Why would my boyfriend treat me like the enemy?

[Anonymous]

We have been together almost 2 years and lately when I speak to him its like he looks for a negative meaning. He is treating me more like an enemy than lover. We had a wonderful 1st year how can things change so quickly?

[CrystalMinds]

Have you asked him what's up? If he's having any issues at work or at other stuff? Maybe he's really stressed, something happened, ...

Ask him, there are so many reasons for this, we can sum them up but you won't know anything more about your specific situation.

Ask him if you could talk to him for a minute, tell him that you feel he's acting differently (don't blame him like he's acting strange, that won't do the conversation any good). Ask him if he's willing to talk about it and if he's not, you'll be there for him and you'll listen when he's ready.

[Asker]

Thank you that is a much better approach, I appreciate you taking the time to give advice

[CrystalMinds]

You're welcome! I hope things work out :-)

[3boys4me]

He's just not into you anymore. This is just his spineless way of breaking up w you.