"Stop calling/texting her" tactic?

[1234321]

A guy who texted you a lot all of a sudden stops.

How would you react?

[BrunetteNYC]

depends on the situation, how long were talking? How much did we mean to each other? Is this a growing thing with strong attraction and good feelings already established? If it something like that, then I would try to see what's up, but if not, and it's just totally new and he fades away, I'd assume he was not into me.

If his not being around hurts and I miss him, I will react in a way to show him that, eventually. If not, and no feelings are there, I guess I'd just move on.

[CrazynKinky]

Depends on the situation completely.

If it was a boyfriend fuck him he's an ass I'll tell him to grow a pair and just dump me not fizzle

If it was a guy who I was hanging out with and thinking it might go somewhere oh well it's not over it

But I have friends that we go off and on texting everyday to not talking for months it's just how it works

[Stacyzee]

If I cared enough about him...I would message him a few days later or at most a week.

If I didn't care at all..I wouldn't text him period.

It depends on your relationship with this girl and how she views you.

[obriensg1]

I had this happen in reverse a couple weeks ago. I went on three nice dates with a woman over a period of just under two weeks, and suddenly when I went to ask on a fourth, nothing. No reply to voicemail or a text. I am curious as hell why, and have debated texting her to ask, but I feel I should leave it alone. Personally, I think it is rude to not say anything.

I think the guy lost interest. It's too bad he doesn't have the stones to just say that

[washize]

Depends on how I felt about him and how close we were.

If It was a close friend, I'd be worried and ask if everything was ok.

If it was someone who I wasn't really close with or friends with, I could care less.

[missjenny95]

I will try initiating contact but will stop if i feel like i'm doing 80% of initiating contact and just assume he's uninterested/multiple dating others. i will move on or if i still have feelings, i will try but i will hold back. stop playing games, man.. it's tiring

[dancing201]

If I really liked the guy... I would be pretty upset... I think he would be chicken if he did that. Just be straight up and honest

[Anonymous]

It depends on how long we were talking beforehand. Honestly, I'd probably be sad that he lost interest in me. I'd probably shoot him a text and if he didn't reply I'd just move on.

[Anonymous]

if he really matters to me I would contact him and see what's up but if I don't really care about him I wouldn't even bother messaging him.

[BayHarborButcher]

I'd call him and if he didn't respond, I'd move on.

[Theguyoverthere]

You're one of the few because most girls don't even check.

[Theguyoverthere]

Most girls will just not be phased by it.

[heythere]

Tactics can never be a one size fits all.

[Anonymous]

Assume he lost interest

[Anonymous]

Depends on how I felt about the guy.

[jerryleelewis]

Assuming he is friendly, I'd be upset.