- 28 d
I feel like there is missing details about this. Are you two in a relationship? having sex? Or just tickling eachother? Or Cuddling? Did he say get off in a mean way? In a playful way? These details seems personal but it usually does help people understand the situation abit more.
Honestly it's usually unusual to me for a guy to not like a woman being on him, unless it's something else going on. Like say if he's taken by someone he wouldn't like that kind of possibly intimate attention by another woman. If you been able to come this far with him it's unlikely he dislikes something as small as a double chin on you though.
Did you ask him why?02 Reply- Asker27 d
We were fooling around before and I got ontop of him because I wanted to makeout because he was just touching and kissing my boobs instead and I got bored, so when I got ontop he got angry told me to get off because he doesn’t want people to see us but at the same time he was kissing my neck and rubbing my chest before. So I don’t get why he draws the line at me getting ontop to makeout (he said it in a mean way like HURRY!”) then he went back to fondoling me instead to wear people could see, we were in his car but like parked in an EMPTY parking lot
- 27 d
I see do you two do that in the parking lot often or do you two go to eachother's places for that? Does he see a relationship with you or are you two just friends?
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- 29 d
You cannot be jumping on somebody without consent, you wouldn’t want somebody doing that to you. Maybe he just genuinely wanted to hang out I don’t know if you’ve had sexual relationships before they but if you didn’t that could be considered sexual assault/sexual abuse depending on where you’re at.
02 Reply- Asker29 d
I asked him before I got on top though, like he knew I was, then last minute when I was ontop he said GET OFF!!! That’s why I was like wtfff
- 29 d
I don't know asker don’t sleep with weird men?
- 28 d
hey, id bet the act of jumping on top being confident then letting out a little giggle, was a moment he wasn't expecting or probably may have never even experienced... my deviant self imagined, upon him saying that, i grab his throat with one hand and guide him in with another and say oh no baby we gonna fuck!
21 Reply- 28 d
My kind of girl!! But then again i can't ever imagine telling a girl to get off of me lmfao! 😂
- Anonymous(30-35)1 mo
Of all the reasons, you fear he saw your double chin? My goodness stop doing that sht. The world is hard enough on women without you doing it to yourself.
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- u28 d
Whatever happened, it probably wasn't about your chin. Have you done cowgirl with him before this incident?
12 Reply- Asker28 d
No I haven’t
- 28 d
Maybe he just didn't like you being on top. I have had girls who would get in that position and simply use my body to get themselves off while ignoring the fact that they had done nothing for me.
2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. It could be he saw something on you that turned him off , so he instantly changed his mind. Did you ask him why?
03 Reply- Asker29 d
He said he didn’t want people to see us, because the window was open
- Asker29 d
I did it a second time when he was really in the mood and he didn’t seem to care, I don’t know
- 29 d
This could have been simply because he was annoyed with something that you said.
The chin theory is silly, the weight thing could factor in but its unlikely anybody would be insensitive to that. Id guess that he was annoyed with something you said or was trying to do something and was feeling smothered.
But you never know! You should ask!13 Reply- Asker28 d
I didn’t say anything, I smiled and giggled, then he got mad and said Get off!!! I was so confused
- Asker28 d
I was just happy, he was the first guy I ever got this close with
- 28 d
I was more meaning the hour before hand! (Leading up) this is just a suggestion as it definitely won't be about your chin.
2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Weak? Immature? Inexperienced? Boring? Doesn't want a girl taking charge because it threatens his ego?
Find someone who appreciates your spunk, knows how to fuck in more than one position, and is concerned about your fun and pleasure, not just his own.10 Reply- 29 d
U seriously think tht its coz he saw ur chin huhh... it can't be... i dont know how heavy u r but if u r on the bulky side it could be the reason n if u r not fat then it could be something else... i have been with men who couldn't handle me on top n said they feel pressure on their cock n can't do much... so it could be anything but ur chin
22 Reply- 28 d
Seriously there actual men out there that couldn’t handle you on top? Like actually you on top was actually too much pressure on their cock? Is that a real thing? Lmfao 🤣
- 28 d
@9in_Serpent oh yea there r actual men like tht lol n i saw it they were not lying coz a few times while asking me to get off they just cummed n then said this is the reason they were trying to get me off of them
- Anonymous(45 Plus)29 d
It could be any number of reasons. This sort of lack of respect will be inherent as long as you continue entertaining friends with benefits and casual sex...
