What should I do if my girlfriend pinches me really hard?

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My girlfriend pinches me really hard and it hurts. I can take it like a man but it still hurts. Sometimes I pinch back and then she hits me so I pinch back and then she hits be harder which ends up in a fight. She then tells me that I am a man and suppose to take it. Feel free to ask me any questions.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"Hey! That hurts! Stop it or be prepared for me to react."

In my relationship we have an agreement that we'll only do to the other what we would be acceptable having them do to us.

You need to make sure she sees how upset/hurt her actions make you. Just because my boyfriend is 6'5, and outweighs me by 75 lbs does not mean that I would ever try to hurt him or do something to him that because he's a man, he has to take. It also doesn't mean that I assume that because I am smaller than he is, that I could never inflict pain on him no matter how hard I tried.

I am 100% capable of severely injuring him just as he is 100% able to injure me. You need to sit down and calmly explain to your girlfriend that if she insists on continuing to inflict pain on you that she has agreed to any physical reaction you have.

For example. If I insist on pinching my boyfriend knowing he asked me to stop, I am willingly accepting that he will grab my wrists twist me around and pin me to the ground to get me to stop.

Also, if he insists on tickling me even after I've asked him to stop, he accepts that he will be kicked in the shin. brought to his knees and made to lay on his stomach with his hands behind his back as if I were to cuff them.

But I suppose that's how things work when two police academy students date :P

Bottom line is that you need to set up a boundary with her and make her understand your tolerance for physical pain.

writrgrl · Accepted Answer

I could see playfully hitting you every so often and then leaving off it for awhile.

However, I think your girlfriend's point of view is majorly skewed. Just because you're a man does NOT mean you have to take it. If she keeps it up after you tell her to stop it, I think you should just break up with her. It sounds like an unhealthy relationship to be in.

whattodo1234 · Accepted Answer

If she isn't listening, you need to tell her a little more forcefully that you are a man and that she is hurting you, even if she isn't meaning to and that she needs to please stop because it's not really fun.

Confucius16 · Accepted Answer

If you pinch her back, then you're only fueling it. Don't pinch her back at all, or she'll get a rise out of it.

If you don't like it, be assertive. Let her know that you don't like her to pinch you. She can't just do whatever she wants to you, and then claim that you should be a man. Then she is doing whatever she wants to you, on the grounds that "you should be able to take it".

JohnBelluci · Accepted Answer

Tell her that YES you are indeed the man, and that you're gonna bitch slap her if she doesn't go back to the Kitchen and fix you a sanwich right now.

See how she likes gender roles... since she's so keen to impose it on you for her benefit.

Anonymous · Answer

Please, oh please lord if you really do exist, let this question be a joke. If it isn't, I don't know what you should do when your girlfriend pinches you. Maybe go tell your mommy so she'll get a scolding or something. Or you can tell her you won't be her friend anymore cause she's a big meanie.

Eugene · Answer

Bang her in the butt and tell her that's she a woman and she must take it.

Anonymous · Answer

play her at her own game, do something that annoys her and that will hurt her and if she says that's annoying or she's doesn't like it then you have a compromise and leverage against her, you can say you will stop if she stops pinching you, if not then you will continue.

like you could chew with your mouth open, burp in front of her

pee all over the toilet seat, when your having sex come quicky instead of taking your time

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

Maybe she's mad at you? I bet you pinching you is exciting for her and she likes the battles. When you retaliate it makes her madder... so, let her have her way. Girlz rule boyz drool

Mysecrets · Answer

I play hit the guy I like. I think it's just flirting.

Jazzy_Abz · Answer

let the climax built to a proper fight... and then BAM* have a make up sex!  hopefully no more hard pinches..  (:

katkaintkwit · Answer

tell her you don't like it

Vendrix · Answer

Act like a man and Tell her it hurts and to stop.

KittyLink · Answer

kick her in the balls.

yopyopyop · Answer

Time to buy yourself a whip ?

FakeName123 · Answer

360° nippletwist her to assert dominance.

Anonymous · Answer

give her a straight shot right to the baby maker

Anonymous · Answer

You should just let her be.

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