When you call a guy sweet, do you mean that he can never be a boyfriend to you?
Girl calls me "sweet guy". Is this a bad signal?
When you call a guy sweet, do you mean that he can never be a boyfriend to you?
When girls say you are a sweet guy, we mean just that your sweet. You can be more than friends.
The only time sweet puts you in the friend zone is if your actually already friends and have been there forever without telling her how you feel. If she's super popular and she's your friend/buddy.
Lastly, if she says awww that's sweet and rubs/pets you on the head. (like on movies). Your defiantly stuck in the friend zone, permanatl. But then again, in a lot of movies the best friend finally finds out the other one had feelings for them, and they secretly felt the same way, and end up together.
I'm sure you'll have a, Happily Ever After, too.
I really hope it works out for you,
xoxo Monae
Aah! I don't understand boys at all! When I call a guy sweet, it means that he IS SWEET and since I like that, I think he's attractive. Tbh, for me it's a pretty big deal to call a boy sweet/a sweetheart.. Nevertheless there's a difference between 'aaww that's sweet' and 'you're so sweet you know that?'. The latter is because I WANT to say it and the former because I don't know what to say..
We can't possibly tell. Even the poll is 50/50. Some girls will tell a guy they fancy that they think they're sweet, as a compliment, whereas others could say it meaning they see them as a nice friendly guy and nothing more. If I called a guy sweet, it wouldn't necessarily mean he's in the "friend zone", I'd just be complimenting his sweet nature. And they say girls over think everything?!
What you need to understand is that every person is different, and every relationship (including friendship) is unique. There's no particular word or phrase that means the same thing coming from everyone. Try not to read too much into any particular thing she says, and focus more on the big picture, and the context in which she says it. If you're not sure what she means by something, it's always okay to ask for clarification! Ask her what she means by "sweet", and you'll probably have a better idea of how she feels towards you. Communication is the most important part of any healthy relationship. :)
I voted "A", no this isn't bad at all. Being "sweet" is good, as long the guy is masculine and assertive in his mannerisms with her.
Almost every female loves being around a take-charge, protective, assertive, man that is confident with his full self, weaknesses as well as strengths.
Why?
Because being around a guy that exudes such strength, allows her to fully be in her feminine role, and most females love that. :)
ding ding ding we have another winner, who is spot on if I might add...
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i would only call a guy who likes me sweet,that I don't feel the same about I call him sweet to avoid being rude and to change the subject without replying,directly to what they said.
example:
boy: Any guy-would be lucky to have you
me: aww your so sweet :)
yup.
I don't think so. I call people I appreciate sweet. Sometimes I use it to tease guys implying they are girlie because they perceive "sweetness" that way and openly complain to my amusement.
It's a laugh among my peers.
And I've used the term to describe almost everyone in my life, including some guys I was attracted to.
There should be other options to the poll... Calling a guy sweet can be flirting, or thanking him because he did something sweet ("oh thanks, you're such a sweet guy"). So it could be possible that you can be more than friends with her later, but I wouldn't say "definitely", because you can't be sure based on just calling you a sweet guy.
It really depends on how you say it... Sometimes if she says it in a sympathetic way, then she's trying to make you feel better about yourself or not let you down as hard.
On the other hand she could have said it in a really honest way, which would mean she sees you as a potential date or something along those lines.
Good luck and maybe try asking her if she has feelings for you.
ding ding ding we have a winner! this is basically what I was going to say..
I really depends on the way she said it. If she said it in a shy flirting way, You might be lucky.
If she said it in a friend-like way and she has a background of bad guy boyfriends, than I'm affraid you got friend zoned...
I was teasing her, and in return she said "You are such a... sweet guy" like she was about to say something bad but stopped and said sweet guy instead. I assume it's flirty? What do you think?
She has no boyfriend, she never had and also hardly has any guy friend...
is that bad?
I like how girls pretend you can be friends more, but guys know the real truth lol. Listen to us guys.
Yes, it really does depend on how she said it.
But on the bright side, girls usually end up with the nice guy once they realize the guys they've usually dated are no good for them.
When I call a guy sweet it is because I like him. Maybe she likes you too. But for sure she is not putting you in the friend zone.
Thank you for the reassurance. The girl I like said it in the most honest tone and smiling too with eye contact. It's like she's glad to hear that.
If I called you sweet to your face, there is a 75% chance I would date you.
I've dated girls who call me sweet... So I'm assuming it's fine or good.
So I assume because of this stupid assumption that the "friend zone" exists and the typical stigma exists around "oh if a girl calls a guy sweet etc, he's friendzoned"; this is why a lot of guys don't end up getting the girl BECAUSE they think they've been friend zoned.
It can go either way. What are your other interactions like?
thats a good question, if you're meeting for lunch and going out with her and her girlfriends you my dear are in the friend zone
Well if it's a guy that I like, and I'm saying he's sweet, I definitely see him as a potential boyfriend. Unless he is just a friend, then I see him as a friend, it really depends on where you stand with this girl.
I probably wouldn't call a guy sweet to his face if I didn't want to date him.
Vote's 'B' - that's how I perceive it (There could be exceptions though)
I would never compliment a guy unless I felt attracted to him. But that's just me.
Lol if I call a guy "sweet guy" it means I think he's a really nice, cute guy and that I really like him(or more) :)
I voted A. I've called my guy friend sweet before he became my boyfriend : P
No lol If I say you are sweet it's probably because I uh thought you did or said something sweet or do often. Doesn't have to mean anything beyond that...not one of my normal words tho.
Actually if a girls calls you "sweet guy" it doesn't mean you're only a friend or you're a special one for her.So I mean don't be obsessed you'll see what will happen with time.
I think if a girl calls a guy sweet.it means that the boy in the girl's heart is very good.but you should have a ask to her.good lucky to you :)
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