My cousin's boyfriend falling in love with me!

[Anonymous]

Me and my cousin are practically sisters we'er so close and love each other so much. She had a boyfriend that she didn't treat very well, she'll always tell him why were you talk to these girls! And one day she'll decide he's still her boyfriend the next she'll say its over anyways he broke up with her so officially they'er not together now, before that her boyfriend and I became friends we talked about EVERYTHING! and it was crazy how much we had in common and we grew VERY close he's like the other version of me, lately he'ed always tell me that he loves me A lot at first I thought it was just a friend thing but last night he said he was serious. I can't help but feel a bit guilty I'm afraid that I'll hurt my cousin so what should I do

[laceyz565]

Bitch are you serious? This is your COUSINS EX BOYFRIEND, REMEBER? THE GIRL YOU SAID WHO WAS PRACTICLLY LIKE YOUR SISTER! Omg questions like this make me so mad because that's your cousin, blood. Someone who your and she's suppous to trust with eachothers life, now she can't even trust you with her men? You guys have a bond that no one should be able to come between, like that bond that most families have. He's a boy, who knows how long he will "love" you for. Boys are more then often just temporary but that relationship you have with your cousin, that friendship is life time. You think she will ever trust you the same again? No you will break that all for what? A boy? Bitch please save the sob story! Your the one who decided to get close to her ex, no one else told you to do that. I try not to be friends with my friends exs because first there her ex and second if I don't have the fucking self control I won't put , myself in that sistuation! Like and that's my friends, family should be even more off limits because there fucking family? If they got married he would be your cousin in law, just let that sink in. So many have trouble with the concept of empathy. Put yourself in her shoes and really try to understand how she would feel and what yur doing here. I don't care if you say you always put your "cousin first" this is not something that can be shared so easy. This has nothing to do with putting her first or not this is about having a little class and caring about her feelings because this is her emotions that are invested here. If you want to stop putting your cousin first, go ahead but here's not something you can say this to, this is about being a decent cousin or at least a human being. You are young. That boy is not worth it you don't know this yet but there will be many boys in your life time, I'm sure you can find one that's not your cousins ex. Boys come and go family is forever. When your 16 and 17 having a boyfriend seeems like the best thing in the world. But you can trust me on this one when I say your cousin is a little bit more important in this situatio.There's a thing its called karma what comes around goes around, remeber that once this boy or your cousim ends up fucking you over and ypur wondering why. Karmas a bitch. We think we know someone and then they surprise you. A good example pf that would be yourself

[Asker]

I forgot to mention that they are best friends now no hard feelings

[laceyz565]

Not yet

[Anonymous]

Put your feelings for this dude aside.. your cousin is your blood AND FAMILY so the cousin is first priority..

[Asker]

I always did put her first ALWAYS now I just want something good for me!

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Just nope.

[Anonymous]

I can just see the family reunion now lmao. Where is the common sense in this day and age?

[Anonymous]

Always put yourself in neutral and think what is the best option for both side.

[Justforfun1973]

Ask cousins blessing.