Girls what if your boyfriend lost a fight

[Anonymous]

What would you do if you saw your boyfriend lose a fight for whatever reason. Would you think differently of him? Would you leave him?

[udolipixie]

What would you do if you saw your boyfriend lose a fight for whatever reason?

Most likely laugh then text the video of the fight to my gal pals and post the video online as I likely recorded it.

Would you think differently of him?

I'd think he just got beat up.

Would you leave him?

Egh if he was disfigured in the fight as my leaving would depend more on him losing attractiveness than a fight.

[Prof_Don]

Damn that's harsh pixie girl

[udolipixie]

@Prof_Don

Not seeing the harshness. (?)

Likely this was a public fight so others saw him got his a** kicked so it's not like I'm showing the world something private and said boyfriend would probably leave him if I lost attractiveness as it seems quite common for guys to dump a gal if she gains weight/gets older so tit for tat in that case.

[IHateBeingaMan]

I like your answer, lol

[singlegirl1992]

I would sympathize with him. Take care of him. Do anything to make him feel better. At some point I'd probably get a little upset that he got into a fight, but I wouldn't think less of him for losing and I certainly wouldn't leave him because of it.

[IHateBeingaMan]

that's weird, most girls expect guys to take care of them not the other way around

[Anonymous]

Definitely not! I'd be more concerned that he did get into a fight rather than he lost. If you're considering leaving him I just have to question whether you're really into him for him, or for what he makes you appear like to other people.

[Anonymous]

I bet deeply on a subconscious level they would think he is less of a man but would not leave him do too Social constructs

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't leave him. It might affect my whole "Oh my God, he's the best, most incredible, most perfect, toughest man on the face of the planet" mentality I have about him now, but I wouldn't leave him ever. I'd get to go play doctor. Right after I kick the ass of whoever it is who hurt my man.

[loverlove123]

I don't care if myboyfriend lost a fight. because I never only liked him for how strong he his but for his brave heart,and his cleaver brain.Any way for the other guy that fight him am going to forgive him.

[IHateBeingaMan]

ummm yes you did like him for how strong he was, because you expected him to approach you first and ask you out first, make the first move, start conversation, overall, initiate and lead

[loverlove123]

i geuss you are right.But what happends if that happend to your girl friend

[IHateBeingaMan]

Wouldn't know because I won't ever get a gf

[loverlove123]

lol

[loverlove123]

that means you are so going to be lonely all your life

[RedSmartie]

I'd be pissed that he got into a physical fight in the first place. It's so childish to fight physically. I'd ask him if he's a grown man or a hormonal high school boy.

[RedSmartie]

But if the other guy hit first and he was just defending himself, I wouldn't be mad. I'd take him to someone who can fix him up while ranting about how childish and devolved the other guy was.

[loverlove123]

sorry to say this but that's not begin a good girl friend. but I some or your answer I like them(some)

[RedSmartie]

It's a fine way to be a good girlfriend if I don't want to date a meat headed idiot who resolves his problems with his fists rather than his mind, which I don't.

[IHateBeingaMan]

guys are expected to have balls, be aggressive, after all, they have testosterone, that's why you expect guys to approach you and ask you out, make the first move, initiate things, lead, fighting also involves testosterone

[RedSmartie]

I'd prefer to take the initiative with a guy than to be with an idiot who resolves his problems with his fists. But, and this may come as a shock to your tiny little brain, those things don't necessarily come hand in hand.

[IHateBeingaMan]

yeah but I bet deep in the back of your head you're going to be old fashioned

[RedSmartie]

And I can bet by your username that you're going to get a sex change.

[IHateBeingaMan]

yeah because I hate being rejected by girls with a huge raging passion

[RedSmartie]

And you know how many men want trans women? Next to none.

[IHateBeingaMan]

well sometimes a guy has to fight to release all of his anger and frustration for life being cruel and unfair often times

[RedSmartie]

And that's extremely immature. It implies that you think have no control over your life and that your happiness has everything to do with other people.

