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It’s possible my message got kind of buried but I don’t know. This guy acted flirty towards me at my brothers party but when I messaged him on Snapchat, he didn’t open it for a month and when he finally did open it, he never responded. My friend who knows a bit more about the situation still thinks he likes me because apparently her ex did the same thing to her but they still ended up together, but I’m not sure.

My rebounder arrived today. I use it for physiotherapy but also for fun 🤩

I have placed it on one side of my large minimalist studio…. I have empty space on opposite wall, I’m wondering if I should get another for company in case they want to jump or if I suddenly want to jump on impulse it will not be rude bc they have the option as well.

My mom would always mention that this guy I’m attracted to gives good hugs and he smells good.

The story is my mom goes to her boyfriend’s church and her boyfriend wanted to find me a boyfriend. I never had a boyfriend or really got male attention… my mom on the other hand had many love stories… her boyfriend bought her roses every Wednesday when she 16…. Whenever she told her MANY stories I would get sad. She is more attractive. I don’t really look like her…

So he recommended a guy at church… he’s very attractive and a lot of girls like him… he has brought women to church…(I live away but I come visit from time to time)

He has been close to a woman in her 40s at church.. he was into her. my mom is in her 50s..

But I was so excited bc I thought he was attractive and I would dress up … whenever I talked to my mom about him she would get quiet. She also said that I should wait until I get my weight down. I remember “talking back “ to my mother before going to a church picnic to see him …she said “he deserves a girlfriend who is respectful “ … I didn’t go… I felt self conscious and decided not to like him

I do remember finally being introduced and he did glance back at me before walking out the door.

My mom is more attractive so…

im going to get some work done

I realize that when I’m PMSing my anxiety sky rockets which leads me to overthink and get highly suspicious of my boyfriend. It doesn’t help that I’ve been cheated on in the past, and my boyfriend has a history of lying… Please tell me that I’m not the only one 🥲

My boyfriend has gauged ears and he's making them bigger all the time. Personally I think it's cute and sexy. How about you?

When I’ve asked other Reddit subs, I’ve gotten chewed out but there were a few women that got where I was coming from. I know it’s very very early on to jump to conclusions, for example I was expecting him to ask me what I do for work when he mentioned his title. It’s too soon to assume but still kinda on the fence, I’m purple & he’s grey

Can guys see when you have a double chin!! Please help!! I was excited to be on top and I giggled and then he raised his eyebrow, then told me to get off and I said “fuck alright, sorry” and I got off, weirdest shit of my life.

I find it so frustrating to live in a world where saying want you do not mean is expected to the point where being direct su “weird” and being honest is invariably misconstrued.

It is not as if I do not have sense of humor, I can joke etc (sometimes it is difficult for me to distinguish between sarcasm and bluntness coming from others, tho I think this may have more to do with people using jokes to say what they actually mean…)

Anyhow, if I’m communicating, I have no reason to not be direct and while I know some people try to gain leverage by not being direct, I just do not understand why other people go along with games to the point where it is cultural default. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Just to be clear, I am not referring to being an a hole- using honesty as an excuse. Being direct doesn’t mean you say everything in your head. You can say you do not want to talk about something or just say nothing. Being direct just mean not using language to jerk people around in my opinion.

🙄 WHY IS THIS AUTOMATICALLY PUT IN “GUYS BEHAVIOR” I’m not a dude. 👀

• When you hear a name without seeing the person do you imagine what they look like?

for example what do you imagine a person with the following names look like:

Tiffani

Nadia

Jenny

Blair

Maria

Alexa

Nicole

Margot

Greta

Martha

Enriqueta

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just give a short description of each what type of person and looks come to mind when you hear those names.

then you meet them and you’re like oh I thought you looked different etc. And sometimes you were spot on

Add your name at the end so people can guess what you look like and personality etc. Just based on name. :)

I am not married yet, and I have no kids, but I've had a number in mind ever since that day in sex education when most of my girlfriends said something like, "ewwww, I'm NEVER doing THAT!"

I feel like I have an avoidant attachment style or something

Hey GAG , it’s been a while.

I have re downloaded this app to ask a confrontational topic about whether I should wear shorts in front of my boyfriend’s family. Me and my boyfriend are going back home to visit his parents for their wedding and we will be staying with them, it’s his mom dad and two younger brothers. On a regular basis, I wear gym shorts as a daily wear. I have created outfits and ordered from SHEIN to avoid my daily habits of wearing shorts, but I will wear shorts when I work out for sure. My problem is, when me and my boyfriend go to the gym, his brothers may want to tag along OR i might workout in their garage and use their tread mill. Half my workout consist of me wearing an oversized sweater dress to do cardio and the other half is taking it off and doing weights. Should I do my best to avoid being in gym shorts at all times? If i workout out in their garage I would of course need to come back inside the house and shower. I will be doing my workouts as early as I can. I just don’t know if it’s crossing boundaries or I’m just over thinking it. I’m just doing my best to not make my bfs mom feel some type of way. But I will say, she is young spirited and wears gym shark herself so I just have no idea if would be ok if I did too. And if they’re any girls who would like to give some insight on what they wear around their bfs families would be great thanks all!!

He actually called me after he ghosted me and played me…(weeks later) I told him that it was weighing on my mental health… that’s the only reason

but his closure did not make me feel better…

Men who watch trans 🌽…. Are they closeted or gay even if they pursue/ date women… I don’t understand that dynamic at all

He follows a tranny that lives in the same city and the trans post rated r explicit content

this dude had the nerve to play me/ ghost me and he looks at that? Lmaooo comedy