Why is a married man seeking attention?

[Anonymous]

Why is a married man seeking my attention by texting me and telling me about his life? Him doing stupid family functions, him being hungover, teasing me and asking what I'm doing? Am I the girl he has in line when he gets divorced?

[washize]

He's either,

1.) Lonely and just wants someone to talk to.

2.) He's trying to make you his girlfriend/mistress

3.) He's trying to get you into a 3some with his wife

4.) He's getting divorced and wants you to be his placement holder

5.) He just wants a friend.

IS he flirting with you? Does he make it a point to touch you? That can give you indication as to what his intentions are.

[Asker]

He says friend but is very clingy and needs to know where I am. He has tried to hook up with me but he says I (he wants to find a good boyfriend for me) need a good boyfriend. he texts me everyday and sends me pics of a concert he went to (when he uploaded them on fb and we are friends)

[washize]

No, no no no no no. SOOO inappropriate. You should steer clear. A married man should not be "clingy" to any woman other than his wife.

[Asker]

Can I email you?

[washize]

sure

[KingJR]

...you're that same girl that's asked this same question 3 times now already aren't you...You've gotten plenty of responses. You must not be all that bright...

[writethe78]

Most likely, yes. Or at least he wants you to be. Married guys don't talk to other girls like that unless they're attracted to them.