Is it better to let things blow over, or to talk about them?

[FierceMegan2]

Is it better to let things blow over, or to talk about them?

Especially, the little things that bug you.

[aMuse]

It really depends on the gravity of the situation. Something minor let it slide, something major, fix it and fix it quick. =P The little things that really bug you? If it's your boss or your sister or someone like that grin an bear it. If it's your SO, well they are who they are, you can mention things once, and see if they will try and be a little more considerate, but long run if you are too different and constantly on each others nerves, then you're just not on the same page and probably have to walk different ways. Nagging someone constantly about something they are, and can't really change just leads to fights. Either you need to get over it and accept them, or find someone that doesn't have that deal killer trait that really annoys you.

[Belgie]

I think it really depends on whether it is a little thing. Guys and girls opinions on that can vary wildly.

The more stable the relationship the more you can bring petty little things up. If things are rocky, then its best not to rock the boat. That means letting things slide with forgiveness and tolerance not just burying a growing resentment and letting it fester.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Talk about them. If you let these things bottle up at some point you'll let it go and then it won't be pretty. All the little things add up and then you sit with a whole lot of unresolved issues but if you take one at time as they come it's much easier to cope with.

[DianaDDreamer]

Depends on the person. Some people need to clam down before you can talk to them.

[FierceMegan2]

True. :)

[lace1228]

It is better to let things cool down then talk about.

[artfullyliving]

the little things can be entries in journals that are burned or shredded or read and then destroyed

[RedThread]

It's better to talk about them ha ha ;)

[FierceMegan2]

LOL! :D