12 Reply- Asker29 d
Hmmmmmm, true
- Opinion Owner29 d
Since you agree, then it's time to reach much higher than what this fallen society promotes. Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind...
- 28 d
So I’ve only had an issue riding and that’s with the guy I lost my v card to. I am still tight but back then it was super tight and on our second time having sex my lips/hole gripped him and I pulled his foreskin passed what it would normally go to and it tore a tiny bit.
17 Reply- 28 d
Damn i would never complain if a girl was that tight! That sounds like freaking heaven for my bug guy!! Lol
- 28 d
@9in_Serpent he was really big and it hurt so much but also lol neither of us liked lube
- 28 d
Oh no way how big was he? And damn no lube as well! Lol
- 28 d
@9in_Serpent 8 1/2
- 28 d
@KittygosMeoWW damn!! I can't even begin to imagine how tight of fucking fit that was!! 😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤
- 28 d
@9in_Serpent I couldn’t ride him till 4 months of us having sex 6-7 times a day
- 28 d
Damn! That kinda sounds hot tbh lol
- 29 d
Either you were too heavy or he had a sudden discomfort and had to get you off for the moment... Or... He's too dominant that he doesn't want you on top
22 Reply- Asker29 d
What sudden discomfort can guys get though?
- 29 d
Maybe his dick got into an uncomfortable position that caused him discomfort?
- 1 mo
No idea. ARE you fat? It never bothered me, before. All 4 of my ex's were at least chubbettes.
I PREFER her on top, at least until I ready to pop, then, I'd prefer her on the bottom to reduce the slop. (Hmmm, nice song lyric!)10 Reply - 28 d
He probably has an issue with being dominated (even the slightest bit) in bed.
21 Reply Maybe he didn’t want to do it cowgirl style anymore? Who knows?
30 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. He my have felt insecure about it or was just being obnoxious. I'd consider it a red flag. 🚩
12 Reply- Asker1 mo
He did tell me his fav position was missionary before and stuff but still I thought it was weird
- 28 d
I dunno it’s strange I like jumping on top too but I’m little my husband calls me the bopper because I’m bopping up and down on him lol I also like doggy. We often start on top and as I get closer we will switch to doggy
10 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. He has issues. Is this the first time he did this?
20 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'd say you were too heavy. if you have a double chin than you are probably too heavy.
02 Reply- Asker29 d
I don’t have a double chin I don’t think but if you’re on top of someone, doesn’t 2 chins appear?
- 1 mo
Some guys are boring and don't like women to be on top. They liked to be in dom positions. It should've been exciting for him.
10 Reply - 1 mo
maybe he just didn't want you ontop of him or wasn't in the mood
00 Reply - 29 d
That could be multiple things, he might want to do a sex position where he is in charge
10 Reply - 29 d
He’s chickenshit you being in control. Probably thought he was going to cum.
10 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't know but guys like that are weird. I like it when my woman gets all over me and is touchy.
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. No dude is worried about a double chin while fucking
00 Reply- 28 d
He's a cowboy who isn't looking for a cowgirl !!!
00 Reply - 28 d
Were you maybe sitting on it in a painful way?
02 Reply- Asker28 d
Both my legs were on the sides, I wasn’t pressing onto him, he just yelled
- 28 d
Are you really big up top? Maybe the sight of your boobs looming over him scared him.
- 28 d
He sounds immature and weird
20 Reply - 29 d
He likes being on top. Thats it.
10 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)29 d
Maybe he doesn't like something on you, or perhaps he just doesn't like to be dominated by any girl.
00 Reply - 28 d
Cause he's not a mountain you can just hike 😂
01 Reply- Asker28 d
LMAOO
- 27 d
He thought you were laughing at his dick.
10 Reply - 28 d
Are you under age? And what's your and his age?
02 Reply- Asker28 d
We’re both the same age
- 28 d
And that would be?
- Anonymous(30-35)29 d
Is he a weakling, boring lover?
21 Reply- 28 d
Thats what i am fucking saying!! He sounds very immature!
- 29 d
He wasn't in the mood?
10 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)29 d
He could taste his spleen.😆
00 Reply - 29 d
May b you are too heavy
00 Reply Doesn't like you that way
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