apologise to her. maybe show up at her house with a gift to show some sincerity 🤔
texts won't work - yoir girlfriend won't be able to feel anything from a screen.
if your calls don't get through and you're at a loss, try contacting her best friends or her parents/family. you might be able to get help if you showed how you regret what you did.
I hope this helps, and I hope something like this won't happen to you both again. please try to restrain yourself from being unintentionally violent when you're mad; I don't know what exactly happened, and I know it's easier said than done, but please keep in mind what has happened this time, how hurt she was, and do your best to prevent this from happening.
good luck!
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"I didn't mean to hurt her"
"I walked into her very hard DELIBERATELY."
Kid, don't make bullshit excuses when you know you were wrong. She was wrong to push you but your reaction to a situation like this shouldn't be to get MORE violent. If she's hitting you, yeah you have a right to defend yourself, but something like a shove is better walked away from, not ramming into her so hard that she has actual physical evidence that could get you into a lot of serious trouble.
My advice is you take this as a lesson and you two split. Period.
You sure that's all that happened? I never heard of someone getting hurt that badly (esp a cut in the face) from just bumping into someone?
It doesn't look good. Might as well apologize in person and giving it at that. Do not beg her back in your life.
Not cool man. You have to be more mature and you have to be more in control of your body.
First, if someone drives you to this much anger, and that is unusual for you, you need to cut them out of your life, for both of yalls sakes.
Second, you need to very carefully do some soul searching and figure out where that impulse came from and why you acted on it. Maybe an anger management site would help.
www.helpguide.org/.../anger-management.htm
Best thing to do is make sure she understands that both of you were angry and couldnt really control yourselfs easily atm.
Angers very hard to control and thats just fact, Its just a part of fight or flight thats kinda nasty
Oh and dont forget to make sure she's physically okay too
wouldn't want her to get an infection or anything
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It is wrong what you did, but I just want to say how I get so pissed off seeing shit like this. How a girl is allowed to do whatever she wants but no one says anything until the guy has had enough and retaliates.
Honey, all you can do is apologize. Whether you hurt her worse than what you say, or you didn't.
After you've apologized, you just have to live with what her decision was.Your actions have consequences, and sometimes what was done can not be undone. I guess that might be the lesson you learnt here. Coming from a similar situation, I can tell you one thing and that is that she will never look at you the same way again. Life is full of lessons to be learnt, become a better man.
You must have bumped into her VERY hard to cause that much damage! Apologise to her? Have you spoken since?
This is what I'd say to her:
"I feel bad about your bruises, I really do. But I just don't like it when people shove me. I've never started a fight in my life, but I'm ended a few."
She might even apologize to you.Thats a lot of damage for just bumping into someone...
dude apologize to her and what you did was extremely wrong and you know that, just respect her and never do it again and she was arguing about the thing as she cares for you
Just apologize without having your ego. Be careful from next time before hurting her.
She shouldn't've been looking at your phone without permission, but you shouldn't've been sending dick pics to her best friend, so, you were both in the wrong.
you apologise and let her go. That's how abusive behaviors start.
Just apologize and take her out to dinner and desert because chicks love dessert sweet talk her the whole night
doesn't sound like you did a horrible thing.. it will be fine..
You didn't mean to hurt her, yet you deliberately pushed her.
Wow. And you're trying to look like the good guy here.You can try to apologize but if I were her, I would certainly break up with you.
Apologize & dont do it again.
Go to police. Trust to the justice.
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