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I'm no longer in a dead-end relationship with someone wasting my time. I found someone else on my same page. He knows I'm dating with intention. We're doing things in the old-fashioned manner and withholding sex too.

My only issue now is the dead-end job. There is no advancement, no holiday nor vacation payments, nothing else to learn, everything is a routine and the supervisor has always been cheap with everyone (doesn't even give greeting Christmas cards). Unlike my past relationship, I can't dump my job. If I do then I'll have no money to pay for my future growing food business nor other things.

When I was with my ex boyfriend, I felt no hope, he would give vague answers and there was no progress; years of nothing. Overall is a dead-end job similar to a dead-end relationship or not?

Whenever I tell people about things I’ve been through, they immediately start saying that I’m a very strong person because of it.

But I don’t feel strong. I’m in pain a lot and am mentally distressed most of the time. So I don’t understand why they think that.

So piggybacking off my previous post @DizzyDesii brought up a lot of valid points in the comments and I must say I agree with her. Even though I had a few questions because ," how will you date or network if your don't like people?" She mentioned maintaining associates and connections only which is useful and because I don't trust people like that.







Would you be friends with someone who doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything? All they want to do is talk in the phone all the time? ↗