I think its socially polite to react that way if you ask a girl such a personal question and the answer is no.
What else are they going to say? "I'm sorry?" or, "You into girls then?" or "Bad luck?" etc..?
Being surprised just seems to be the best and most appropriate thing to say.
That being said, if people are checking whether or not you have a boyfriend (especially guys), then there is probably some interest there, which might explain all the "you are probably pretty" answers, and indeed, there has got to be at least something about you to cause them to ask so maybe you are.
So if so many people are asking, why don't you have a boyfriend yet? :) LOL =-)
Take your time...
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They find you attractive, even if they might not be attracted to you. I'm surprised if I see a woman who is really cool and yet doesn't have a boyfriend. See it as a compliment.
I don't think that they assume you're easy or that you're a "serial dater." I would think that they think that you just spend time with a lot of guys and won't "settle" - but that you are attractive, so you go out with different guys a lot. Think of it as a way of them saying that you must be popular because of positive things.
They probably see a lot of good qualities in you. Friendly / kind, attractive, loving, etc... so when they hear that you aren't dating anyone, they're surprised that apparently no one's found you and seen the same qualities that everyone else sees in you.
I get that all the time too! its b'c we are sexy and yeah a lot of guys would be shocked to see how we DONT have a man..consider it a compliment but yeah it gets annoying hearing it all the time I agree
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There are a few options:
1 - they think you're attractive and imagine you would have a boyfriend so they are expressing genuine surprise
2 - its a way of flattery, fake surprise in order to give the impressions mentioned in #1 in an indirect method
3 - they see how you dress and imagine that because you're not crazy and slutty then you must be tied dowProbably because you look old and/ or look like you have already four children.
The older a woman is the more likely she's got a partner.
The the fatter and older a woman looks the more likely she's been through with pregnancy and the stress of raising children.girlfriend material tends to be unavailable ...
a subtile hint will help ... get a new shirt with a print on it ... "I have no boyfriend yet ..."
(that was no joke)If you are a nice person, fun to be with, attractive, nice smile, good personality etc, then people might assume you have a Boyfriend because that's wht everyone is looking for in the other persn.
either because they think you are very attractive or they want you to think that you are highly desirable. it tends to be a flirting technique or something people will do before asking you out.
Most guys, including myself, will automatically assume that attractive girls are taken. The way you dress has nothing to do with it. Definitely take it as a compliment.
you probably give off a, I'm a cereal monogamist, vibe.
you are probably really attractive. its hard for most people to think an attractive woman could be single, or at least for any long period of time.
Erm, it's a compliment?
generally attractive women have obviously more dating opportunities, so it figures.hay guys think that beautiful attractive women are automatically spoken for .. I mean wouldn't you assume that a super model stud would be in some sort of a relationship. take it as a compliment ...
Maybe cause they think you should have a boyfriend.
Girls aren't typically players (date more than one guy at a time)
Probably because you are beautiful
you're probably very beautiful
becuase you are really hot.
because you are girlfriend material
It's probably because you're pretty.
because they think your hot
You're probably hot
maybe because you are hot
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