Why do most men feel worthless compare to woman?

[Anonymous]

Like I see so many men who feel inadequate towards the woman they like and feel that they are unattainable. I feel that woman have this strong power over men and men see woman as the ultimate obstacle in life. And so many woman when they wear outfits that revealing makes some guys feel that she can get everyman in the room and makes me feel that she won't be interested in the average guy. Is it my mindset?

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Please don't be rude I'm not trying to be a clown or a troll I really hate trolls it just sucks the fun out of any social network.

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Can sweet o whatever stop being a bitch seriously I'm not asking problems just don't start controversy with your slick remarks.

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You woman complain that your lives are hard but look at the woman in saudi arabia and afghanistan their the true sufferers of our planet their the true hero's but you feminst pricks surely want men to act like animals.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Lemme guess, your a 20 year old something or nother, who's never dated, never kissed, never had a girl, so your blaming this concept of men feeling worthless ( because you feel worthless really,) to explain your particular situation?

Heard this one a million times.

Yes, women do have some odd power over men, and it's only because of the vagina and breeding rights really.

Why would women not want to dress up and look very attractive if the case so arises? We're women, it's in our nature to be sexy and as appealing as possible - hence why the make - up industry and fashion industry is such a hit.

It's not our fault that insecure men feel even more insecure because they don't know their own worthiness, that they feel so inadequate to a woman.

There's absolutely nothing women can do to fix a man's own insecurity issues. That's for him to buck up and figure out for himself.

I'm sorry, I just cannot pity this type of mindset, as I've been surrounded by the " average guy," and all of them have had relationships and succesfully picked up women. Don't confuse them for the minority of guys who simply cannot figure out how to obtain a woman.

[Asker]

Go f*** yourself I know your a troll. prick.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

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[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

I'm not sorry for what I said, only because these are how those men are. The way you talk about men feeling inadequate and unworthy is only a reflection of men who have dating problems - not men as a whole. I told you why it seems to be that way. If you can't handle that then too bad.

Maybe it was a bit blunt and rash, but life is blunt and rash so whatever.

Lol and I'm not a troll

I'm just mean as hell ha ha.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

So call me a cu*t and block me now, because I know that's what the overly sensitive take everything super personal people do on this site anyway.

I don't fancy going back and forth spewing needless words of spite either so either get out your feelings and we can discuss what I said accordingly, or go about your business?

[Princesspower]

"It's not our fault that insecure men feel even more insecure because they don't know their own worthiness, that they feel so inadequate to a woman."

Women are just as insecure and do the same behavior when they are around a man they really like.

Insecurity is not gender specific.

If you think so you're sadly mistaken.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

@ Princesspower

Oy

I never said it was gender specific - but if you read the context of this question, the focus is on MEN not women. Therefore, it is to be stated as I did in respects to insecurity in men, because it is specific to this question.

Gah sorry to be a bltch but come on now. Please please please, get out of your emotions, and above all, understand ALL the context of what your reading before leaving comments.

Thats all you need to do.

Damn...

[Asker]

I don't have time to argue with a **** so I'm not saying nothing concerning this topic.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Good we both agree on something then :)

[Princesspower]

Women don't have it so great.

Let me give you a few examples.

I want you to think back 5 years ago to the following images of these people.

1. Britney spears.

2. Christina Aguilera

3. Lindsey lohan.

4. Jessica Simpson.

Now think of them TODAY.

Its called aging. Its something that women have to deal with all the time. We all have different methods of dealing with this. Which is why most women change behaviors drastically around 25-30 years of age.

Suddenly that guy that they thought was ugly last year starts looking pretty hot.

(if they are not married or haven't had a child)

Conversely your average man gains money as he gets older, he gains experience and accumulates more wealth.

Men are attracted to looks (indicators of youth and fertility) which degrade over time.

Women are attracted to all forms of power (which have nothing to do with age)

such as confidence, Height, dominance, money, ambition, humor (form of confidence)

Leadership, Muscles (etc.)

So keep this in mind next time you see a woman that you feel they have it better than you.

Trust me, we do not.

