Girls, what looks hotter, big bulky muscles or lean mean with abs

[Anonymous]

So I decided get into gym.

My friend told me that there are two ways to approach it

1) Get big bulky with huge arms, shoulders or

2) Get lean mean and ripped, with 6 pack abs

So I asked him, why not get big and bulky with 6 pack abs,

he said that it impossible since if you want to get big,

you need to eat more so getting 6 pack abs is hard.

[MyNameIsJonas]

Your friend is incorrect. It's very possible to build lean muscle and gain a 6 pack. Depending on what your starting with you can get a better picture. Also your definition of big a bulky...

For example this is bulky/big not so much tone link Believe he is a power lifter...

link this guy is cut up although still has muscle tone.

If you want lean muscle diet and cardio play a part in your routine. Also always be ready to question other peoples perspectives or advice (even mine) because nobody has all the answers. I just know from personal experience because, I've been big and bulky, I've been skinny and cutt and right now I'm lean and muscular because I have a very broad routine that adds a lot of different types of exercising.

[kheserthorpe]

While you can get both, its hard to simultaneously target both in a given week. You're eating above maintenance, or you're eating below.

[MyNameIsJonas]

I don't really calorie count but I eat healthy, I also do cardio everyday with my weight training. I think people have a big misconception that if you do ANY cardio you will lose muscle... Meat heads at the gym won't even run a mile because of that fear...

It's really not hard in my opinion but I'm used too it. For starters it a lifestyle change.

[PhilaPenn]

Bulking up to a size that you skeleton was not designed to support is dumb. It makes you look like a meathead. It makes you look like yourself esteem is low, and your overcompensating. Women like chests, and abs. Stay your natural size and just get shredded. You won't need to binge on weight gainer or eat till you wanna vomit.

[Anonymous]

I like muscles, but not crazy body-building kinda stuff! Plus I love a wide chest and broad shoulders. Guess it's that's whole "protective" vibe.

Hope this helped! Could you answer mine, plz?

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Tks!

[FairyDoll]

I love when guys have nice abs! I don't like body-builder muscles though.. Nice and toned is always good though :)

[CatholicVirginia]

I prefer the muscles, but not CRAZY muscles. But I like a wide chest and shoulders.

[Cottoncandydreams]

number 2 please. I just don't want to be crushed by the weight of my man.

[Prettygurl12]

Lean swimmer's body, please.