Guys are usually straightforward. At least the guys I have in my life. Tell you what the really mean. Won’t speak in riddles. So if a guy says that here, you in the friend zone until you prove to be worthy otherwise. I don’t know about guys around the world, but in my area, that’s what it means
Could mean he has a crush on you. Also remember the most success were relationships come from friendship without friendship, there's no respect. Without respect there is no trust. Anybody can love but people that love still will break trust. So honestly the most successful relationships come from being best friends with friendship. There is trust and respect. There is a good chance he has a crush on you
One thing I’ve learnt about men is that they say what they mean. If he liked you more than a friend he would try everything possible to not be “friend zoned” and by him using the word friend they way he did would suggest he means just friends.
In most of the cases we say what we mean. Hence, "let us be friends" = "I don't want to have sex with you and never gonna want to". But some guys are like girls, they change their mind often, just a few % of them though.
Who knows but i always said id want to be withsomeone who was a best friend first.. Releases tension and makes a close connection. Give him a big random hug and listen for his heart to speed up. Physical sign of attraction. thats what cassanova did.
Interesting! So to you if a guy says a girl is his "best friend" he means it's something more? Cause otherwise guys have guy best friends? Cool, thanks for answering! :)
Saying you're a best friend just expresses a close bond, it doesn't suggest if he's attracted to you or not. Although I would lean toward that he is, or at least open to more with you. Most guys lean that way with their female friends.
To a guy being a friend doesn't affect your attractiveness negatively. If anything they're often interested in expanding on a friendship with a female.
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I personally have had female best friends. It's not that we mean much about it. I was just able to talk to them about anything and they would keep everything to themselves without them judging me or getting mad at me for something that I did in the past. They understood my feelings and why I did or didn't do things. Right now my best friend is a woman and I feel like I can tell her anything because she listens.
So when I say she is my best friend that is what she is, someone very dear and I feel like I’m completely myself with and throughly enjoy talking to and being around. Sometimes there are feelings but they are kept secluded from the friendship so it doesn’t mess or complicate things. Then if she says she has feelings and I have feelings would be when they come to play but as far as best friends it’s just that with feelings aside. If that makes since
No he means exactly what he says! There are no hidden messages! Guys don’t do that they are straight up straight forward and don’t play games! Your his mate friend buddy best friend!
I think that it depends, and there is a way to find what does he want. If you always see him like he is preparing to se you, i am saying that he tryes to look better, he is likely to want to be your boyfriend, but if he shows you as he is, you look him while he is bad dressed or he doesn't try to look better, he probaly wants to be your best friend
It means you're to rock with him everywhere and anywhere, there's loyalty and trust there. If you have feelings for him tho, talk to him, don't make assumptions.
When guy say that and mean it he a keeper his feeling for you is deeper then you think basically he saying he can tell you anything there no secrets and no judgement
"Friend" when used in addressing a body and not expressly preceded immediately by "boy," "girl," or "special," always indicates that the person addressed has been FRIEND-ZONED. And have a nice day.
You are either doomed to the "friend zone" or he is really into you. Guys will vary on this point but it looks like he's walking the tightrope on this one: it's so hard to tell. Let the situation play out a bit and see.
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Guys are usually straightforward. At least the guys I have in my life. Tell you what the really mean. Won’t speak in riddles. So if a guy says that here, you in the friend zone until you prove to be worthy otherwise. I don’t know about guys around the world, but in my area, that’s what it means
Could mean he has a crush on you. Also remember the most success were relationships come from friendship without friendship, there's no respect. Without respect there is no trust. Anybody can love but people that love still will break trust. So honestly the most successful relationships come from being best friends with friendship. There is trust and respect. There is a good chance he has a crush on you
One thing I’ve learnt about men is that they say what they mean. If he liked you more than a friend he would try everything possible to not be “friend zoned” and by him using the word friend they way he did would suggest he means just friends.
In most of the cases we say what we mean. Hence, "let us be friends" = "I don't want to have sex with you and never gonna want to". But some guys are like girls, they change their mind often, just a few % of them though.
Who knows but i always said id want to be withsomeone who was a best friend first.. Releases tension and makes a close connection. Give him a big random hug and listen for his heart to speed up. Physical sign of attraction. thats what cassanova did.
Much of the time it means that he sees you as more. Otherwise in most cases he would have a guy best friend.
Interesting! So to you if a guy says a girl is his "best friend" he means it's something more? Cause otherwise guys have guy best friends? Cool, thanks for answering! :)
That is my opinion, yes. There are exceptions but I would say much of the time it's different.
Yeah, I understand! Thanks for commenting! it's a helpful answer! :)
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It's neutral.
Saying you're a best friend just expresses a close bond, it doesn't suggest if he's attracted to you or not. Although I would lean toward that he is, or at least open to more with you. Most guys lean that way with their female friends.
To a guy being a friend doesn't affect your attractiveness negatively. If anything they're often interested in expanding on a friendship with a female.
I personally have had female best friends. It's not that we mean much about it. I was just able to talk to them about anything and they would keep everything to themselves without them judging me or getting mad at me for something that I did in the past. They understood my feelings and why I did or didn't do things. Right now my best friend is a woman and I feel like I can tell her anything because she listens.
Are you into her at all ROmanticaly
So when I say she is my best friend that is what she is, someone very dear and I feel like I’m completely myself with and throughly enjoy talking to and being around. Sometimes there are feelings but they are kept secluded from the friendship so it doesn’t mess or complicate things. Then if she says she has feelings and I have feelings would be when they come to play but as far as best friends it’s just that with feelings aside. If that makes since
If I said that to a chick it's a hint that I want the benefits.
What's better than a friend with benefits? A best friend with benefits.
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No he means exactly what he says! There are no hidden messages! Guys don’t do that they are straight up straight forward and don’t play games! Your his mate friend buddy best friend!
I think that it depends, and there is a way to find what does he want. If you always see him like he is preparing to se you, i am saying that he tryes to look better, he is likely to want to be your boyfriend, but if he shows you as he is, you look him while he is bad dressed or he doesn't try to look better, he probaly wants to be your best friend
It means you're to rock with him everywhere and anywhere, there's loyalty and trust there. If you have feelings for him tho, talk to him, don't make assumptions.
It usually means he likes you in a non-sexual nature. Unless of course you ARE having sex already, then I’d say I means just as is sounds.
When guy say that and mean it he a keeper his feeling for you is deeper then you think basically he saying he can tell you anything there no secrets and no judgement
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"Friend" when used in addressing a body and not expressly preceded immediately by "boy," "girl," or "special," always indicates that the person addressed has been FRIEND-ZONED.
And have a nice day.
You are either doomed to the "friend zone" or he is really into you. Guys will vary on this point but it looks like he's walking the tightrope on this one: it's so hard to tell. Let the situation play out a bit and see.
Hard to say on this one. If he isn't giving you any other signs it might just be he sees you as his closest friend.
It means you can have benefits, but that's capped, it won't lead to a relationship beyond that.
I think it means just that. He considers you to be a great friend, but it is a non-romantic relationship.