[Asker]

These celebrities got personal problems it's not aging because I see woman who are much older than me and are sexy and beautiful I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But woman are attracted to immature superficial things. What about a man with a good heart who likes to work and go to school. I also witness woman a lot of woman who date guys for financial reason even if the girl has money too. So basically woman have it easy I'm single and don't have a girlfriend.

[IHateBeingaMan]

you really think it gets harder for women as they get older?

[Princesspower]

"These celebrities got personal problems it's not aging because I see woman who are much older than me and are sexy and beautiful I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Ask yourself this question did those women (to you) look better 5 years ago or do they look better today?

Age also has to do with the way the body deals with fat and metabolism and how you look.

"But woman are attracted to immature superficial things."

so are men.

[Princesspower]

" I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. "

If this statement is true then the same could be said for both sexes.

Meaning what one woman finds beautiful another will not. (regardless of what "thing" looks, money etc) it happens to be.

[Princesspower]

"What about a man with a good heart who likes to work and go to school. "

We like these things.

"I also witness woman a lot of woman who date guys for financial reason even if the girl has money too."

Correct. like I said, People (both men and women) who have power always want more power.

In other words, women who have money want more money.

[Princesspower]

"you really think it gets harder for women as they get older?"

Yes. let me put an analogy for you.

How would a man feel if the he was forced to wear the size of his penis tattooed on his forehead along with his total net worth?

Now take those numbers and have it decline every year?

How much harder would it be for a man to get laid if this happened?

This is how it is for women.

Eventually you can't hide your age. Most men look for evolutionary keys for fertility, i.e. Youth characteristics.

[Asker]

You sound like your throwing personal problems at me sometimes it's a woman fault the type of men she dates. You see everyday lowlife man with a girl who thinks that the type of men she is with will care for her and provides for her. until she realizes he's no good than she blames all men and tries to poison the water of younger female generations that all men are shallow. Woman are selfish to date a guy for his net worth you have the right to work why not get a f***ing job.

[Princesspower]

"sometimes it's a woman fault the type of men she dates. "

No one forces anyone to date anyone.

"You see everyday lowlife man with a girl who thinks that the type of men she is with will care for her and provides for her."

Every woman wants a man who will care for her and at the very least take care of her emotionally. Now as far as providing for her, the money aspect depends on the woman.

" until she realizes he's no good"- this is her fault but men do the same thing.

[Princesspower]

"she blames all men and tries to poison the water of younger female generations that all men are shallow. "

Men do the same thing. This is not gender specific. Men and women both generalize about people "in general". When its negative they assume the rest o the sex will act the same way.

" Woman are selfish to date a guy for his net worth you have the right to work why not get a f***ing job."

Its no more selfish than to date a woman solely on her looks.

[Asker]

I see the picture feminist whores behind the computer always ready to attack someone because of their question. you may also attack me since I'm a republican right? you bash the politically incorrect people. Tell me something how much of an a**hole are you?

[Princesspower]

im not attacking you.

Though from that last bit, it seems like you are attacking me.

[IHateBeingaMan]

some women disagree that it gets harder for them as they get older, look at this question here: link

[kady4e]

that works the opposite way in my life.

well, I mean... ''with so many other girls around, why would he want me?'' that's what I always feel.

[dudefromhere]

i guess that's cause it's easier to be a pretty girl than a hot guy.

Girls got their makeup and as long as they are slim they are hot mostly.

Guys on the other hand, gotta hit the gym, get a six pack, great biceps, and not to mention that girls are less visual than guys, which means they even consider our characters and personality.

How many of us guys are really confident about our personalities as the guys that are fun. Don't we have our lives to get on as well? We got our careers to worry about as well the fun guys are usually douche dropouts.

In short us guys are judged on way more criterias than we judge women which is based on her looks and that can be improved by makeup. How many guys really do care so much about a girl's character as compared to her appearance? But in the other direction, it's not that simple...

[ihatework]

it's the disease known as 'puttingwomenonapedestal'.

[moviedude714]

people are always gonna blame the feminism, baby boomer generation

[defytraditiongirl]

putting women on pedestal

[dingjian]

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