you seem like a beautiful girl :)

pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

I know about 4 black women who are actually married to men outside their race. 2 of the guys are white and the other 2 are Hispanic. this is just counting girls in my age group that I know of.  however, I wonder why some people think "outside of your race" automatically means white. There are other races out there if you want to swirl.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you speaking of this in terms of being region specific (US white guys) or all white guys tastes?

I'm attracted to all women but usually notice black girls the most as that's what I'm more often then not attracted to. I heard about what you're saying though... that white guys in the US when they date out will likely not want a black girl but love Asian girls. It seems pretty much the opposite in England or even Europe oddly I hardly see white guys with Asian girls (not that they are ugly just its far rarer)

Phoenix52 · Answer

Asian girls are smaller size. More feminine. They can also get really dirty in bed if they're horny enough.

Black girls tend to be bigger in size. With a big booty. Not good for me because I want a girl who's smaller than I am.

Asian girls don't have a fiery attitude like black women do.

I'm being straight up with this. If you want to thumbs this down, please do. I don't give a sh*t. That's the way it is.

Anonymous · Answer

"I heard that if a white guy is going to date interracial he is going after an Asian girl"

That depends on the guy. Some prefer Asians, some prefer Latinas, some prefer Blacks, and so on.

"what is it about Asian girls that white men like so much?"

Their eyes and cheekbone structure VERY cute/exotic looking.

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Plus they are stereotyped as being very smart which is a super turn-on...

EngineeringStudent · Answer

Copy Paste from one of my previous answers:

I'm attracted to all races for a variety of reasons. With Asian women, a lot tend to exert:

A stunning blend of natural grace and beauty

An air of 'regal' dignity

A 'quiet' and 'simmering' sexiness

...and personally I just love that combination of almond eyes and long jet-black, silky hair...does it for me every time.

clockworkwaster · Answer

Men who generally see Western women (rightly or wrongly) as having hostile, selfish and aggressive attitudes towards men think (rightly or wrongly) that Asian women will be submissive and feminine, a subspecies of perfect female creatures.  I'd suggest they're grossly mistaken as a lot of Asian women are straight up crazy in their own right.

myspacemybroke · Answer

Small statue, round face. I donno. I'm not huge on the whole Asian fetish. Not that I've never been attracted to an asian, but a lot of guys are basically "oh wow, she's asian, I'm gonna tap that" typa thing. I've come across women from both races that I've been attracted to.

frodo1 · Answer

People tell Black girls to date outside their race because Black guys apparently don't want to get married. So if a Black girl wants to get married, she has better odds being married to a white/asian/latin guy. It sucks that Black guys don't want to get married, but its sort of an anti-government attitude.

RedThread · Answer

There is nothing special about Asian girls that any other women don't have. Maybe they are just more open to dating each other? Better communication? More outgoing? They did a study of dating sites and it showed that men are far more outgoing when it comes to dating outside their race than women are. Perhaps these Asian girls are more outgoing which catches the white guys attention? I wouldn't know I don't live in a diverse area.

King-Matt · Answer

Most of em are intrigued about the mysterious extra muscles in the vagina. Otherwise I don't know. I love kung fu and jet li movies... Maybe she'd make me feel more like a ninja...

99PROBLEMS · Answer

Theyre easy... Most hookers over here are from asia

cheeky82bloke · Answer

because they seem smart and nice.

Anonymous · Answer

It's pretty much what "EngineeringStudent" said for me.  Especially the last part.

Saber6 · Answer

why don't black date outside race? just asking.

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