If the outgoing funny guy gets awkward or shy around you, does it mean he's interest?

[Kpopmanic]

He's not a playboy, just outgoing and likes to hang out with his friends. Just her my story, I was waking in the corridor and he was playing with a balloon and he kicked the ball in front of me...he was smiling at first bit suddenly stopped all movement, like stunned or amazed, I glanced him coolly and went away.

Then like after an hour, I felt like I was being too unfriendly and felt sorry, so I opened the door and he was just passing through the door with a surprised face, I just kept a poker face and went away. Then I liked him...

He did childish actions around me, I'm not sure, it's just we got into the same group coincidentally. He should my nane when playing pictionary, he looked at me intensely to ask a question. But looked away before I could answer it. He turned himself to the wall when I passed him, he apologized shyly when I caught him doing sth silly. I touched his hand but he gave no traction, rather calm it was. And for the first time I caught him staring after our 3 meeting and looked away immediately. Ha, and he's talking awkwardly when I ask him a question and smiled awkwardly too. Does this suggest interst? Yet, we haven't really chatted lol, we are totally differ person from the way I portrayed myself:(

[Lommelun]

Most likely he's head over heels in love with you, but he can't seem to find a good way of expressing that. He's insecure and he don't know how to handle being near to you. But all he needs is to be told that you're open for some advances. That ought to sort these things out.

He is definitely behaving like a typical male in deep infatuation.

And you're sending him "negative" signals, or at least signals he's interpreting as negative. He's aching - and he's lying awake at night fantasising about talking to you in a worldly, witty manner.

Help him out of his misery. Either open up for him and ask him out on a date, or tell him directly that his infatuation is lost on you.

[Lonergirl0506]

Really? He likes me too? But he doesn't approach me! He just hang around with his friends and even whistles when he saw some hot girls pass by...and teases some of his old girl frd lol, then one time I went up to him and were really talking, I asked some about the direction of the subway which I really don't know and he answered it between comical and stammering , then let out an awkward smile, I think he's just being polite...but what means deep infatuation?

[Kpopmanic]

I mean I'm not one of those goddess like pretty and obviously I'm not of likable personality too, how could he possibly be infatuated to me man?

[Lommelun]

So you think only the Goddess beauty types have boyfriends? Try thinking calmly about it. Most of us aren't greek gods, but we seem to manage pretty well no matter what. But don't dawdle around, just ask him out on a date. I could be wrong and he could say no, or he is just waiting for just that opportunity. Either way you find out something valuable.

[Lonergirl0506]

Nah, I thoug so because he's too perfect for me...u know, he's that playboy vibe but he's a good man I heart, he treats his friends well and the teacher said he's mature...I bet many girls have a crush on him too, like every time he post a photo on fb is a girl whom like it, luckily I didn't find any girks in his photos...but he's gone now, he's studying abroad, maybe it's because he knew he had to leave and felt its impossible, now he doesn't even add me in fb, has he lost interest?

[Kpopmanic]

Read the lonergirl0506comment, it's. Me too, has he lost interst?

[Lommelun]

No way to tell unless you talk to him. Be bold. Dare to be rejected.

[Kpopmanic]

But the next time I'll talk to him is. Xmas lol

[Lommelun]

Then you've got almost two months to rack up some confidence, and be rational about it. In the meantime, go out and have fun.

[BobbyD]

Listen to me, please.

Find ways to be around him more, and do it in a non-intimidating way. Comment on whatever he says. Make him feel more comfortable around you.

Eventually, he'll come to you. And please let him come to you.

[Kpopmanic]

But is he interested? And how could I let him come to me? Actually his actions are subtle because he don't always act like that around me, if he's around his friends, and if I'm there too, he acts normal... But I don't understand that whenever I have a sharing, he seems can't concentrate or don't listen to my words, because he's either looking down or planing with himself, and I'm looking at him while I'm talking. And also once I was sitting just the opposite of him, I bit my lower lip as I was bored,

[Kpopmanic]

But he looked away immediately, what does this mean?

[BobbyD]

I feel like you're a young girl, so let me tell you a bit.

When guys face pretty girls, they can say dumb things or not say anything. Like for me, I can get any girls number if she's someone I don't like. As soon as it's someone I like, it's like walking through hell.

Girls can feel a strong emotion, but not one that makes them do stupid things that men do.

At most, ask for his number. Then let him pop the question.