[IHateBeingaMan]

Yeah well I hate having to take responsibility for my life because I want it to happen when I want it to happen

[Anonymous]

Yeah its a little emasculating, but it happens. I really would like to have seen him pound that guys head into the ground, but you can't win em all. I'll get to nurse him back to good health and confidence too so...yay either way ^^

[MaskofInsanity]

No, but depending on the circumstances I might be turned off by the fact that he was fighting. I find that incredibly unattractive.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want my boyfriend to get into a fight in the first place. I don't think fighting is a solution unless you need to defend yourself. And No I wouldn't leave him if he lost a fight, if I love him.

[snowangle]

I wouldn't think differently of him. I'd probably be very upset that my boyfriend is hurt and I'd take care of him.

[IHateBeingaMan]

girls expect guys to take care of them, not the other way around

[snowangle]

Oh sheesh. I don't have time for his foolish pride. I care about him and I'm helping him.

[IHateBeingaMan]

yeah well girls expect guys to be leaders

[snowangle]

So whine about it.

[IHateBeingaMan]

yeah, fighting shows strength and it should

[Maryanna199184]

I'd be mad that he was fighting at all! But I'd take care of him

[IHateBeingaMan]

but I thought girls expect guys to take care of them, not the other way around?

[Maryanna199184]

Guess it depends on the girl. I'm mostly the care taker so I always expect to clean up after others

[IHateBeingaMan]

I'm surprised

[Maryanna199184]

Surprised about what?

[IHateBeingaMan]

because girls expect guys to take care of them more than the other way around

[Maryanna199184]

Not this girl. It's always been the other way around. Of course I want a guy who can take care of me for once but sometimes it doesn't work that way

[IHateBeingaMan]

well too many people argue that guys have to be the "rock" in the relationship

[Maryanna199184]

Again I guess It depends on the girl because I'm pretty independent so I usually take care of everything.

[IHateBeingaMan]

and they argue that as for why guys have to make the first move and ask the girl out

[lauramor]

No ha ha why would that matter that much? at least it doesn't to me.

[Prof_Don]

Most girls would Probably be proud he fought back even if he did lose.

[Anonymous]

I would be proud he fought back. I wouldn't leave him I would just take care of him and hurt the person that did it>:p

[loverlove123]

how sweet

[IHateBeingaMan]

the guy is supposed to protect, not vice-versa

[Opinion Owner]

it can go both ways not just one

[IHateBeingaMan]

I'm shocked

[UberTroll]

No way. I'd tend to his wounds <3

[IHateBeingaMan]

girls expect the guy to be the rock in the relationship, be the strong one, dominant one, leader, protective role, so this sounds hypocritical

[UberTroll]

He's still stronger than I am whether or not he loses any fights. It just means he wasn't as strong as the guy he was fighting. Physical strength doesn't matter much to me anyway.

[IHateBeingaMan]

why is his mental strength more important?

[UberTroll]

Because I care about how we get along more than how well he can beat up another guy.

[IHateBeingaMan]

Yeah well girls expect guys to protect them

[Anonymous]

Fighting is just stupid.

[IHateBeingaMan]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't entertain silly questions.If you don't understand why "ihatebeingaman",then maybe you are the latter part of my answer.Goodday.

[IHateBeingaMan]

fighting should prove a guy has balls

[Opinion Owner]

And this is why guys here can't get a girl in the first place.you guys act like children.terribly immature and irrational and don't think things through.but its not my problem...its yours.

[ihatetakingcharge]

yeah well some guys just have to fight literally to vent out anger and frustration for how life and society is so cruel, tough, unfair, get sick and tired of how they are expected to be so strong all the damn time, because they are expected to always grow a pair, man up, expected to be assertive and be a leader, maybe some guys just have to vent out their frustration of gender roles

[ihatetakingcharge]

don't know why they would see this as a turn off

[IHateBeingaMan]

they should lose attraction

[Anonymous]

I would leave